Ling Zongwei: It is a lie, how can it be good

These two days occasionally watch "Flowers And Send Each Other", the common feature of the two sisters is that they cannot tolerate lies, even the lies of the closest and most favorite people. Again, I once stressed to the teachers that the education of students must be frank, to let them understand the truth as much as possible, do not believe in any white lies, since it is a lie, how to be white, lies are still lies after all, once the truth is revealed, how do you let students see you, how to look at society? Unfortunately, many homeroom teachers always regard "white lies" as a guideline, and the same is true for those who are keen to instill "positive energy" false stories in their children. Imagine how a person feels once he finds himself living in a lie along the way.

I wonder what those who try to lie as good will think of Thomas Jefferson's following passage: "The first time a liar needs a lot of determination, but the second and third times will be much easier, then lying will become a habit, and in the end, his lies will be like flowing water, and the truth he says will be not accepted." 」 The falsehood of language leads to the hypocrisy of the heart, which eventually devours all the good in human nature. "But looking back, I was still naïve, and since they had already tried to lie for good intentions, wouldn't it be absurd for you to let them all say this?" Think again, which person has not lied, Cindy hates her boyfriend for lying to her, but on the issue that the uncle is Xin Chen's biological father, is it not the same as lying to Xin Chen? From another point of view, isn't the plot of "Flowers All the Way" revolving around this lie? Thinking about it this way, what is the difference between a film and a liar?

"In a person's life, everyone will lie. What matters is not that we lie, but where we lie, what we lie, and how often we lie. "But one thing is certain, whether it's individuals or society sooner or later there will be a price to pay for lies." Teachers must keep a clear head on this issue.