I remember a passage that Professor Li Meijin said in the program.
✨ "Many families are trying to cultivate girls in the direction of everyone's boudoir. But a beautiful girl, once she encounters a bad person, has no ability to protect herself, because when she was a child, she was educated to be particularly civilized and polite, self-denying. But many people are not self-disciplined, and they will bully and hurt these beautiful girls. Therefore, parents let their children enter the society safely, and they must teach their children two things, the first is how to recognize people, and the second is how to protect themselves. ”
✨ Indeed, this society has never lacked complexity and sinister, and in order to cope, we should raise girls to be "wild", which is not to say that children are freed and unscrupulous, but that girls are strong enough in body, character and heart on the basis of education.
1. Raise a daughter, the body should be "wild"
The path of life is unpredictable, if she has a strong physique, it is the starting point of her daughter's smooth life. We raise our daughters, not to be delicate like Lin sisters, but to be healthy and beautiful and energetic. Girls who grew up in the company of "sports" are not only healthy, but even their willpower is far better than ordinary people.
2. Raise a daughter, the personality should be "wild" enough
In this society, parents must let their daughters understand that patience and tears are of little use. You can not take the initiative to attack others, but you also have to have armor, attitude and personality to not be easily overthrown by bad people and bad things. We must dare to resist, dare to scold, dare to beat and dare to yell at people, and grow fangs from weak bodies in order to make bad people timid.
3. Raise a daughter, the heart should be "wild"
When we teach girls to dare to release their "wildness" outward, we must also let them learn to establish their own life order inward, fill themselves with "ambition", and have a tenacious will not to give up easily if they do not reach the goal. Women should not be tied to the traditional female identity, and family and marriage are not the only destination. We must let our hearts carry our dreams to climb forward, no matter the wind, frost, rain and snow, we must leave ourselves unlimited possibilities in life.
✨ In fact, we girls should not be a pot of carefully trimmed potted plants, but should be wild growth, full of countless possibilities of nature's flowers. Therefore, do not spoil your daughter into an incompetent little princess, but teach her to have a "wild" side, let her be free from the torture of physical weakness, let her deal with the entanglement of bad people and bad things, let her avoid tasting the helplessness of depravity, so that it is the best way to protect her daughter.
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