In 2001, Ren Chengwei starred in "Snow Without a Trace", became famous in one fell swoop, and became the favorite male protagonist in people's hearts.
After this, he did not stop acting, "Inside and Outside the City", "Battle Changsha", "Zhiqing Family"........
On the screen, he is a tough man male protagonist, and in life, Ren Chengwei is a good husband, a good son, a good father, and he supports the family with rough and delicate love.
After becoming famous, Ren Chengwei did not forget to suffer with his wife Huang Lei.
In ordinary life, give the most intimate happiness to your family.
In 1970, Ren Chengwei was born, he had two older brothers and one younger brother.
The father is a small leader in the factory, the mother is an ordinary worker, and the salary received is still a drop in the bucket for the children who are waiting to be fed.
Even the clothes are worn in turn, the boss wears them for the second, the second grows tall and then gives the clothes to Ren Chengwei, and finally Ren Chengwei gives the clothes to the old man.
Although food, clothing, housing and transportation are a little tight, it is also lively for the family to eat together.
Among the 4 children, Ren Chengwei is the most mischievous of them. He liked to throw darts in the alley, and once he threw them into a tree, only to hit a child's navel in the eye impartially, and the blood dripped to the ground.
The child cried out on the spot and led the grandmother out, and the grandmother took the dart and scolded Ren Chengwei, "You little bunny cub!" Ren Chengwei was stunned and overwhelmed. At this time, the second brother came out, took the dart and pulled the leg and ran.
Ren Chengwei saw that the physical evidence was gone, felt that his father would not blame himself, and wandered to a friend's house, but his father heard about this matter after work, and dragged Ren Chengwei to the alley and beat him up.
Ren Chengwei was beaten by his father and cried, and what he didn't know was that this was the last time his father did it, and the only time he did it.
In 1983, before Ren Chengwei had his 13th birthday, his father passed away.
Looking at the children who were still growing, the mother gritted her teeth and pulled them up, and finally when it was time to go to school, Ren Chengwei gave her mother a headache.
Ren Chengwei returned home, saw that his mother was unhappy, and quickly asked what was going on, and his mother took a look at him and sighed deeply. The eerie atmosphere lasted for a week before the mother slowly spoke.
"Someone came to the house that day, came up and asked, how is your son studying, how do you let me answer", the mother's voice was not impatient, but it made Ren Chengwei blush.
He looked carefully at his mother's face, and there was a faint disappointment in it, and his heart ached.
After that, he began to sit at the desk, in order not to disappoint his mother, so that he could have a good university.
After another year of re-reading, Ren Chengwei went to the play. Before going to school, Ren Chengwei promised his mother that he would never fall in love in college.
Unexpectedly, when I arrived at the university, this promise was broken.
Ren Chengwei met Huang Lei at school, and the first time he saw her, he felt that she was different from other girls in the city, exuding a different temperament from the inside out.
And Huang Lei also saw Ren Chengwei, and only felt that this kid was stupid and stupid, extra simple.
The two are classmates, always bumping into each other, coming and going, and gradually developing feelings between the two, often walking side by side on campus.
For the love between the two, the teacher was extremely opposed after listening.
The teacher found Huang Lei to do ideological work, hoping that the two would break up, but Huang Lei was not moved, and the teacher found Ren Chengwei.
"You are in the county, Huang Lei is in the city, it is not suitable, sooner or later you will be separated"
"You talk about love and delay your studies, especially if you are still a baby in the county, it is not easy to find a job, you know no."
The teacher persuaded him, but Ren Chengwei was not moved, but inspired his motivation to learn, often playing the role of male and male in school performances.
As he entered the period of hot love, Ren Chengwei always tried to give gifts.
Huang Lei likes bears, and Ren Chengwei goes to buy them.
Huang Lei's birthday, Ren Chengwei sent a homemade gourd, his girlfriend is 70 years old, he punched 70 small holes in the gourd, born on April 6, he carved 4 moons and 6 small suns.
For a while, the weather was always raining, Huang Lei did not have rain boots, Ren Chengwei saw the pain and wanted to take advantage of the busy time to run a trip to the mall.
On the day he went, it was still raining, Ren Chengwei borrowed an umbrella and rushed out, after buying shoes and afraid of getting wet, he took the rain boots in his arms and returned to school.
He gave the shoes to Huang Lei, who looked at him, his body was already wet, his hair was wet and pasted on his face, and there was only a pair of rain boots, still clean.
Huang Lei took the shoe, and her heart was soft.
The school gave soap to the students, and he didn't want to give it to Huang Lei until it was almost time for vacation, and Huang Lei took out the soap.
Ren Chengwei looked at the soap, there was no trace of use at all, he looked at Huang Lei, his expression puzzled.
"Don't look at me like this, go home and give it to your mother, after all, she is not easy", Ren Chengwei listened to Huang Lei's words and inadvertently wiped his eyes.
He was touched by Huang Lei's kindness.
After spending a long time together, Ren Chengwei took Huang Lei home to see his mother, and when he saw Huang Lei, her mother was so happy that she couldn't close her mouth.
Just let Huang Lei sit down, then turned around and put the prepared dumplings into the pot, waited until the dumplings were cooked, and beckoned Huang Lei to eat quickly.
After eating, the mother saw Ren Chengwei go out and pulled Huang Lei to chat, "Before you came, he made a special call and said that the dumplings were smaller, and the dumplings on your side were small, so that you could eat a little more elegantly."
Huang Lei smiled embarrassedly after listening to it, but in her heart she was thinking about Ren Chengwei over and over again.
Soon after graduation, Huang Lei looked at the people around her, married, married, had children, and was anxious in her heart, why not get married.
Ren Chengwei also wants to get married, but he has 3,000 yuan in hand, and he can't get his hands on it, which makes him very anxious.
"Why don't you marry me?" asked Huang Lei, unable to bear it.
"I..." Ren Chengwei thought about it for half a day, and he couldn't think of a reason why he couldn't find a reason not to get married, and he didn't want to use no money to fool himself.
He looked directly into Huang Lei's eyes, "Find a day when we are not busy."
On November 14, 1996, the two got married, and there was no big wedding, just a meal with friends.
It is a public announcement of the relationship between the two.
After marriage, the two lived in the basement, cramped space, inaccessible sunlight, and a washstand that could grow grass at any time.
In a space of less than 10 square meters, Ren Chengwei and Huang Lei lived without any complaints.
Huang Lei still went to dub every day, from morning to night, but Ren Chengwei was idle, because he was too tall, he had no suitable role, and ran dragon sets in the crew every day.
After finishing work early, Ren Chengwei made dinner, and then went to pick up Huang Lei after work, and saw Huang Lei walking into himself in the dark night, Ren Chengwei felt at ease.
When he got home, he watched Huang Lei slowly fall asleep, but he was still keeping his eyes open, looking at the dark above.
In the days that followed, Ren Chengwei still couldn't receive the drama, or the dragon running set day after day, he watched his wife take the salary to support two people, and his heart was not a taste.
He stood in the corner of the troupe, waiting to be assigned his new dragon suit role, and he put on makeup and paced through the deserted corridor, "How can you still have a face alive?"
Ren Chengwei suddenly let out a curse, he was not cursing others, but himself.
After a long time, he wanted to quit the troupe and go out to graduate school, but he looked at the examination book and couldn't read it.
"I believe you can do it, I have always had such a voice in my heart, don't worry."
Huang Lei did not know when to sit next to Ren Chengwei, she leaned on Ren Chengwei's shoulder and reached out to hold his hand.
Ren Chengwei has always believed in his wife, and his nose is sour, "I studied acting, what is the theory of the examination, since my wife believes in me, I will definitely be able to do it."
Relying on the support of his wife, until 2001, Ren Chengwei starred in "Snow Without a Trace", and finally caught fire.
Careers improved, economic conditions improved, the two moved to a new home, and decided to have a child.
After the birth of his daughter, Ren Chengwei looked at his daughter and was overjoyed, and everyone praised his daughter, and he would buy some toys and small clothes on the way home.
But with the fire, Ren Chengwei's films increased, he could not always be at home, once Ren Chengwei held a child and did not want to leave.
A phone ringing broke the warm atmosphere, and the person on the other end of the phone said, "Hurry up."
"Can I be accommodating for two days?"
"No, time is tight."
Listening to the sound of the phone that did not give in in the slightest, Ren Chengwei knew that he had to leave, he put the child on the sofa, and his daughter immediately cried as if she felt it.
He immediately went to wipe his daughter's tears, wiped them twice, he went to the door and crouched down to put on his shoes, listening to his daughter's unstoppable crying, he did not dare to turn back, the laces on the shoes were untied, untied and tied.
Finally, as if he had made up his mind, he glanced back at his daughter and strode out the door.
After a long time, there were only Huang Lei and children at home, and Huang Lei looked at the empty room, couldn't see Ren Chengwei's people, and her heart became more and more bored.
It was hard to see Ren Chengwei, she wanted to ask her husband more, but the exit turned into a complaint, "Seeing a child who is so tired", Ren Chengwei said in disbelief.
Huang Lei listened to the fire and came up at once, ignoring it, Ren Chengwei saw that he had said the wrong thing, and quickly ran over to comfort him.
"If you rest two, I'll come and see the kids."
Huang Lei did not squeak, but after Ren Chengwei woke up the next day, he could not see his wife's figure, and only then did he know that his wife listened to his own words.
His daughter was still young, crying and making trouble, Ren Chengwei could only coax, at the end of the day, he looked at his daughter who was not easy to sleep, and sighed heavily.
He thought about his wife, and gradually understood her pain and tiredness.
In order to better take care of his wife's emotions, no matter how busy filming is and how far away from home, he will always find time to call home.
Listening to his wife's voice on the other end and his daughter's laughter, Ren Chengwei felt warm in his heart.
One day Chinese New Year's Eve was still filming, and Ren Chengwei saw that he could not go home, so he could only call his wife, "I can't go back, eat at Lu Liang's house."
"Okay I know", Huang Lei pretended not to care, but Ren Chengwei still heard the dissatisfaction inside.
Huang Lei was preparing Chinese New Year's Eve meal at home, when she suddenly heard a bell, "Here is a package for you, you come and get it", Huang Lei was curious, but still ready to go downstairs.
She pressed the elevator and waited for the elevator to open, but when the elevator opened, she was stunned, she looked at Ren Chengwei in the elevator, and there was a pose.
"I am that package", Ren Chengwei smiled and walked out of the elevator, "I flew back by plane after filming, just to see you."
Ren Chengwei took Huang Lei's hand home, and her daughter heard the door, ran over to the probe, and found that it was her father who had returned.
She shouted, and then ran to the back of the sofa to hide, "Who let you not go home for such a long time, your daughter did not dare to recognize you", Huang Lei quipped next to her.
Ren Chengwei changed his clothes, walked to the sofa and fished his daughter up, thinking that he must accompany his daughter more after that.
In 2007, the second daughter was born, and Ren Chengwei reduced the amount of filming for his daughter.
As long as it is filming in Beijing, no matter how late it is, always go home to see the children.
Every time on his birthday, Ren Chengwei would receive gifts from his daughters and put them away well.
Ren Chengwei read the script very late, and her daughter couldn't help but be sleepy and took a small bear and put it on her father's table.
"I'm going to sleep, I've kissed the bear, let the bear accompany you."
He touched his daughter's head, tired and had long been swept away by her understanding, "Go to bed, good night."
One day Ren Chengwei was sleeping, and his daughter pushed the door in, "Dad still has a few days to go to Father's Day, but I want to give you a gift now."
He listened to the childish voice, raised his eyelids, and looked at the gift drawn by his daughter himself, although it was only a painting, it made Ren Chengwei's eye socket moist.
He also made a cabin for his daughters, which was covered with blankets for drinks and snacks.
Every time the little daughter took her friends home to play, she would stay in the cabin and giggle.
After Ren Chengwei became a father, he understood his mother more and more, and often chatted with her mother.
"How is my mother lately", Ren Chengwei asked, the rest is his mother talking, he listens to his mother's voice, knows his mother's life, and will feel at ease.
In order to make his mother not bored, he also suggested that his mother sign up for a class, choose to choose, and his mother went to the calligraphy class and the modeling class, and the mother had friends of the same age in the class, and her heart was extremely happy.
Anything interesting will be told to his son, Ren Zhiwei is not bothered to hear it, he knows that his mother is happy, and he is happy.
When there was no fire, Ren Chengwei did not make much money, but he still wanted to buy a pair of leather shoes for his father-in-law, pick and choose, he fancy a foreign import, nine hundred yuan.
Huang Lei stopped him, "No, it's so expensive."
"We don't buy it every day, we just want to buy a pair of imported shoes for my father", Huang Lei listened and agreed with Ren Zhiwei's words.
Mother-in-law has high blood pressure, Ren Chengwei bought a nine-hundred-dollar electronic blood pressure monitor, and every time his mother-in-law sees it, she will praise Ren Zhiwei.
"A good son-in-law"
Nowadays, the eldest daughter is studying abroad, and the younger daughter is slowly growing up, although the course is busy, she will never forget to chat with her family.
Ren Chengwei would also often call his mother and father-in-law or buy something.
And his wife Huang Lei, the two have walked hand in hand for 26 years, although time has diluted the passion, but it has brought the calm and tranquility of the years, and experienced the plain love in the chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea.
We can share hardships and hardships, we can share weal and woe, and we can also enjoy the beauty of happiness together.
Ren Chengwei is not only a good actor, but also a good husband, a good father, and a good son.