In this era of joy and disgust with the old, the new love is always better than the old love. People always say that men become bad when they have money, and when they have money, they will find new joys and abandon old love, and they don't care about the suffering that the other party has suffered for themselves, although this is a summary of people's experience, but there will still be couples who are in love with each other.
Ren Chengwei Huang Lei can be regarded as a model couple, the two from the initial basement struggle to the present experienced too much suffering, Huang Lei accompanied Ren Chengwei from nothing to career take-off, fortunately Ren Chengwei did not abandon but loved Huang Lei more than when he was in love.
Life is tight, inspirational admission to drama school
Ren Chengwei was born in Jixi City, Heilongjiang Province in the 70s, his father is the director of the machinery factory, his mother is a worker in the factory, Ren Chengwei as the third oldest in the family, there are two older brothers, the next has a younger brother, although life is not well-off but also eat and wear without worry.
As the director of the factory, my father had to look through everything in the factory, and the accumulation of years of fatigue caused various problems in the body. When Ren Chengwei was still young, his father left them forever due to overwork.
The top pillar of the family fell, the family's life was only supported by the mother's weak salary, and the four brothers of Ren Chengwei were still growing up. In order to ensure that the whole family is full, every time the salary is paid, the mother will first hoard enough noodles and salt, pickle enough pickles, they are white noodle pickles for three meals a day, and there are few fresh vegetables.
Food, clothing, shelter and transportation are the minimum standards for human survival, and if the diet is guaranteed, how can there be extra money for them to wear new clothes when the mother's salary is only enough for everyone to eat.
The clothes of the four brothers are almost all given by neighbors, occasionally buy themselves once, but also buy the size of the boss, the boss wears the small second and then wears, just such a dress can be worn to the fourth, until the fourth can not wear, the life of this dress is counted, many times because of wearing too long, not waiting for the old fourth to wear, it has been rotten to the point of not being able to wear.
Neighbors also saw the hardships of Ren Chengwei's mother, and repeatedly introduced her to the object to help her reduce her burden, but Ren Chengwei's mother thought that the four children would be wronged under the fence, and finally they all refused one by one, threatening to raise the four children by themselves no matter how bitter they were.
In the eighties, a person had to pull four children to live and go out to earn money, it was a difficult thing to think about, the children of the poor had long been in charge, the four Ren Chengwei brothers also understood the hardships of their mothers, and others still enjoyed the age when they became part of the family.
Help his mother cut firewood and cook, in addition to school, as long as there is time to do farm work to reduce the burden on the mother, in order not to increase the economic pressure on the mother, Ren Chengwei undertook the work of picking up and dropping off his brother, every time he first sent his brother to school before the network school to catch up, after school, he felt busy to pick up his brother first.
Although life is very hard, but Ren Chengwei's mother still taught the four children to study hard, learning is the only way out, Ren Chengwei remembered his mother's words, during the school he has been among the best. He has his own goals and his dream is to be an actor.
After graduating from high school, Ren Chengwei was admitted to the Shanghai Theater Academy as he wished through his own efforts and natural appearance advantages. Successfully started university life.
When college meets love, a marriage certificate is privately fixed for life
Ren Chengwei inherited the excellent genes of his parents, his height and appearance are considered to be the top of the class, and his classmate Huang Lei was attracted by his handsomeness, and the two soon fell in love.
Both are from the northeast, but unlike Ren Chengwei's family conditions, Huang Lei was born in a cadre family, and lived a worry-free life from an early age, although Ren Chengwei's family conditions were not good, but Huang Lei did not have a little dislike, but did her best to help Ren Chengwei, and when Ren Chengwei could not afford to eat, she changed her own meal ticket to Ren Chengwei.
Although Ren Chengwei did not have extra money to buy gifts for Huang Lei, he would always use his own unique way to bring happiness to Huang Lei, and after four years of college, Ren Chengwei could be said to have successfully spent time in Huang Lei's relief.
After graduation, the lovers were assigned to Beijing to work, and the two little couples both went to Beijing to struggle, but Ren Chengwei, who had just graduated, was hit, because he was too tall to find a suitable actress to play with him, so Ren Chengwei could only earn some small money by running the dragon set, and every month he was still fixed to play money for his family, and the rest of the money may not be enough for his daily expenses.
The life of running the dragon set lasted for several years, and the two who had been in love for many years had reached the age of marriage, and seeing that Ren Chengwei had delayed mentioning the marriage, Huang Lei took the initiative to mention the marriage and asked Ren Chengwei for an understanding.
Huang Lei originally thought that Ren Chengwei did not want to get married, but he did not expect that Ren Chengwei was because he did not have money to marry Huang Lei. Ren Chengwei said that he did not have a penny of savings, and he had to send money to his family every month, even he could not afford to support Huang Lei when he got married, and he could not afford to give Huang Lei at the bride price wedding.
Unexpectedly, Huang Lei didn't care about these things at all, she said that as long as there are nine pieces of nine nine, it is enough. In this way, Ren Chengwei used nine pieces of nine to marry Huang Lei. The two did not have a wedding, only a nine-square-meter basement of the unit, where they lived for a full 7 years.
In this small house, the daughter of the two was born, the two suffered nothing but could not let the child suffer together, in order to move out of the basement as soon as possible, Huang Lei chose to wean the child when the child was very young, and sent back to the hometown for the parents to take care of, and went out to shoot the scene herself.
Never Bole found Ren Chengwei, a thousand-mile horse, Ren Chengwei has never received a decent play, and Huang Lei's development is much better than Ren Chengwei, and many times Ren Chengwei relies on Huang Lei to raise.
Finally, after that, when Ren Chengwei, a maxima, had a talent, he starred in "Snow Without a Trace" that was widely acclaimed and became the top of the ratings list in the same period, and Ren Chengwei, as the male number one, won the award, relying on this drama Ren Chengwei to become famous.
Ren Chengwei's career ushered in the spring, various resources came one after another, relying on hard work, the husband and wife finally bought a house in Beijing and took their daughter to reunite.
epilogue
In order to make up for the lack of childhood, Huang Lei put down her work and threw herself into the family. With his wife's dedication in the family, Ren Chengwei's career is getting smoother and smoother, and he is accompanied by his two daughters.
Ren Chengwei, who has been married for 25 years now, has never had a scandal, and has now become a winner in life, working with his wife from nothing to a happy family, and two lovely daughters, not only inseparable from his wife' inseparable, but also inseparable from the joint efforts of both husband and wife.
Husbands and wives are birds of the same destiny, and they must work together to overcome difficulties. Now Ren Chengwei has a smooth career and a happy family, which is an example for all couples to learn.