"No matter how poor you are, you will not sell your watchdogs, and no matter how rich you are, you will not give up your wife." Have you ever been willing to be in the same boat with you, rich or not, rich or not;
There have ever been people who are willing to live with you, whether they are alive or dead, and whether they are happy or not, who are willing to grow old with you.
You may not have, but he did, he met this hundred miles, and his heart and eyes were all his lovely children.
He is this "lucky one" - Ren Chengwei.
In the entertainment industry, a celebrity gathering place, there are many celebrity couples, many of whom met and married from the campus.
There are also some who know each other and fall in love with each other in the play, no matter how they know each other and get married,
From the beginning to the end, from poverty to wealth, there are not many people who have always been with the same person.
Not to mention the entertainment industry, outside the entertainment industry, there are many divorced and abandoned partners.
Young love does not care about money and fame, does not care about real problems, as long as two people love each other can ignore it, this is the purest appearance of love.
But when people come to this world, they not only come to talk about love, but also need to live, and they all say that love without material is a mess, which is true, it is true.
There is also chai rice oil and salt in life, which need money to maintain operations, and when they are young, they still have the support of their parents.
But the president of the general assembly grows old, always learn to grow, learn to be independent, these all add difficulty to pure love.
People in the entertainment industry have received public attention, and although their appearance is bright and beautiful, the hardships are only known to them.
At that time, Ren Chengwei was still a little transparent and a "poor boy".
Ren Chengwei, who was praised by the audience as "a brother of Chinese opera", how bitter was he when he was a child?
Ren Chengwei was born in an ordinary family in Heilongjiang, a family of five, and when his father was alive, his life was still guaranteed.
His father was a diligent factory leader, and his education was extremely strict.
Ren Chengwei was naughty and ignorant when he was a child, and he began to play with his brother's self-made darts, at that time, he had not suffered anything, and he was still a carefree appearance of a child.
He took a dart and tied it to the neighbor Gao Yu and his brother, and he pricked that navel eye, and at first he was very happy and thought it was very funny.
The blood flowed down, and I began to be afraid, the child was funny, where I had seen this battle, the child was scared to cry, after crying, I didn't think it was too big.
There was a little blood and a little fur injury, but Gao Yu's younger brother and his grandmother were not dependent, and their children were bullied, so they were naturally angry.
He took the dart and began to scold him, and his brother snatched the dart back and told him to run, but the monk could not run the temple.
Found by his father, as soon as he picked him up, on the way back, the neighborhood began to fight, that was the first time he was beaten by his father.
His impression of his father is severe, his father is the director of the factory, his son has caused trouble, as a leader, he will naturally lead by example and give people an explanation.
This is learned from the father, as a boy, you have to take responsibility for yourself, and if you do something wrong, you have to be punished.
But when he was only 12 years old, he should have lived a carefree life, but his father had an accident.
A serious illness took him away, away from this home, away from this life, which was undoubtedly a huge blow to their family.
At this time, the mother was still young and beautiful, and there were kind people who introduced her, and someone was willing to marry her.
The mother is the great character in this world, the family has lost the top pillar, his brother and brother, a family of four, only rely on the mother's salary of forty yuan.
What about the rest of your life?
How could she bear to let her children be wronged, so she refused, poor parents in the world.
There is no doubt that their lives have become extremely difficult, their lives are not enough to eat, and they have spare money to buy clothes.
It was all a dress, and the little sisters continued to wear them one by one. In order not to starve the family, my mother bought flour and salt to take home, and then pickled a large jar of pickles to live.
The hardships of life promote human growth, and the death of his father has made him taste the cold and warmth of the world. From ignorance in childhood to calm and sensible, the price paid is painful.
At a very young age, he took on the task of transporting his brother to school and home, and at that time, taking the bus was also expensive! It also developed his mature, independent personality. Experience will indeed promote rapid growth.
After graduating from high school in 1987, he was also successfully admitted to the acting department of the Shanghai Theater Academy.
There he met the girl whom God had given him, a girl who was willing to follow him, rich and poor.
How did he spend nine yuan and nine to marry his daughter-in-law home?
Let's take a look at what we rely on.
Born in April 1970, Huang Lei grew up in a very privileged family, and her father and mother were both cadres.
How to say that Huang Lei is also born with a golden spoon, and has not suffered any hardships, on the contrary, Ren Chengwei, family poverty, eating and wearing have to rely on their own hands to work hard to obtain, in front of Huang Lei, he is inferior; it is also touching.
In that summer, they were assigned to a class, whether it was fate that made them meet, or because of their encounter that created this unique fate - classmates.
It is said that near the water tower platform first get the moon, there is no doubt that this is a good start, that will be Ren Chengwei is particularly tall, tough-looking, clean and sharp.
How to say it, the girl who chases him is not less, but also a sunny little handsome guy, perhaps Huang Lei's quiet beauty, so that this big boy has a heart.
What's your favorite thing to do between classes? For a boy who is in the mood of spring, of course, after class, he must find various reasons to surround the girl he likes, telling all kinds of fun and funny things to share together.
In front of the people he likes, he is always sincere and not fake, the two are more and more familiar, and unconsciously, Ren Chengwei also told Huang Lei all his family situation.
His lack of self-confidence stemmed from this, but he said that he was nervous and uneasy.
Huang Lei did not give up after listening, but was very distressed about this big boy and encouraged him to be confident. After a long time, the two talked about love.
Encouraged by the girl he liked, a seed was planted in his heart, silently fierce,
He must work hard, must marry her, work hard to make money, and never let her suffer grievances.
He thought about it, tried hard, and did it afterwards.
Most of the girls are soft-minded and good at understanding people, perhaps it is the initial heartache that makes her have a trace of affection for Ren Chengwei.
In life, no matter what difficulties Ren Chengwei has, this girl always helps him without complaint. His living expenses were not enough, so Huang Lei gave him her own food.
In order not to let Ren Chengwei resist, she always told him that she was full, the rest could not be eaten, could not be wasted, she always used the excuse to give him more to eat.
This kind of care not only does not hurt people's self-esteem, but also plays a very good effect, making Ren Chengwei feel warm.
And Ren Chengwei treated this girl with the same sincerity.
Once, it was raining heavily, he was afraid that Huang Lei's shoes would be wet, so he ran early in the morning to buy her rain boots, and it rained a lot at that time, and his umbrella was always borrowed from east to west, so there was no umbrella.
After he bought rain boots from the mall, he was afraid of getting wet, so he carried them in his pocket, but his body was wet.
Huang Lei was particularly touched at that time, which was one of the reasons why she wanted to marry Ren Chengwei because of his sincerity.
Ren Cheng was great in the third year, he took Huang Lei home to eat, knowing that Huang Lei loved to eat dumplings, he specially instructed, he called and told his mother that the dumplings at home were wrapped in a large one every time, the dumplings should be wrapped a little smaller, not too big, the package was smaller, she ate elegantly.
Ren Chengwei is careful and very attentive to Huang Lei's affairs, which is also one of the reasons.
After work, the two faced many difficulties. Ren Chengwei is too tall, playing with actresses is a bit far-fetched, not very smooth in terms of work,
And Huang Lei is much smoother than Ren Chengwei, which makes Ren Chengwei feel very stressed, and the life of the two is still relatively hard.
Therefore, Ren Chengwei did not mention the marriage for a long time, which made Huang Lei feel confused.
Only because Ren Chengwei still has nothing, he can't guarantee whether she will be happy in the future, so he doesn't dare to marry, he is afraid to live up to it.
However, the matter of feelings has never been a one-sided payment, but a two-way rush and a two-way payment. After Huang Lei learned about Ren Chengwei's pain,
She told him that it didn't matter if there was a wedding or not, she just wanted to be his legal wife and justifiably accompany him.
On the one hand, in order to reassure her, on the other hand, in order to make himself try harder and not to give himself a reason to back down, he went with her to get a marriage license.
Without a gorgeous wedding, the two became their respective lifelong partners in such a low-key way.
Sincerity is often the most moving, and his heart for Huang Lei is real, that is, he is good to her and very attentive to her.
He spent nine yuan and nine to get a license to marry Huang Lei home, and the life after that was still very hard, and his kindness to her was indeed not lost.
Fortunately, in 2001, Ren Chengwei relied on the fire of "Snow Without a Trace", and since then his career has reached its peak.
The ups and downs along the way did not make their feelings crack, but in the midst of repeated tribulations, they became more and more affectionate.
The 26 years they have walked together, still loving so, zero scandals, they support each other.
Be considerate of each other and understand each other, so that their happiness has always existed between them.
Fortunately, God gave them the ability to love people, which is their great treasure.