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"Huang Lei followed me and suffered so many bitter days, is it still a person for me to do this"? There is a saying on the Internet that men often have three wishes when they reach middle age: a new house, a new car, and a new wife.
And actor Ren Chengweiren reached middle age, did have the capital to change houses and cars, but he never wanted to leave his wife.
It is said that men are visual animals, flower heart is nature, love is unique. Judging from the experience of actor Ren Chengwei, it seems that everyone cannot be "killed" with one shot. Love of fidelity is a virtue, and it is a virtue that is easy to possess.
One
In 1970, Ren Chengwei was born in an ordinary family in Hulin City, Heilongjiang. Before him, there were two older brothers in the family, and after him his parents gave birth to a younger brother.
Although it is not a rich and noble family, Ren Chengwei's parents are both working, hardworking and capable, so the family of six lives very happily.
But the good times did not last long, when Ren Chengwei was 13 years old, his father had a serious illness, and the family had tried to get medicine for his father, but some things were beyond the reach of manpower, and his father still passed away.
Ren Chengwei, who is currently in junior high school, has suffered great changes, and his family life, which has lost a pillar, has also become embarrassing.
During this period, many people lobbied Ren Chengwei's mother to persuade her to remarry as soon as possible and not to be dragged down by the family. But Ren Chengwei's mother and his father already had a good relationship, and his mother loved her children very much.
Looking at the four brothers, his mother felt that she could not remarry or leave them. So Ren Chengwei's mother has been gritting her teeth and insisting, trying to provide for her four children to grow up.
And the hardships of the family and the fatigue of the mother were all seen by the young Ren Chengwei, remembered in his heart, he was ready to take on the heavy responsibilities of the family at a young age, and his personality became more and more down-to-earth and steady.
The young and old Ren Chengwei has been working hard in the direction of his mother's hope, and his mother wants him to study well, so he will study seriously.
In 1986, Ren Chengwei was successfully admitted to the acting department of Shanghai Theater Academy with his own efforts and became an undergraduate.
Before entering the school, Ren Chengwei also had the idea of giving up, after all, entertainment stars were not as popular as they are now, and he didn't know if he could afford the burden of supporting his family by studying acting. But with the support of his mother, Ren Chengwei eventually stepped into school.
After entering the university campus, Ren Chengwei once had an inferiority complex. Because most of the campus are handsome men and beautiful women, Ren Chengwei's appearance is not prominent in it; The classmates seem to have a good family, but their own families are not very good; And Ren Chengwei, from Heilongjiang, speaks with a thick northeastern accent, which is not the Mandarin standard that an actor should have.
But Ren Chengwei did not feel sorry for himself, he just wanted to study hard and work early. In the days of Ren Chengwei's silent efforts, a fateful fate also quietly came.
Once there was an activity in the school, let the tall and serious Ren Chengwei be the host, and at this event, Ren Chengwei and his wife Huang Lei met for the first time.
At that time, Ren Chengwei, who was tall, hard-working and not very talkative, seemed to outsiders to have a mysterious atmosphere, and Huang Lei was deeply attracted by this atmosphere.
The girl's heart is always poetry, and since that activity, where there is Ren Chengwei, Huang Lei can't help but take a few more looks.
Slowly, this intention was detected by the good friends who were with Huang Lei. For the "sweetheart" of the little sisters, they always have to be brave to help.
Finally, during a meal in the cafeteria, the little sisters caught the opportunity, and they constantly encouraged Huang Lei to eat next to Ren Chengwei, and even did not hesitate to use "force" to push Huang Lei to Ren Chengwei's side.
Huang Lei, who was pushed to Ren Chengwei's side, didn't have time to react otherwise, and saw Ren Chengwei sitting there as if he was embarrassed.
It turned out that Ren Chengwei only had some pickles in front of him. Huang Lei was shocked to find that she seemed to have "broken" some secret of the boy in front of her. This contact between them is not beautiful, but it is the beginning of all the good things that follow.
Two
After that, Huang Lei will also meet Ren Chengwei in the cafeteria, and every time Ren Chengwei's meals are not very good. Huang Lei, who was gradually empathetic, vaguely noticed that Ren Chengwei's family situation did not seem to be good, but Huang Lei was attracted to Ren Chengwei at the beginning, and Huang Lei, who was vaguely aware of Ren Chengwei's family situation, felt that Ren Chengwei was pitiful and cute, and the girl who made up her mind decided to help Ren Chengwei with her own methods.
Every time she went to the cafeteria to eat, Huang Lei would deliberately beat more, and then excused herself that she couldn't eat, and asked Ren Chengwei to help her eat it.
Ren Chengwei could sense this girl's kindness, so he couldn't bear to refuse her to make her sad, so as time passed, they became more and more familiar.
As their interactions increased, they both developed a deeper affection for each other. But Ren Chengwei refused to admit this friendship because of his inferiority, and Huang Lei did not dare to confess easily because of shyness. They concealed and suppressed this affection until they graduated.
The closer the day of separation approached, the more irritable the two became. Ren Chengwei is a coward to some extent, even if he wants to separate, he does not dare to say his heart, and only dares to give Huang Lei a gift in the name of gratitude.
And Huang Lei did not feel happy in the face of this gift. Because this gift means separation, not farewell.
Huang Lei, who was sad and angry, turned around and left in a fit of anger. Ren Chengwei realized the reason why Huang Lei was angry, but he didn't know how to save it. Confession? Huang Lei is a good girl, and she is wronged by herself; Farewell? Huang Lei was already angry, she shouldn't be sad because she was distressed.
Finally, Ren Chengwei decided to make it clear with Huang Lei under the persuasion of his roommate. For the first time, he revealed his family situation to others.
But he didn't expect that Huang Lei didn't mind his family at all, and after the two exchanged hearts, Ren Chengwei finally let go of the obstacles in his heart and bravely confessed his love to Huang Lei. The two lovers finally came together.
After officially graduating, Ren Chengwei, who studied acting, could only contact the film and television industry, but only a few supporting roles found him, and he acted, which is still too little salary for them living in Beijing. Not to mention that Ren Chengwei also needs to take care of his hometown from time to time. So they had just started working in a 9-square-meter basement in Beijing. While resisting the difficulties of life, while constantly trying to hope to get out of the difficulties of life.
But no one holds Ren Chengwei, whose personal conditions are not very prominent, and the road to film and television is very difficult. There were even years when he couldn't even get a supporting role.
Compared with Ren Chengwei, Huang Lei's career path is better, she was admitted to the drama theater just after graduation, and won some awards in theater performances, and served as the heroine of important dramas many times.
In addition, in order to subsidize the family and for her career development, Huang Lei also embarked on the road of voice actress, which can also be called "sound and colorful".
Ren Chengwei could see Huang Lei's efforts, and his heart was very unpleasant. Once wondered if he was in the wrong line of work, making Huang Lei work so hard now.
But Huang Lei has always believed in the talent of the two of them, and feels that the path of acting is not wrong, and Huang Lei does not feel that their life was bitter at that time, hoping that Ren Chengwei will not put too much pressure on himself. It is said that "sentient drinking water is full", which should be a true portrayal. With Huang Lei's encouragement, the two have been struggling in the film and television industry.
On an ordinary day, Huang Lei suddenly proposed the idea of marriage to Ren Chengwei. Ren Chengwei was only shocked at that time, because he felt that he was really poor, wedding banquets, bride price, house... He couldn't take it either, and Ren Chengwei, who had been struggling with supporting roles at that time, couldn't even guarantee that he would be able to give Huang Lei a happy and beautiful future.
But Huang Lei has always cared about this, and she is willing to marry Ren Chengwei; In addition to his own poverty, Ren Chengwei couldn't find a reason not to marry Huang Lei.
So they began to prepare to go home to meet their parents, and with their consent, without any ceremony, they entered the palace of marriage.
Not long after marriage, Huang Lei became pregnant. They rejoice in the coming of this new life, but they are worried that the burden of life has become heavier. At this time, Ren Chengwei's career did not improve much, and he could only work hard to take on the role regardless of the size of the role and the number of scenes.
Six months after the birth of the child, because both husband and wife have to work to earn money to support the family, they have no choice but to send the child to their parents' house. Huang Lei is very reluctant to have young children, but life makes her have to let go. Perhaps God will really favor those who work hard, and Ren Chengwei's efforts and quality have finally been recognized by people.
Three
In 2001, the production team of "No Traces of Snow" gave him an interview opportunity to become the male protagonist after watching Ren Chengwei's past works, and the importance of this opportunity to Ren Chengwei is self-evident, and Ren Chengwei finally seized this opportunity and got the first male lead in his life. In this TV series, Ren Chengwei performed very well, and after the TV series was broadcast, both the plot and his male lead won the love of the majority of audiences.
Therefore, Ren Chengwei also won the China TV Golden Eagle Award for the audience's favorite actor, and the Golden Eagle Award was still quite weighty at that time. Ren Chengwei, who has been the male protagonist and has won awards, has also begun to usher in more salary invitations.
After that, Ren Chengwei also took his work seriously as always, bought a small house a few years later, and ushered in a new home with Huang Lei.
After the family's financial burden was reduced, Huang Lei did not have to be tired of work, so they brought their daughter back from their hometown and began to move towards a new life.
Of course, there are also dissonant notes. For example, when he was just famous, someone around him jokingly asked him, didn't you think about changing your wife?
But Ren Chengwei was angry when he heard it, Huang Lei accompanied him to suffer, now he is about to change when he is well, so can he "still be a person"? Ren Chengwei was the most impatient for others to say such things, only he knew how much his wife was to him.
For example, after their lives were stable, Ren Chengwei liked to keep taking plays because of his previous life experience, which led to him not being able to have much time to stay at home.
The family gathered less and separated more, and Huang Lei gradually felt that this was not possible. In the past, I worked hard to reduce the pressure of life, and the family was well together. Now that there is no pressure in life, why are you still so hard at home.
After a long conversation between the husband and wife, Ren Chengwei finally realized that his current practice was contrary to his pursuit, so he began to reduce the drama and spend more time with his family, and the family lived more and more happily and harmoniously.
Of course, Ren Chengwei did not give up his acting career, and he often "contributed" a classic role on the screen, such as the Three Treasures in "County Party Committee Compound"; At the same time, he also tried to broaden his scope, and in 2020, he tried and directed another TV series "Home with You", and the ratings were good.
Looking back at Ren Chengwei's journey, his current success is all his good qualities. Without his persistence and efforts, he would not have been able to change from an unknown supporting role to a male protagonist and a male director; Without him, his reputation and evaluation with the audience could not be so good, and you don't see many actors and stars disappearing into their unruly private lives.
It is said that the flower world will be charming to the eye, in fact, as long as you keep your heart and let the outside world spend flowers, you can also "take a spoonful of drink". And life and destiny favor those who deserve it.
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