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The struggle of adults: every day thinking about leaving, every month is full of attendance

On the way to work, the streets are crowded, and at a glance, it seems that everyone has a tired face, and they can feel the oppressive atmosphere when they pass by, and their hearts become more tired in an instant.

Busy work, unsolvable troubles, day-to-day work does not know when to become the standard for adults.

Every day the alarm goes off, the mind is full of resignation, but still climb up, think about the rent, parents, children, loans, today is another day of repetition. Helplessly facing all kinds of disappointments, I can only smile and say that it is okay.

The struggle of adults: every day thinking about leaving, every month is full of attendance

We were all locked up at home because of the pandemic. In order to facilitate life, the community built a group, many people who do not know suddenly become "confidants", a person in the group of express delivery industry complained that this month should be the best income, but can only sleep at home, they still have mortgages, rent do not know how to deal with. As soon as this topic came out, the group was suddenly in an uproar, and everyone began to complain and tell their difficulties.

One person said, "When I go to work, I always think about vacation, I feel that going to work is hard, I sleep at home for half a month, and suddenly I want to go to work." During the epidemic period, prices are particularly high, and the house rented by migrant workers cannot cook, and the daily meal is 50 yuan. Originally, I didn't do the accounting, I would sleep more, and I could save money for a meal, but I was shouted up by the landlord at the end of the point, and I had to spend money to eat."

The struggle of adults: every day thinking about leaving, every month is full of attendance

A real estate agent said: "Because of the epidemic, a contract has not been signed recently, it is estimated that it is difficult to rent or sell a house this month, and now when I think of the New Year, I am anxious to sleep." ”

Everyone tells me every word, and some people remain optimistic. The group of 500 people tells the life of adults, thinking about vacation every day, but thinking about going to work.

Remember the video of "a woman catching a bus with illness due to a 300 yuan attendance award".

The struggle of adults: every day thinking about leaving, every month is full of attendance

Obviously, she was hesitant to walk, but she still insisted on boarding the bus to work, just because she did not go to work, in addition to the company's 300 yuan attendance award on the same day, it would be deducted. In the eyes of many people, 300 yuan is just a T-shirt, a lipstick, a meal, but in the eyes of others, 300 yuan may be the biggest support for a certain period of their future life.

The struggle of adults: every day thinking about leaving, every month is full of attendance

That weekend, I was called to work overtime, and I left work at twelve o'clock in the morning, feeling so tired and tired. Going downstairs to see the property uncle is still on duty, walking out of the building on the way home, seeing the people pushing the car, selling snacks, and selling suppers began to be busy. Different faces, different expressions, they are all trying to live in their own way.

I vaguely remember going to school, taking various certificate exams, taking 2 hours on the road, and going out at 5 o'clock. On the way, I saw that the sanitation workers had begun the day's work, steaming hot in the morning stalls, and a few people rushed to their destinations by transportation. Perhaps adults have the ability to "find sweetness in bitterness", although it is hard, they still work hard to live.

The struggle of adults: every day thinking about leaving, every month is full of attendance

Back at home, the child was asleep and had already passed 1 a.m. after washing. At this moment, I am a little ashamed, when I go to work during the day, my children are still asleep, and when I come home at night, my children are still asleep, and I suddenly do not know why it is so hard, whether this job is really as I hoped. Whenever I hear a child say, Mom, you don't go to work, stay with me at home. I was really helpless in my heart, thinking of the confusion of work, the aggressiveness of the leader, the unreasonable teasing of the customer, suddenly wanting to leave, feeling that I was wronged...

The struggle of adults: every day thinking about leaving, every month is full of attendance

In a trance, the alarm clock sounded, and I saw that the children around me were still asleep, and I got up to get ready to go to work, as if yesterday's grievances had disappeared.

The struggle of adults: every day thinking about leaving, every month is full of attendance

Colleagues got married in October, the wedding leave plus the National Day holiday is still quite long, and the husband discussed going to Aden for honeymoon. Before the vacation, the leader asked her to carry the computer in case of emergency, and the colleague thought that there should be not much work, so she took it with her.

The struggle of adults: every day thinking about leaving, every month is full of attendance

My colleague returned to the company after the holiday and nagged me that the company was too willful, and her husband did not plan to let her do it. It turned out that on the day of going out to play, the girl's physiological period was caught, coupled with high reflex, the basic life could not take care of itself, and I had to let the accompanying friends and husband take care of it. That's it, the company kept urging her to call, forcing her to work in the car with a computer in an extremely uncomfortable situation. Her husband hurt her, let her leave the job, itself is not a good position, the salary is also an ordinary level.

The struggle of adults: every day thinking about leaving, every month is full of attendance

Of course, the girl did not leave her job, she did not want to get married and left her job, leaving her in-laws to gossip. As she said, when she first came to the company, she survived the most difficult time, during that time she was not familiar with the business, scolded by old employees, customer complaints, scolded by the leader, that darkest period of time, she was crying to spend, now how can she resign, how to resign.

Adults are not born to be miserable

They're just carrying the weight

The adult world

Bitterness is always accompanied by sweetness and hard work is always accompanied by harvest

The smiling faces of the family, the appreciation of the leaders, the recognition of the society

As long as the heart is sunny, no matter how dark the place, it can finally shine

In this busy world, live up to life and live up to Shaohua

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