What happens to everyone in the process of growing up, the human conditions they experience, whether it is in the past, what is happening now, or what will happen in the future, they will all happen only once.
What kind of result is what kind of result after it happens, even if you can't accept it, you don't want to accept it, there is no if in this world.
If your mind is deeply affected by the word "if" and lingers, then a knot will be generated in your heart, the knot will not be opened, and your world will lose its original colorful appearance.
So what kind of personality is this kind of knot generally easy to appear in the hearts of people? Today we will take a typical constellation as an example to analyze it.
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I don't know how you understand the meaning of the word "stubborn", but in the minds of some friends, stubbornness is the embodiment of stubbornness, stubbornness is the embodiment of self, and it is a characteristic of character.
In fact, it also has a deeper definition, the essence of stubbornness is "strong self-awareness", strong this adjective can give us a lot of points to think.
For example, due to the strong sense of self, it is extremely difficult to change, and the relative concept is extremely difficult to change, which is the refraction of extreme and extreme meaning.
You can look around at the people around you, and you will find that as long as those stubborn people are safe and sound, and do not experience any big winds and waves, then his stubbornness will not change much in his life.
A stubborn change is a change in a strong sense of self, which is either destroyed and rebuilt, or nourished by wisdom, so that change is possible.
Therefore, the change of stubborn personality, the common situation is that a stubborn person has experienced a storm, or a life and death experience, and the heart is also included.
Then you must know that in the face of a stubborn person, or getting along with a stubborn person, the last thing you recommend is to persuade him, or persuade him to change something, which is impossible to achieve.
Even if you walk on the road and see with your own eyes that there is a hole in front of you, and the person walks up to the foot, you tell this stubborn person, he is still likely to go to this hole.
This means:
Only after he himself has experienced something will he affirm some facts, and it is useless for others to say anything before he has experienced it himself, before he wants to do anything.
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Is this personality good? It is divided into two sides.
The good side is that as long as the stubborn person identifies one thing, then he can persist to the end without the need for someone to give him chicken blood.
The bad side is that once he chooses the wrong direction and chooses the wrong person, it will also be wrong to the end, and if he does not listen to people's advice, people's persuasion will have no effect.
Speaking of which, I think you should know which constellation we are going to talk about today, yes, Leo.
There are two words in Leo's dictionary of life, one is the "if" we said in the preface, and the other is the predecessor of if "regret".
Friends who have Leo around them should know more about them, and you should know more or less what songs they like to listen to, Leo's favorite songs, the titles and meanings of the songs that you listen to over and over again are directly related to the two words of regret.
Let's start with Leo's emotional awareness, Leo is really a special "obsession".
Or I can say that in this day and age, you can hardly find someone as infatuated as a Leo person, and of course this infatuation can also be understood by "stupid".
To describe the infatuation of leo people in one sentence: "As long as the lion can't let go of one person, then he will never fall in love with another person".
This concept of infatuation is so terrible, so extreme, and so stupid, to start with yourself, it is really cruel, it is really willing to do it.
In this regard, no zodiac sign is more "fierce" than Leo, if Leo is really out of love, really hurt, then no three or five years can not go out, even seven or eight years can not come out is normal.
Why do you say that lions are "cruel" to themselves, you can look at this behavior of lions from a different perspective.
This behavior of Leo is actually to "hang" himself with his own hands and sleep si.
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You may be curious, why are Leo people like this? In fact, the reason is very simple, Leo's heart knot problem can never be complicated in the eyes of onlookers.
Leo is afraid of one thing, that is, a thing has no answer, good or bad results they can accept, but can not do without answers.
Let me give you a practical example, for example, the lion broke up with someone, and the other party proposed to him that "we are really inappropriate, no matter how suitable we are, no matter how suitable we are", the lion is immediately confused, and no matter how much love is not suitable???
What do Lions understand?
Lions think that two people have love, but there is no answer to the matter of separation, why can't love be together, what is inappropriate, what exactly is inappropriate?
Encounter contradictions, or other problems, as long as there is love, then nothing is afraid, everything can be slowly solved, why separate?
Is there an answer to this question? In fact, there is already an answer, the other party thinks that two people are not suitable, and it is good for everyone to be separated.
It's just that the lion doesn't have an answer, so he has to find the answer, and he must find the answer.
What if I can't find the answer? Quite simply, stubbornly look for it, keep looking until it is found, if the lion begins to be stubborn at this juncture, then it is useless for anyone to persuade it.
During the day you see Leo people, they are very normal, there are talk and laughter, but go to see it at night, it is almost torturing yourself to death.
A knot in the heart can not pass, turned over and tortured, the Lions will be more and more emotional fluctuations, while facing grievances, but also to face their own self-esteem.
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Then the longer it drags on, the heavier the knot, and I believe that some friends should have seen such a lion, and the lion in this state gives you the feeling that he is about to torture himself to death.
At the same time, when torturing themselves, Lions will blame themselves, and once they blame themselves, they will have countless ifs:
"If I hadn't kept my mouth shut, maybe the result would have been good."
"If I had cried, I might have felt a lot better now."
So much if it ends up only turning into regret.
So for Leo people, whether it is wrong or right, they can accept these things, and they are not afraid, and what they are most afraid of is to leave regrets.
As long as there is an if, there must be regrets, at least for the lion, this logic can be established.
So how to solve this kind of thing? It's also very simple:
To face the regrets, the regretful person, even if it is to go to him, quarrel, make a fuss, only you can have the answer, the knot will naturally dissipate.
Here I will remind my friends that if a lion who has been separated from you for a few years suddenly comes to you and says that he still loves you, then you will listen.
The truth is that after he tells you what he wants to say, he will slowly disappear into your world, both men and women, because their hearts are gone.
Leo's stubbornness will help him achieve a good relationship if he meets the right person, but if he meets the wrong person, then his stubbornness will probably toss him to half a si.
The lion's feelings are too strong, so strong that only by letting the feelings burn completely can they have no heart knots, even if what is left after burning is a piece of ashes, they can accept it.
If the lion's feelings are only partially burned, or if the burning is unclear and incomplete, it will leave a knot in the heart.
Iron-headed lion tofu heart, stupidity are all caused by love and hate.
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