Text/Little Snow Mom
The birth of the baby is the most important thing in a family, parents in the happiness of the child's peace, will also begin to seriously think about what kind of name to give the child, the name as an important symbol in the child's life, parents must be cautious.
A good name, we will boast "people as their name", the name will become a person's reputation; and a bad person, we will call it "notorious", but become a person's bad synonym.
Therefore, parents usually give their children a name, and the names also have certain meanings, hoping that the children can expect the future as their names.
Dad's surname is Fu, mom's surname is Ke, and the police have stayed in the name of the triplets
Usually twin dragon and phoenix fetuses, are unattainable luck, if anyone has triplets, it will really be spread around by neighbors, put in the original said bad and people come to the house to dip luck.
There is a gentleman surnamed "Fu", and his wife "Ms. Ke", married not long after getting pregnant, as the stomach is getting bigger, go to the hospital for examination was found pregnant with triplets, which made the whole family very excited, did not expect to have such luck.
For the sake of the future of the child and the family, Mr. Fu is also full of energy, working hard to make money during the day, accompanying his pregnant wife at night, and greeting the child in a anxious mood.
The delivery went smoothly, the triplets were born safely, the whole family was very happy to see the three little cute, and when the excitement calmed down, Mr. Fu was also seriously considering one thing, that is, the names of the three children.
Since it is a triplet, the name must not be taken casually, there must be a connection and a meaning, so as to be worthy of the fate of the three babies, so the family discussed for a few days before determining the name.
Because the "father surname + mother surname" name method is quite popular now, Mr. Fu and Ms. Ke also plan to use this way to name, after the name is thought out, Mr. Fu will take the materials to the child's household registration.
But when the hukou police listened to the names of the three children, they couldn't help but laugh out loud and said, "How much wine did you drink before you thought of taking this name?" The original names of the three children were called "Fu Kejia", "Fu Keyi" and "Fu Kebing", that is, "father surname + mother surname", followed by the harmonic sound of "A and B C".
These three names are easy to hear at first glance as "gynecology", which will make children feel embarrassed in the future, so the police also propose to rename the children.
The quality of the name may affect the growth of the child throughout childhood
In reality, many parents are not careful enough to name their children, and harmonic ambiguity is easy to appear in the name, and these names are often easy to misunderstand after being heard by others, and even the harmonic ambiguity becomes a bad meaning.
When the child goes to primary school in the future, naughty children like to take this name to give others a "nickname", deliberately laughing at isolating others, taking nicknames is not uncommon, but with a "malicious" nickname, not only will affect the child and classmates to make friends, but also let the child's self-esteem be damaged, serious words even unwilling to go to school.
For example, some children themselves have a relatively silent personality, often being teased, or after being isolated by classmates, their personalities are easy to become more introverted, which is actually a kind of campus "cold violence".
When parents name their children, they must pay attention to these problems, and do not bring trouble and trouble to the growth of their children because of their own sloppy consciousness.
What issues do I need to pay attention to when naming my child?
First, don't make your child's name too exaggerated
Although the child's naming power is in the hands of the parents, but the parents to name the child can not be too arbitrary, after all, are the flesh and blood, give the child four words, five words of the name, like what "Red Flame Pupil", "Glory of the King", "Zhang Dynasty Twilight" this kind of name, how to read is not like a normal name.
In the future, children will find that their names are different from other children, they will feel strange, most of the situation will change their names, why bother, why not think of a good name at the beginning?
Second, names with harmonic ambiguity appear
Harmonic ambiguous names are usually not encountered, and even jokes about names often on the Internet, but from the perspective of parents, when taking names, we must read them several times to avoid the problem of harmonic ambiguity, such as what "Zhu Peiqi" and "Zhu Huifei" such names, easy to make misunderstandings.
Third, try not to use strange words for names
"Duplicate name" is the trouble of many parents, do not want their children to be too mediocre, so some parents will specifically find some "strange words" to name their children, these strange words are obscure and difficult to understand, and the strokes are particularly many, it seems that they are not duplicate names, but in the future, the child's name is easy to be called wrong, and it is difficult to learn to write their own names.
Good names make people feel like a spring breeze, bad names are easy to cause ridicule, and there is a lot of attention to taking names, and parents must be cautious and cautious.
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