After the last discussion of Scorpio Man, many people in the background sent a message saying let's talk about Cancer Man. It's okay not to remind me, but when I reminded me, I found out that the Cancer man was as "deadly" as the Scorpion man.
If the love of the Scorpio man is hot and piping hot, then the Cancer man is a gentle knife, and the knife cuts people's hearts.
Everyone who has experienced it knows that the gentleness of Cancer is both a good thing and a bad thing.
Those who are around with Cancer men all lament their carefulness, sensitivity, and ability to take care of people. Cancer men are good boyfriends and good husbands in the eyes of some people, in short, they are very suitable for being objects.
However, the other part of the Cancer man who had been scummed by the Cancer man did not think so. Central air conditioning, good at ambiguity and do not like to confirm the relationship, hesitant, uncertain about their own mentality, are the gentle B side of the Cancer man.
There is a saying that "as we all know, Cancer male ≠ Cancer female", just look at Cancer seems to be a harmless constellation, in fact, if you are not careful, you will fall into the gentle trap of Cancer man.
I once had a crush on a Cancer man, and after experiencing them firsthand, I found that the terrible thing about them is that it is difficult for girls to refuse their kindness, but they can't tell whether their kindness to you is out of favor or just the care of friends.
It must be praised that they are really very good to their friends, but it must also be said that this kind of goodness is almost indistinguishable from male and female friends, and it is easy to give people the illusion of "whether he likes me".
Crushing Cancer is a chore, and your mood fluctuates ten thousand times a day. Before getting along with the cancer man he liked, he would pour water on you when eating, would take off his coat for you when it was cold, would remember the preferences you had inadvertently said, and would also give you warmth and companionship when you were sad.
The cancer man gives you the impression that he has taken a hundred steps forward, and when you misunderstand the upper part and start to take the initiative, they will take another hundred steps back.
Although the relationship seems to you to be very ambiguous, in their mouths it will become "What did I do to make you misunderstand?" "I only consider you a friend", level ten hurts.
The girls who have ambiguously had Cancer men around them also complained bitterly. Some people and Cancer men have progressed to the step of going to bed, and people suddenly cement their hearts, saying that they can't forget their ex-girlfriend.
Some people make friends with Cancer and find that they can actually create sad and affectionate people in the circle of friends while doing with you, saying that multiple personalities are believed.
Even if you are good at ambiguity, Cancer men are often extra hesitant when they are close to the door before confirming the relationship.
One of my male friends is a typical Cancer crab, who obviously likes a girl, but because of some things that can't be touched in the future, he hesitates, ambiguous for more than half a year, and finally failed to pluck up the courage to be together.
Sometimes I really don't understand what the Cancer man is thinking, and I am good to my friends who can go beyond the boundaries, but I think a lot in front of the people I like, hesitate, and finally lament that I have not gotten anything, but obviously it is themselves who let them fall into this situation.
According to my observation, Cancer men are the most screwed beings among the twelve zodiac sign men, but it has to be said that they are also difficult to completely dislike.
Even though I was unintentionally "scum" by Cancer men, I still think they are all very good children in their bones.
Asking the people around me, it seems that many people who have been hurt by Cancer also think so, and sometimes they even feel that they are not good enough, so they are not looked at.
Although this is a bit suppressed by emotion, the stability, kindness, sentimentality, and serious responsibility of Cancer men are difficult for them to hook up with scumbags.
If you see them loving someone with all their hearts, you will find that they are actually people who are very good at giving for love. I remember that there used to be a terrier that said, "He would run three streets to buy fritter soy milk that I liked to eat", and cancer men were such people.
They will put love into action, for friends and lovers, so it is easy to misunderstand, but in essence, many Cancer men are not bad, and even after falling in love, it is difficult to forget the person they loved.
Maybe it's the reason I didn't fall in love with Cancer, I think Cancer men are very suitable to be friends, because they are very considerate and tolerant, but if I am ambiguous with Cancer men again, I raise my hand to be a NO.
However, I have repeated the advantages of Cancer men many times, and not all Cancer men have the above shortcomings. There may be "perfect men" and "top scumbags" in any zodiac sign, and there are naturally many good men in Cancer.
After talking about the Cancer man one night, it is estimated that the sisters who have intersected with them have held their stomachs and want to talk, right? Tonight, whether it is complaining or boasting, we will open tea in the message!
Illustration / "It's Love! Bad Boy and The White Cane Girl
Head image / Aren