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Some time ago, Pu Yongjian, a professor at Chongqing University, wrote a science fiction novel, and his 8-year-old son Pu Chunyu spent 20 days drawing a set of supporting comics for this novel.
Pu Chunyu said that this science fiction novel is about how Dr. X saved the earth and why the meteorite hit the earth, and the young age was very calm and calm.
Dad said that his son liked all kinds of popular science knowledge, and after his mother found that his son could memorize the periodic table of chemical elements, he suggested that he use the form of comic strips to popularize these contents.
With the support of her parents, coupled with the strong learning atmosphere of her father's love of science and her mother's love of drawing, Pu Chunyu really drew a set of vivid and interesting stories and lively and coherent works of comics.
In the process of accompanying Pu Chunyu to grow up, dad said that instead of forcing him to learn, he would let him feel fun from learning, so that he would learn more actively and continuously.
Looking at the happy smile on Pu Chunyu's face, we can feel his happiness in the ocean of popular science knowledge, and we can feel the sense of harvest he experienced in the creation of comics.
All this is thanks to the guidance and support of parents, who know that learning is not a boring "cramming indoctrination", but to let children gain a sense of achievement from learning, so that children can be more proactive and work hard.
Zhu Xi, a theorist of the Southern Song Dynasty, said that the establishment of the body should be the first, and the establishment of learning should be based on reading.
From ancient times to the present, reading and learning are essential skills for children in the process of growth, and only through learning can they master the ability to survive and let children have a broader future.
However, even today, there are still many parents who only know how to urge their children to study well, but they do not understand that learning is not "dead reading", the most important thing is to teach their children to master the secret of happy learning.
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Self-discipline is the bottom line of happy learning.
The German dramatist Goethe said that man is not born with everything, but by what he learns to make himself.
In fact, many times, parents and children know the importance of learning, but learning is after all something that needs to be adhered to for a long time, and if there is a lack of self-discipline, it will be difficult to persevere.
From July 25 to August 2, the 53rd International Chemistry Olympiad (IChO) was held remotely online in Osaka, Japan.
The four high school students of the Chinese team Yang Shu, Huang Zhangyi, Cai Xinyu and Zhao Bangsen all won the gold medal and won the top four gold medals, of which the first yang shu was from the Affiliated Middle School of Jiangxi Normal University.
Yang Shu said that no matter what we do, the first point is to focus, but also to go all out, he began to participate in the selection of chemistry competition classes from the third year of junior high school, because of his excellent performance was selected by Teacher Xiong Yiwei.
Teacher Xiong commented on Yang Shu that he was very self-disciplined, going to bed at about 11 o'clock every night, getting up at about 6 o'clock the next morning, and going to the piano room to practice on the weekend to relax his mind.
Yang Shu's father said that the child was born as a blank piece of paper, and the guidance of parents was very important, and Yang Shu's mother gave him a stipulation for what time to do when Yang Shu was young.
Therefore, Yang Shu has been learning and doing things regularly since he was a child, and after the fourth grade of primary school, his parents gradually let Yang Shu arrange various affairs such as learning, reading, practicing, and exercising independently.
It is precisely because of Yang Shu's good habit of strict self-discipline that he was sent to the Yuanpei College of Peking University in November last year with a good result of winning the second place in the national chemistry competition.
Scott Pike wrote in "The Road Few People Walk": Self-discipline is the most important tool to solve life's problems, and it is also the most important way to eliminate the pain of life.
From the beginning of the child's primary school, parents assist the child to formulate a practical learning plan, and urge the child to strictly implement it, and gradually cultivate the child's ability to manage himself and cultivate good habits of self-discipline.
When children integrate learning into life and treat it as a part of life, they can realize that learning is a happy thing and enjoy it tirelessly.
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Autonomy is the guarantee of happy learning.
Some time ago, the issuance of the "Implementation Opinions on Further Reducing the Homework Burden and Off-campus Training Burden of Students in the Compulsory Education Stage" aroused the keen attention of parents across the country.
The state has taken measures to reduce children's homework burden and extracurricular training burden, which means that teachers and parents can no longer push and drag their children to learn, but must cultivate children's awareness and ability to learn independently.
Chen Zhiwen, editor-in-chief of China Education Online, said in an interview that none of the best children he has ever seen have been "stared" by their parents, let alone by tutoring classes.
He had previously talked to the mother of a student admitted to the Department of Computer Science of Tsinghua University this year, and the main reason why the child was able to enter a prestigious school was that he had developed the ability to learn independently from an early age.
When children can independently plan their learning time and consciously complete various learning contents, their grades will naturally not be bad, and this is inseparable from the guidance of parents and the cooperation of children.
In the first week of the new semester, Lei Lei, a classmate who was also in the sixth grade of primary school with my son, had his math homework book torn up by the teacher, and Lei Lei's mother beat him up fiercely.
It turned out that the first unit learned the content of the box and the cube, Lei Lei did not listen carefully in class, and was not proficient in the calculation formula of the surface area, resulting in incorrect column formulas, and the calculation results were even more absurdly wrong.
The math teacher deliberately looked for Lei Lei's mother to understand, knowing that Lei Lei had been participating in extracurricular tutoring classes before, and the homework was taught by the tutoring class teacher, and he would not do it again once until Lei Lei could master the knowledge points.
Now that there is no tutor teacher, Lei Lei's shortcomings in not being able to learn independently are immediately exposed, and in the long run, it will seriously hit Lei Lei's enthusiasm for learning.
Scientist Gao Shiqi said that it is not difficult to grasp all the knowledge and knowledge in the world, as long as we study persistently, strive to grasp the laws, and reach a familiar situation, we will be able to integrate and apply it freely.
Parents should guide their children to understand that learning is the only way to master knowledge, but also to lay the foundation for the realization of ideals in the future, stimulate the internal driving force of children's learning, and let children spontaneously and voluntarily study hard.
When children achieve little by little results, parents should vigorously encourage their children to let children experience a sense of achievement from learning, so that children will fall more and more in love with learning, and learn more easily and happily.
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Self-confidence is the pursuit of happy learning.
I know that there is a topic to ask: Will learning well have self-confidence? The person who asked the question described that his family told him that he did not have self-confidence because he did not study well.
What he wondered was whether he would have self-confidence when he studied better than others. Is most of your sensitivity caused by poor learning?
In fact, we should understand that it is not that the academic performance is better than others, there will be self-confidence, but it should be compared with ourselves, and when the grades are getting better and better, we will become more and more confident.
As the first respondent to this topic, "Pu Alum", said, self-confidence is the affirmation of self-worth, and self-confidence should be based on one's own life.
Someone shared his personal experience that he wanted to participate in the school's program to study in Japan, and that passing the Japanese N1 certificate was a prerequisite, but he did not pass the first exam, but other students in the same batch of exams passed.
After the results came out, he had serious self-doubt, because his grades had been good from childhood to adulthood, why did others pass this time and not pass?
Later, he finally figured out that he should not struggle with whether others passed, but should focus on the second exam, so that he could find his own confidence from learning.
In Juan Bendana's speech on "Learning Motivation", the first sentence was: "People cannot become confident overnight, and self-confidence needs to be cultivated day after day." ”
In his speech, he said that the first way to maintain self-confidence is to "develop your own skills", and the more skills you develop, the more potential you have and the more abilities you have.
In this process of subtly developing skills, we will gradually believe in ourselves, become more confident, and at the same time have more confidence in ourselves and our own abilities.
Parents should be good at discovering their children's learning advantages, and inspire children to make up for their weaknesses, try to go hand in hand in all subjects, and gradually build up their children's self-confidence in learning.
Only when the child believes that he can learn well will stimulate the child's more vigorous enthusiasm for learning, so that the child can truly make learning a happy thing in the long-term learning career.
Write at the end:
Read a sentence: knowledge changes destiny, learning rewrites life.
No matter how the social situation develops, and no matter how the policy is formulated, learning is always an indispensable part of the child's growth process, and it is also the most important thing.
Parents can accompany their children in the process of learning, and gradually cultivate their children's self-disciplined learning habits, independent learning ability, and confident learning attitude, and believe that children will be happier and happier the more they learn!