People have joys and sorrows
The moon has clouds and clouds
Birth, old age, illness and death
It is nature's most merciless iron law
Stories about life and death
It is staged day and night in the world
Each of you and I may be involved in this —
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Remember
The moment of eternal goodbye to a loved one
The Son wants to raise and does not wait
There is nothing more regrettable in the world than this
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Such sadness may not be soothed by time
But there will always be good memories for the rest of your life
Life and death are dilemmas
We may not be able to break free from the shackles of yin and yang
But love can warm death
We collected 10 stories related to death
With records and remembrance
Comfort the living
@ Prince Prince
"If I choose again, I will never go far"
My father's fight against cancer ultimately failed, and I took his hand and saw his last tear slip down.
The mother was overly sad, and only ten days later, her heart attack suddenly occurred.
Like a thunderbolt on a sunny day, loved ones leave in a hurry.
All that remains is the increasingly vague memories of the past, and may they be safe in heaven.
Thank you for giving me life, the so-called son wants to raise and not to wait, far from home, years of hard work has not made the happiness index of life improve.
If I choose again, I will never go far...
I just want to spend more time with the second elder and do my filial piety.
@ Love Affair
"Even if people live to be 80 years old, they still need parents."
In the autumn and winter of 2018, my parents were separated by 40 days.
Watching the departure of my loved ones, I felt the greatest helplessness, helplessness, grief, loneliness...
I felt like I had lost my whole world, and although I had my wife and children, I still felt like an orphan.
Only to know that even if people live to be 80 years old, they still need parents.
@ Suddenly
"Mother thought she was going to the hospital, but the navigation destination was the funeral service center"
This month, my grandfather, who hurt me the most, was gone.
Hurried home from out of town.
Before entering the toll booth, I saw the message sent by my cousin that "Grandpa is gone."
Along the way, with his mother, who was still unaware, he suppressed tears, suppressed all emotions, and still drove unhurriedly against the speed limit.
The mother thought the car was driving towards the hospital...
The ultimate destination for navigation is the funeral service center.
@ Six Six Toot Mom
"I always regretted it, why didn't I go back on Friday night"
Last September, Dad left...
He spent his last week in the hospital in Chengdu, and every day he was sleepy, had no appetite, and could not eat.
I work in Shenzhen, work is very busy, but also have to take care of two children, can not rush back in time.
It was hard to get to Friday, and I was ready to fly back to my hometown after Friday's work.
Mom said Dad was recovering well. On Friday, I can sit up and eat by myself, eat steamed eggs, rice, kiwi fruit, so that I don't have to rush back, Saturday all day Dad is in good spirits, you can also be helped up to walk a few steps, appetite has also recovered a lot, and also ate a lot of favorite mangoes and kiwifruit.
No one thought that this was the last return to the light, and they all thought that Dad's condition had improved.
At 4 a.m. on Sunday, when I received a call from the hospital, Dad's blood pressure suddenly dropped and he began to rescue him, following his own wishes without chest compressions and tracheostomy.
Finally, at 8:00 a.m. on Sunday morning, Dad closed his eyes forever, I booked a temporary ticket, and rushed back to Chengdu on Sunday afternoon, without seeing Dad for the last time...
Now I have always regretted why I didn't go back on Friday night, so that I could accompany dad when he was in the best spirit on Saturday and returned to the light.
Heaven has no sickness, may Father rest in peace.
@ Jun male
When he left, he kept "driving and driving, scolding and cursing" in his mouth.
Speaking of losing a loved one, it evokes deep pain and regret in me...
My mother has been smart and hard-working all her life, and has raised us through thousands of hardships and hardships, and it can be said that she is the most bitter person and the best person in the world.
However, I did not give a little reward, not because I did not want to repay, but because I was so confused that I did not expect to repay.
When I understand that the Son wants filial piety and does not wait, it is too late:
My good mother has left us silently and without a trace. Heart-wrenching pain, great regret, and lifelong heart cancer that I can't cure with panacea!
And my second brother, also like my mother, is smart and capable, kind-hearted, extremely happy to help others, and then unfortunately suffered from liver cancer, because the family was poor and had no money to treat...
When I left, I was in a coma, but my mouth kept "driving and driving, swearing and cursing" endlessly.
Finally, he even scolded a sentence of "This dog day!" ......”
It wasn't until a few years later that I woke up like a dream:
It turned out that he was shouting: Big Big, Big Big (Dialect: Big Big is Daddy)...
At the time of dying, in his not very clear thinking, he still missed the old father who could not put it down, and wanted to call the old father to sit next to him and say to him: I can't send you to the old man's home...
But I, alas!
I couldn't have imagined it at the time, like a fool.
That scolding, if not hating his own fate, was hating me for being ridiculously stupid:
I don't understand the inner confession that my dearest person wants to tell at this moment.
@ Ah Xi Xi Xi Ah
"For the elderly, it is to see once less than once"
One of the luckiest and most painful things was to hold Grandpa's hand and accompany him on his last journey.
When my grandmother's physical condition deteriorated, in order to satisfy her wish to see me get married, the wedding was advanced by more than a month, and sure enough, she did not survive to my original wedding date.
An hour before the family told me about my grandmother's departure, she had just discovered she was pregnant, and before she could tell her, she left.
More than ten years later, I still remember clearly.
Grandpa left during the Spring Festival holiday of the previous year, and he really felt the "return to the light".
We all went back to see him during the holidays, and the children all gathered around his great-grandfather's bed to call him, and he responded to them one by one after a month without opening his mouth.
Dad said that Grandpa should be in these few days.
The next night he left at nine o'clock.
During the Mid-Autumn Festival holiday, he pushed a wheelchair and took him outside for a long time, looking at the land where he had lived for eighty years, the village had changed so much that he didn't know it.
He also promised to take him to the park he had visited before during the New Year, but it was too late to realize it.
Cherish your family! See you more than once! For the elderly, it is to see once less than once...
@ Board Girl
"Can't say enough, tears"
On September 14, 2020, my grandfather left us, and after a gap of 28 days, my grandmother also left us.
Unfortunately, I didn't see Grandpa for three days before he left, but I heard my mother say that Grandpa walked very peacefully.
He said he was going to sleep and asked his family not to disturb him, so he turned around and closed his eyes as he left.
Many days before leaving, Grandpa wrote to his parents about things from his youth to the present, and he also had to drink tea.
Can't say, tears.
Twenty-eight days later, on a Sunday, I took my daughter home, and that afternoon, my husband and I watched my grandmother close her eyes and leave us, and my heart was full of pain and reluctance.
No matter how far you go and how high you go, the relatives and friends who love you and your loved ones in life are alive and well, which is truly worth cherishing.
@ Unicorn
"So every time you leave, you have to say goodbye"
So say goodbye every time you leave.
On the last side with Grandpa, I said I had gone to dinner for a while and came back, and he nodded, but this was my last words to him.
He kept watching me wave when I went out until he couldn't see each other.
Although he didn't wait for me to come back, I knew he had a good goodbye every time.
He taught me the last lesson in life before he left.
@ G Shin
"Grandma, love you"
Spent two years in the hospital, staying up the latest night.
Greet the warmest sunshine at 7 o'clock every day, listen to the cries of the intensive care unit instruments every day, and accompany the last elderly person in the family.
Watching her grow emaciated, it was as if I could foresee the day before anyone else.
Watching her spit out black bubbles, sadly wiping them off over and over again, and leaving alone with her.
Even if I still can't forget you in the past two years, I don't dare to think about you more.
Grandma, love you.
@ Wait for the fog to clear
"The only thing he remembered about me during his stroke"
Three years ago, on February 10, 2018, at 5:20 p.m., my grandfather left.
I heard my grandmother say that she was still eating before leaving, and she should have choked and didn't let him see me before he left.
One day a few years ago, Grandpa suddenly fell to the ground for a long time before he was found to have suffered a stroke.
Then I was hospitalized, and then I was able to walk home in a stable condition, but it didn't take long...
He walked too suddenly.
At that time, he had just turned 70 years old and his hair was completely white.
Recalling his childhood he treated me best among our 3 grandchildren and would often give me 1 buck for snacks to eat.
I was happy to see me.
The only thing he remembered about me during his stroke.
I think he wanted to see me before he left, but he never got a chance again.
We didn't cry after he left, but we could all see that we were sad.
At that time, there were still a few days before the Spring Festival, and it was the heaviest Spring Festival we had ever had.
Death is the end of life.
It is said that a person experiences three deaths in his lifetime:
The first time, it is the death of the flesh, the breath gradually disappears, the heart stops beating, and you will lose the perception of the world;
The second time, at the funeral, friends and relatives wave goodbye to you, no matter how much glory you have experienced in your life, you will sleep in a small grave;
And the third time, when no one in this world knows your name, all the evidence that you have been in this world will eventually be erased.
The world is impermanent, and separation and death cannot be avoided,
All we can do is to remember in our hearts the past,
Cherish the present and move on with your memories.
Unknown birth, unknown death,
Mourn for all the souls that have passed away,
May all those who are alive cherish each other...
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