"I will never forget the day my daughter was born, I was supposed to go to the hospital to give birth, but I encountered the village to build a road, the only road out of the village was blocked to death, the car could not pass at all." My husband was anxious to pick me up and go to the hospital, but it was too far to go to the hospital in the county town, and it was too late, so he could only give birth at home. But I never expected that this accident would ruin her life. Qin Jiamei said of her daughter Tingting, her expression was full of guilt, and tears flowed down her cheeks. The picture shows the mother Qin Jiamei taking care of her daughter Tingting.
In the years that followed, the family tried their best to find a way for their daughter to survive, and the mother-in-law, who was in her 70s, was supposed to be well-nourished, but had to take care of her uncle who was mentally ill at home, and her husband went out to work. For 7 years, Qin Jiamei took her daughter alone to go to large and small hospitals in Beijing, Sichuan, Yunnan and other places, but just when her daughter was about to usher in hope, the only husband in the family who could earn money was accidentally found to have a tumor on his liver, but he could only stand up and not go to work without treatment. Qin Jiamei was even more anxious to cure her daughter, and she feared that the family would collapse at any time. The picture shows Tingting in a rehabilitation center.
Qin Jiamei is a post-80s family living in a small mountain village in Zhaotong City, Yunnan Province, and married her husband Huang Anwu in 2005. The husband's family consisted of only an elderly mother and a mentally ill uncle in his 50s who had never started a family and lived with them. Although life has always been very poor, Qin Jiamei thought that as long as the couple worked together, the family would get better and better, but she did not expect that the accident was quietly coming. The picture shows the mother Qin Jiamei worried about her daughter's illness.
On January 1, 2013, Qin Jiamei, who was pregnant in October, suddenly had a stomachache and was about to give birth, and her husband had been guarding her at home those days, but he did not know that the village was building roads these days, and the only road to the county hospital was blocked to death. In desperation, Qin Jiamei could only give birth to a baby at home, and in this way, the youngest daughter Huang Yuting was born. The picture shows Tingting.
Qin Jiamei originally thought that her daughter could grow up healthy from now on, but she did not expect that the symptoms of Tingting a year later made her uneasy. In the summer of 2014, 1-year-old Tingting still can't sit, can't walk, and even eats her favorite food, and can't hold it by hand. Qin Jiamei took her to the hospital for examination, and Tingting was diagnosed with cerebral palsy. The picture shows the mother Qin Jiamei reading a book with her daughter Tingting.
"This is a very common neonatal disease, because I was unable to go to the hospital to give birth because I built a road, which ruined my daughter's health for a lifetime and ruined her future. Qin Jiamei choked and said, but now it is too late to regret it, and her daughter's illness has become a fact.
Since then, Qin Jiamei began to take her daughter around to seek medical treatment, and as soon as she heard where the treatment was good, she immediately got up and took her daughter with her. In 7 years, Qin Jiamei ran all over Beijing, Sichuan, Yunnan and other places with her daughter in her arms, and went to countless hospitals, but the treatment effect has not been obvious. Under the rush of many years, Qin Jiamei not only spent all the money in the family, but also owed a huge debt of more than 300,000 yuan. The picture shows Tingting receiving treatment.
Over the years, this family has been carried by her husband Huang Anwu, who has bone hyperplasia in his own legs, and when he hurts, he has to bite things in his mouth. Over the years, her husband has been working around, overwork has made his condition continue to be serious, and he can't even walk when the pain is so bad, but he has never complained and has been looking forward to his daughter's recovery. Under overwork, the husband's health also went out of shape. The picture shows the mother Qin Jiamei wiping the face of her daughter Tingting.
In 2020, Huang Anwu's body pain became more and more frequent, there was no strength in his body, after going to the hospital for examination, he found that there was a tumor on the liver, but no matter how Qin Jiamei persuaded, her husband refused further examination and treatment. "The family already owes so much debt, I can't go to the doctor, my daughter's illness is not good, I go to treatment, my daughter has no money for treatment." From the day Huang Anwu was diagnosed, he did not dare to think about his own treatment, as if he had nothing to do, he worked harder to make money and worked overtime all day. The picture shows the mother Qin Jiamei giving her daughter Tingting a massage.
Just when Qin Jiamei fell into despair, in the spring of 2021, she learned from her daughter's patients that there was a rehabilitation hospital that could waive part of the treatment fee, and she immediately took her daughter to the hospital for hospitalization procedures. Here, Tingting began to receive cognitive, physiotherapy, massage, magnetic therapy, PT and other projects every day, and sometimes after 1 day of treatment, Tingting would ask her mother to let her exercise for a while. Because Tingting continued to grow up, her body became heavier and heavier, but she could not walk, and Qin Jiamei could only carry her daughter on her back for treatment. At the end of the day, Qin Jiamei was so tired that her body could hardly move. The picture shows her daughter Tingting doing rehabilitation treatment.
"I never felt how bitter I was, after coming to the hospital for professional rehabilitation training, now my daughter has made great progress and can slowly walk away with her own assistive device." I believe that as long as I insist on taking my daughter for treatment, she will definitely recover better and better. Qin Jiamei said. The picture shows her daughter Tingting holding the railing to exercise and walk.
Tingting also knows how difficult it is for her to get treatment, and she has always actively cooperated with the treatment and never let her mother worry. "Mom, you have never given up on me, I will definitely work hard, you can rest assured, I will be fine." Tingting, who was exercising and walking with the assistive device, smiled and said to Qin Jiamei. Her white face was full of determination, and her two small hands held the railing tightly, moving slowly step by step. The picture shows Qin Jiamei holding her daughter for treatment.
The daughter's understanding and better and better treatment effect have always been the biggest driving force for Qin Jiamei to insist, but more and more treatment fees have made the Qin Jiamei family unable to support it. The old mother of the family is already seventy years old, frail and sick, but also to take care of the mentally ill uncle who cannot take care of herself, her husband's physical problems, may fall at any time, and she has been taking care of her daughter and cannot get out.
"I really don't know what I can do to keep my daughter in treatment." Qin Jiamei knew that her daughter's treatment was a bottomless pit, but neither she nor her husband could afford to paralyze such a smart, lovely, white and pure daughter for a lifetime. The daughter was all their hope, even if it was a big price, she had to go on, but she really didn't know how to go in the future. The picture shows Qin Jiamei not knowing what her daughter's future holds, and her husband also worries her. Original works, it is strictly forbidden to reprint in any form, infringement will be investigated! #Photography Headlines ##图片故事 #