All the "feelings that have not been blocked" are actually saved

Hello, everyone, I'm Li Shugen.

Shugen saw such a message in the background: Genge, I quarreled with my girlfriend and broke up, send her WeChat and don't reply, what should I do.

First of all, I would like to congratulate this friend.

I'm not kidding, because the girls didn't reply to the message just because of a momentary gamble, and didn't block or anything.

This is enough to show that the other party does not really want to break up, that is to say, there is still a chance.

Of course, there must also be friends who have encountered the situation of being blocked by girls.

Friends in this situation do not worry, there is still a way to save feelings, such friends welcome WeChat to find me to give you advice.

Well, let's get back to it, although they haven't broken up at the moment, they're on the verge of breaking up.

After the quarrel, if the two parties cannot reach a settlement in time, it will evolve into a real breakup.

So what do we do in this situation to save this relationship that is on the verge of breaking?

We should pay attention to the following three points.

First, in the process of repairing feelings, we must generally uphold the principle of "turning big things into small things into nothing".

If two people break up because of some trivial matters in life, in order to avoid escalation of the situation, they should calm down with each other.

When they reconnected with each other,As in the good old days, they did whatever they wanted, and it didn't happen when they quarreled.

But if it is because of some more serious problems, such as a party suddenly changed its mind, or the three views collided, and so on.

There is such a problem, it is estimated that you still want to break up more than the other party, then, whose problem we will solve whose problem.

Second, when the other party does not reply to your message, don't bother at the moment.

When both sides calm down a few hours or the next day and the situation eases up a little, we still stick to the principles that preceded us.

As if the two people have not quarreled, send a sentence to the girl such as "what do we eat at night" or "Do you want to go to a movie together" to distract each other's attention.

Note here that as much as possible about the two of you, it is not recommended to involve a third party.

For example, if you describe the same thing as proposing to watch a movie, if you describe it as a friend or a colleague of mine recommending something to a movie.

This will give the girl the feeling that your social network is as colorful as her, and it will only escalate the contradiction.

Third, don't "bribe" her.

I believe that some friends are more delicate in their minds, thinking that they have provoked her to be angry anyway, so it is better to take this opportunity to buy some small objects that she usually likes, but is not willing to buy themselves to solve the contradiction.

Shugen wants to say that the first time this method is used OK, it will make the girl very surprised, very surprised, feel that the "elm head" has finally opened the trick.

But its shortcomings are also more obvious, that is, when we use it for the second and third time, girls already have psychological expectations.

One is that she knows we're going to do it, and the surprise effect is greatly reduced.

Second, if we do this every time, we will fall into a vicious circle with the girls: we will send things when we quarrel, and then quarrel after delivery.

Over time, both people will feel sickly that this is deserved, and the relationship will become more and more that.

Therefore, if you want to ease the relationship by sending things, this method should be used with caution.

You know, a breakup is often not a one-moment decision of people.

When the other half loses confidence in a relationship, she rarely tells you directly.

Instead, it accumulates again and again, using the final quarrel as the last straw to decide to break up.

Finally, two people together, quarrels are always inevitable.

But what we need to work on is how to end the quarrel after the fight, and how to learn how to hug each other.

If you want to talk about a relationship that doesn't break up, or save a relationship that is on the verge of breaking, three points rely on methods and seven points rely on prevention.

We must always keep a clear head and identify the signal that the other party wants to break up in time.

In this way, when the other party appears to want to break up, it will not burn away your entire love field.