Not all people who love each other can be together for life, and not many loves can not be disappointed.
In "Journey to the West", the king of the daughter country admired Tang Monk, let go of the reticence of his daughter's family, and took the initiative to propose marriage, and Tang Monk faced the queen's love, and after a bitter struggle in his heart, he finally chose the Buddha Gate and left a sentence for the queen alone: If there is an afterlife.
A lot of love is with regrets, many people are lost in the vast sea of people without waiting for the wind of the next life, and the bustling streets of the past are finally buried by time. The amorous man also went on a long journey alone, taking away his thoughts and never bothering again.
Just like Shen Jiayi and Ke Jingteng in the movie "Those Years". The love of a mischievous boy and a well-behaved girl who is loved by thousands of people is destined to be a regrettable love. Although they entered the university together, it can be seen through various details that their growth trajectory has long deviated. The eldest boy Ke Jingteng proved himself through boxing matches, and when Shen Jiayi, who came in the rain, saw Ke Jingteng with a blue nose and swollen face, he only said a word of "childishness" and rolled his eyes and left.
"You don't understand anything", you don't understand what I want you to be, you don't understand what my love for you looks like, you don't understand what the future I envision is like, so they broke up. Shen Jiayi later married a mature and stable man, and the big boy who loved to cause trouble finally realized in regret that he could not give her the sense of security she wanted.
Ke Jingteng, who loved Shen Jiayi the most, did not marry her, and Shen Jiayi, who loved Ke Jingteng the most, did not marry him. "Childish" and "mature" collided together, and after all, there was no spark of love, and the one who loved her the most also chose to bless her from afar and no longer disturb her happiness.
There is a kind of longing like Ke Jingteng, watching the beloved person walk into the hall of happiness, no longer disturbed, no contact with each other, only wish you happiness. At this moment, I think this big boy has also grown a lot.
There is a famous saying in Zhang Xiaoxian's book "The Single Bed in the Purse": "The most distant distance in the world is not life and death, but I stand in front of you, but you don't know that I love you."
I love you how simple three words, but some people spend a lot of time looking for it, not knowing that the person who loves you the most is right in front of them.
Xiao Shui in the Thai drama "The Little Thing of First Love" is the most ordinary little girl in the first grade of junior high school, but this ordinary girl is partial to the best and most handsome A Liang in the school. So she did a lot of silly little things, just to get the attention of Elder Ah Liang. Although she was humiliated, she also had to apply to join the dance club, at the expense of participating in the drama club that no one liked to watch, practicing military music conducting, and even in order to make Ah Liang notice her, she tried to make herself beautiful. Kung Fu pays off, the water has become a veritable figure in the school, she has become a school flower girl in the eyes of the boys, when she graduated from junior high school, Xiao Shui finally plucked up the courage to confess to Ah Liang, but found that he already had Xiao Bin Xue sister around him, Xiao Shui silently retreated to the background, chose to be perfect, and no longer contacted Ah Liang. In fact, Ah Liang did not stay with Xiao Bin, because of his original commitment to Ah Tuo, and hid his true feelings.
The ending of the movie is still beautiful, the two people did not regret their lives because of some misunderstandings, 9 years later, in a program interview scene after Xiaoshui returned to China, the host invited A Liang. After nine years, the two met again, Xiao Shui asked Ah Liang if he was married, and Ah Liang replied that I had been waiting for the person to return from the United States. Xiao Shui laughed and cried.
If the two do not meet again after 9 years, will it become a lifelong regret? If you take the initiative a little more, won't the person you love deeply bury in your heart forever? 9 years is not long, but it consumes the whole youth. Xiao Shui and Ah Liang are undoubtedly lucky, they met, I love you three words did not become a wound in the heart.
In fact, the most sad thing in the relationship is really not the breakup, but the fulfillment. As Rene Liu sang in the song: She promised you a sweet word of the Sea Oath Mountain Alliance, and I only have one sentence of fulfillment without regret, which has fulfilled your today and tomorrow. Fulfilled my next summer, I have paid so much for your youth for so many years, in exchange for a thank you for the fulfillment. Fulfill your dashing and adventure, and complete my blue sea and blue sky.
The person who really loves deeply is the one who understands what the other party wants, and also the one who understands the other party's mind the most, does not want to set limits for you, does not want to leave regrets in your life, only perfection can make you have a better today and tomorrow, and only perfection can make you live more freely and love more freely.
Encounter and parting are the norm of life, and deep love can be the appearance of walking hand in hand, or it can be a good non-connection.
I'm not in touch with you anymore, hope you don't mind.
If there is an afterlife, be a bird, fly over eternity, and have no trouble of getting lost. There is fiery hope in the east, warm nest beds in the south, retreating to the west and awakening the fragrance to the north. If there is an afterlife, I hope that every encounter will become eternal.
But in this life, I chose not to contact. It's not that I don't love anymore, but I don't want you to be embarrassed. It's not that you don't want to work hard, it's that I don't want you to hesitate. Honey, I will bless you from afar, dear, I love you.
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