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In life, we often call those fathers who love their daughters very much as "daughter slaves", probably because the opposite sex attracts each other, and many fathers are powerless in the face of various requirements put forward by the little cotton jacket.
It is a good thing for fathers to spoil their daughters, but there are also some principles to follow in the process of father-daughter relationships.
Especially as the daughter grows up and her mind matures, a proper distance should be maintained between the father and the daughter, otherwise it will become a father's love across the line.
Not long ago, star David Beckham and his daughter Xiaoqi were caught up in such a controversy.
Beckham took 10-year-old Xiaoqi to watch fireworks, and mouth-to-mouth kisses caused dissatisfaction among netizens: crossing the line
It is well known that Beckham had three sons and a daughter with his wife.
After the birth of his daughter XiaoQi, he became the favorite of the whole family, and his father Beckham was completely reduced to a daughter slave, and he would hold Xiaoqi in his arms wherever he went.
As their three sons grew to adulthood, the Beckhams loved their daughter Xiaoqi to the extreme.
When Xiaoqi was still a baby, the media repeatedly photographed the picture of David Beckham kissing her mouth to mouth, and at that time everyone only thought that the picture was warm and cute, and there was nothing wrong with it.
But as Little Seven grew older, Beckham still liked to use kisses to express his love for his daughter, which also made many people criticize it, believing that this was a manifestation of fatherly love that crossed the line.
When 2022 came, Beckham took his daughter Xiaoqi to watch the celebratory fireworks together, and the atmosphere was very warm, and Beckham hugged his daughter and kissed her fiercely.
Although this action hides full of fatherly love, because Xiaoqi has reached the age of 10 at this time, and the way her father kisses her is still mouth-to-mouth, some media and netizens question the father-daughter behavior is a bit too intimate, which is beyond the scope of normal fathers expressing feelings.
Is mouth-to-mouth kissing between father and daughter a father's love that crosses the line?
Afterwards, this topic caused a lot of controversy on the Internet.
Some netizens think that the daughter's mouth-to-mouth kiss with her father when she was a child is warm and cute, but as the child grows up, gender awareness begins to establish, if the father and daughter are mouth-to-mouth at this time, it is very awkward.
But some netizens feel that this may be the way fathers express their love, whether it is for his daughter or his wife, he is used to doing so.
"I can't accept it, when my daughter was very young, I would only kiss my forehead, not kiss my mouth, and even more so when I was older, no matter how close the feelings between father and daughter were, I had to keep a distance."
"Me and my 8-year-old son are the same, I think it's nothing, it's an expression of love, don't think of family affection so distorted." 」
"I don't know if foreign countries are normal, but in China it is definitely beyond the line, 10-year-old girls understand everything, and fathers should not only talk to their daughters, but also teach their daughters how to maintain a safe distance from the opposite sex from the perspective of sex education."
The relationship between Beckham and Little Seven can't help but remind people of the following case.
On the Internet, a bao mother took a video to share a warm scene between father and daughter, but unexpectedly, one of the pictures in the video was questioned by many netizens.
It was on a train, and the daughter was intently looking at the cartoon on the small table, and the father on the side was probably tired and very comfortable lying on his daughter's lap.
The daughter also naturally hugged her father's head with both hands, and the father and daughter seemed to have a good relationship.
But then, the daughter, who was watching the cartoon, suddenly lowered her head and kissed the corner of her father's mouth.
In the mother's view, the daughter's kiss is a reward for the father's hard work, indicating that the daughter has slowly understood things and begun to feel sorry for the difficulty of adults.
But in the eyes of netizens, this kind of mouth-to-mouth kissing obviously exceeds the normal intimacy between father and daughter, and how to see how inappropriate.
Parents of the opposite sex get along with their children, and beware of family affection that crosses the line
In life, every child is the baby of the parents, and the intimate behavior between parents and children is also derived from the parents' love for the child, so when the child is young, hugging and kissing and holding high is a very loving interaction.
But as children grow up, they begin to develop gender awareness, at which point parents of the opposite sex must maintain a certain distance from their children.
For example, whether boys or girls, after the age of 6, they should no longer be bathed by their parents of the opposite sex, and when expressing feelings, they should also kiss their foreheads instead of kissing their mouths...
Parents of the opposite sex take the initiative to keep their children at a distance, which is the best practice in their children's sex education.
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