"夫天地者，万物之逆旅也; Time and shadow, hundreds of generations of passers-by also. And floating like a dream, for the joy of geometry?" -- from Li Baishi's "Spring Night Feast from the Brother Peach Plum Garden Sequence"
The Tianxia article has been copied since ancient times, which is also one of the wonderful uses of the inheritance of words, so Jin Yong used shen fu's "Six Records of Fusheng" in the "Book of Swords and Enmity", which led to many people's ambiguity in understanding this sentence because of the vicious Qianlong Chen Jia Luo Xiangxiang Princess Love Triangle Story.
In the morning, on the way to drive the children to school, this sentence suddenly popped up in my mind, and it was consistently haunting, of course, the various personal experiences in recent life triggered some resonance, simply wrote it down, and spit it out quickly.
I have always believed that people's various fate trajectories are often doomed when they are faced with important life choices, and your experience, cognition, temperament, and mentality determine the tendency to make choices next, followed by different life directions.
The word of love is the most misleading, the laws of nature are rational, life, balance, development, all follow the most objective survival of the fittest, the law of the jungle where the leftovers are king, and human beings, as an animal with advanced thinking ability, which is not willing to go with the flow, must give the objective world a variety of emotional meanings, it can be said that the history of civilization so far is the history of constantly overcoming the naturalness of human animals, the so-called civilization, that is, artificially set the rules of right and wrong. Philosophical dualism is so popular with the general public because it is in line with the level of understanding of ordinary intelligent human beings, and it is easy to popularize and even manipulate.
The deeper the emotion, the more serious the natural injury, until everything is lost, including life. Some call it faith, some call it true disposition, some call it extremism, some call it IQ tax. Anyway, you can't wake up a person who has been hypnotized by yourself.
There are too many examples to enumerate.
Deep affection is the cause, and much humiliation becomes the effect. The longer the process, the more painful it is, so it is better to break it early.
Looking back at the past that has happened now, we will find that the choices made based on certain feelings, or inexplicable beliefs, or fashionable values are often gambling, failure or success, and extremely accidental. This is also the reason why the fate of the number can confuse people, but also the reason why successful learning can fool people, because the logic of cause and effect is not clear, so fortune tellers and lecturers can casually grab some factors and extend to play a complete set of theoretical cow dung.
We need to be rational. For example, you need to know the limits of your own ability, don't believe in the ignorant slogan of not forcing, how can you know where your limits are; you need to know that health is the basis of happiness, don't believe that as long as money is in place, what 996 is a small dish, even life can be sold stupid brainwashing; you need to know that stability and security are the key to financial management, don't believe that life is rare to beat a few times, high risk and high yield slaughter you are not negotiable; you need to know that the emotional basis of men and women is in line with material and values, don't believe that passion can last for a long time, A wave and a wave of high self feel good; need to know that the equivalent exchange can do most things, do not believe that others are dumber than yourself, and have the illusion that life has shortcuts.
Based on reason, finding the most suitable emotional lifestyle for yourself is a good state of life.
