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I thought that Wang Lihong's old melon had already come to an end, and no matter how hard he struggled, he was powerless to return to heaven!
I never expected that this storm could make a comeback!
Just yesterday, the media exploded by the full version of the text message of Sun Yu Wang Lihong: there is no deviation in the content, only the work interaction of the woman privately requesting the man to promote the album.
Earlier, because the text messages did not all come out, Li Lianglei overturned the vinegar jar with only a few words, making a lot of noise in the city!
Wang Lihong hit the iron while it was hot, saying that the two had been separated for two years at that time, and they were at a loss for a while about Li Lianglei.D. In the past two days, reports such as #Li Lianglei's lies have surfaced one after another.
Compared with the previous Wang Father's flooding of the Dragon King Temple, his family played his own honey operation. Nowadays, all sides have successively reversed the situation of public opinion!
First, Wang Lihong's cousin borrowed the allusion of "once participated in the killing" of the "Warring States Policy" and came out to cry out for injustice;
Then the staff kicked Li Lianglei and there was no evidence of cheating, and blew himself up That the man wanted to broadcast hard gang, but considered the ex-wife's extreme personality, worried about the safety of the child, he chose to calm down.
Divorce lawyers also bluntly stated that the divorce storm is very likely to reverse:
Because the woman disclosed a large amount of privacy without permission, it involved criminal liability.
This side of the melon has not yet been digested, this morning's latest fierce material, #Wang Lihong alarm#, #Wang Lihong was removed from the list of bad artists # the key evidence seems to confirm his grievances, comeback is expected!
At this point, Li Lianglei's wind evaluation has also plummeted, and many people have turned their guns to attack the woman:
They cried: Go to jail, poisonous woman, was the child forced to give birth to you?
They sneered: No one in the second-married West Village dares to ask for it anymore, huh!
They accuse: What good does it do you and your children to get money and ruin people?
True or false, you and I are also in Lushan, confused and confused. But what is certain is that Wang Lihong's trail of counterattack is really working.
Ironically, compared with the man's private morality, everyone's accusation against the woman is "greedy", as if the full-time housewife must withdraw from the scene with dignity to resist moral criticism.
But in the "gamble" of marriage, women's sacrifices and efforts are simply unquantifiable.
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Tell me about two news stories that my husband has seen recently.
A professor in Shanghai, who was nearly seventy years old, retired and found a nanny to take care of the living. The old man has a monthly pension of more than 10,000 yuan, two apartments under his name, and a deposit of more than 1 million.
Looking for a wife, this condition is definitely difficult to meet with a lantern.
As a result, the professor proposed to the 50-year-old nanny and was rejected by the other party. The small ledger in auntie's heart is also clear and fierce, and the salary of 7,000 yuan a month as a nanny is real.
If you get married, you really become a free nanny.
The other is the just-released "2021 White Paper on Marital Happiness Satisfaction", which was found by scholars to be at the upper middle level, with an average score of nearly 3.8 (5 points).
But when it comes to gender surprise, the average score is 3.95 for men and 3.64 for women. Why is the happiness of women lower than that of men, and as a man, it is undeniable that husbands "profit" in marriage much higher than wives.
I still remember Luo Zijun's complaint to Tang Jing:
You haven't had a child, you haven't had a child, you have no idea that having a child and raising a child is ten thousand times more laborious than working in the office!
This cone sentence is not exaggerated in half a sentence.
Xiao Qiang, the grandfather who was once very popular, had no more right to speak.
First of all, the ending, retreating "behind the scenes", he finally divorced his wife peacefully. Less than a year after taking the baby, he was reduced from a spirit boy to a greasy uncle under the destruction of family trivia:
Hair loss, memory loss, dark circles, abs escape...
Let's talk about the milk baby, every day at five o'clock thunder can not get up, all day like a gyroscope shaft rotation, washing and feeding - changing diapers - coaxing children, day after day.
In this way, he spends 20 hours a day on his children!
Even more terrifying is the need to face the soul torture of neighbors from time to time. In fact, he is also embarrassed, afraid that there will be no place for the workplace, worried about the life of the palm of his hand.
This is the current situation of nanny marriage, but no one pays him.
As soon as the gender changes, the husbands' marital satisfaction is higher than that of the wife.
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However, most people in chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea, gradually ignore the wife's efforts.
Or, because of the different divisions of labor, they feel that everything is taken for granted, and they wantonly squander and enjoy the fruits. To do a little unsatisfactory is to cross Erlang's leg and crackle and accuse and complain.
Previously, a news story in Japan portrayed the hearts of all stay-at-home wives. A young housewife was on her way home from buying a finished potato salad over time, and was complained by an old man who passed by: "As a mother, potato salad or something, you have to make it yourself."
The two words reveal the arrogance of husbands to raise their families.
It seems that wives do laundry and cooking, engage in hygiene and throw away garbage, and let the family eat and wear warm food is not worth mentioning! This scene was filmed and posted on the Internet by passers-by, instantly causing the anger of Japanese housewives.
Mr. Mister's friend being a full-time wife is also a helpless expedient.
For the vast majority of ordinary families, if the child is not helped to bring, please nanny expensive and not at ease. At this time, only one of the spouses can make a sacrifice.
Usually the wife will stand up and take on the work of parenting and family management, stay up until the child goes to nursery or kindergarten, and then return to the workplace, and then new difficulties appear...
The poet Yu Guangzhong confessed to his wife in this way: she is like a kangaroo mother, taking good care of a large family.
But what is the voice behind the wife's choice?
According to the survey, 80% of post-95 full-time mothers, of which 60% of women are eager to balance their careers and families and realize their self-worth!
It is not an exaggeration to say that "full-time housewives" exploit in the name of love.
Understanding the current situation of the vast majority of families in China shows that it is not a question of "whether a woman can", becoming a full-time wife.
It was a real last resort.
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There is a Japanese law that says:
If the husband pays full social insurance and the wife is a full-time wife, when she is old, she can share 50% of the man's pension during the marriage period!
He also feels that his wife's domestic work not only needs to be seen and recognized.
You can even monetize.
An elderly man said of "Is it a waste for a highly educated wife to become a full-time wife?":
70% of children's education comes from families. In turn, 70 per cent of the family's education comes from the mother.
It's not impossible for a mom to be a stay-at-home wife.
Society should be tolerant, women are the greatest, they give birth to a child, and they raise him.
How much credit is this, without mothers there would be no human beings!
What reason do we have to blame women?
The simple words speak of the old man's empathy for the stay-at-home mother.
Whether it is a working mother or a full-time housewife, their efforts cannot be erased in vain. If it is unfortunate to go to divorce, why should the woman struggle to seek compensation for divorce.
It is reasonable that the husband's compassionate care is a matter of course.
Marriage creates many problems, and a man's ability to empathize determines the on-line of marriage.
Don't doubt after one shot or two: regret? Is it worth it? Can I start over?
Marriage is a cultivation, with hardships and warmth.
Click to watch, forward the circle of friends, wife and husband each 0.5, in order to form a home!
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