I want to get married quickly if you want.
A girl, in a blind date, she met a man, the other party and her, the same age is not small, the same has been urged to marry, are more anxious.
After a little understanding of this, the other party directly asked her if she was willing to get married quickly.
The man said that as long as she wanted, he could immediately prepare for the marriage, quickly get a license with her, and also hurry to hold a wedding banquet.
Hearing the other party say this, the girl felt a little incredible on the one hand, felt that everything was too fast, and on the other hand, felt that the other party seemed to be OKAY in all aspects, afraid that once she missed it, it would become more difficult to get married in the future.
As a result, she became very entangled and did not know how to choose.
I have to say that at the moment, there are really many single people, and there are still many people who are still single when they are not young.
When everyone else is married and we're still single, we're in a hurry, which is understandable, and even then, we'd better not flash marriage.
Two people together, there should be a process.
There are always people who say that if people will eventually die, then why should they live.
For this problem, even if you know the end point, everyone's end point is the same, but at least, you still want to experience, to feel these decades, to live differently from others.
Life is a process, between men and women, and that's actually the case.
In a relationship, marriage should be a smooth transition from love, rather than saying, get married first, and then go and say something else.
Love and marriage, many times, it will really be particularly different, after marriage, each other's eyes are chai rice oil and salt, all are real life, and love, that can be compared to romance.
From acquaintance to acquaintance, from acquaintance to love, from love to marriage, even if the process is not long, only a few months, it should actually be there, should not be omitted, because this will be a very good experience, it will be a very good memory.
This life, that seems to be a very long, really good time, but there will never be much, directly do not fall in love to get married, without any memories to come to a bland married life, such a day, it will seem very boring.
Moreover, in the days to come, whenever I remember that I was so anxious, it is easy to feel regret. After all, the years cannot be repeated, and once some things are skipped, there will be no chance to make up for them.
Easy to flash marriage, it is likely to meet people unladylike.
There are often some plots in film and television works, the male and female protagonists, each other is married first and then love, even if there is no emotional basis, later it is still a long-term love, and the life is very good.
With a flash marriage with a person, we may also have such expectations, and after marriage, we may indeed become like that.
But we must not forget that there are two sides to everything, rather than not knowing each other, but after marriage is very happy, most of the time, we are more likely to only find that the other person's character is not good, it is also very bad for us.
Life is alive, with a good heart, and expects that the person we meet is just a good person, which is the right thing to do, but we can't be too naïve, just give everything to luck.
In the relationship, they do not understand each other, they are paranoid to believe each other, and they feel that they will be happy in the future, which is never reliable.
Moreover, don't say that you grab someone casually, expect the other party to be a good other, this is not realistic, even if they loved each other at the beginning, after marriage, the other party may not be kind to themselves.
Getting married, that's always risky, we always want to win, but it doesn't have to be that way.
Don't want to lose too badly, meet people with obvious flaws, in the matter of marriage, we can't be bent on fast, even if someone says that they want to flash marriage, it is best not to agree, just refuse.
Getting married is a big deal, and you should always be cautious.
For marriage, we must not feel that it does not matter, and who is ever.
In fact, choosing different people, the second half of our lives, will be completely different years.
When we are single, when we are almost thirty years old, we have passed the age of thirty, we can have some uneasiness, but no matter how uneasy we are, we still have to calm down and not mess around.
We don't always have to think, we must let ourselves complete the marriage before how many years old, we must get married quickly, make a difference to the people around us, we just have to try to find, let ourselves be on the way to that person.
On the way forward, we met people we really liked and wanted to be together, we grasped it well, and when we didn't meet, we felt almost meaningless, and felt that the rhythm was not right, and we had better not force it.
Reluctantly being with a person, casually marrying a person, will not make us feel relaxed, but will only make us more depressed, even worse than when we are alone.
There is no age to get married, there should only be feelings that two people really want to be together.
Marriage, that is not only about our next few years, it will even affect our whole life, we have and only have this life, of course, with people who are really worthy, who really want to spend the rest of their lives together.
Remember, both men and women, it is best not to choose flash marriage.
What we need is never a person who is willing to marry us, but a life that we want.
There is no feeling, do not like people, we should not flash marriage, even if the first impression is very good, I still like it, we also have to be reserved, and each other slowly.
Slower, will appear more sincere, slower, each other will have some emotional foundation.
A marriage, without any emotional basis, even if married, will only be easy to get separated.
Only when they have some memories and deep feelings for each other, after being together, they will be willing to accommodate each other and tolerate each other.
Only in this way can the feelings be longer and each other feel more comfortable.
Text/Tan Meng
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