Tu Honggang is one of the earliest pop singers, who has sung wonderful songs such as "Jingzhong baoguo", "His own people", "Flying", "Big Wind Song" and won the gold medal of the CCTV 96 China Music and Television Competition.
Tu Honggang's acting career has ups and downs, but his love life is also very bumpy.
He had two failed marriages, and later met his assistant Xiaoyue and developed feelings at work.
In the third marriage, he regarded his stepson as his own, a model stepfather, but neglected his own son and daughter.
Tu Honggang, born in 1967 in Beijing to a musical family.
His mother was an actress in singing dramas and loved to sing when she was pregnant.
Tu Honggang was influenced to love music, and since he was a child, he liked to learn to sing behind his mother's ass.
In school, he didn't study well, let alone listen to lectures, and liked to sing.
It happened that there was a university system at that time, and Tu Honggang's mother saw that her son was not good at school and decided to send him to learn a technology.
His son liked to sing, so he let him learn Peking Opera and sent him to the China Drama Academy to study.
In 1978, Teresa Teng's song spread to the mainland, and Tu Hong was deeply infatuated with her as soon as he heard it, regarding her as an idol and hoping to become an excellent singer.
In order to get closer to Teresa Teresa, he also made music with his classmates and became a prominent figure in the school.
After graduation, Tu Honggang entered the literary troupe, became a real singer, and began to participate in performances with the troupe.
In early 1989, Tu Honggang came to the United States with the troupe to participate in the performance, and unexpectedly met Daisy, a 19-year-old mixed Chinese-American race.
That day, Tu Hong just finished the performance, and he and his friends came to a restaurant to eat, and Daisy happened to eat at this place.
As soon as he entered the door, he was attracted to Daisy, who was clear-eyed, and thought that this was love. Summoning up the courage to talk to him, the woman did not pay attention to him.
Tu Honggang did not give up and impressed Daisy with her singing, and she was deeply fascinated by the man who sang well.
Daisy and Tu Honggang are exotic lovers, and for this relationship, they choose to get married.
After marriage, Daisy will accompany Tu Honggang back to China to participate in the performance, and after the two return to the United States to live together.
In 1990, Daisy was pregnant, Tu Honggang could only run on both ends, and he was not present when the child was born.
Thirteen days after her son's birth, Daisy returned home from the United States with her son. The moment he saw his son, he didn't feel anything at all.
He also looked at the child with a surprised face and said: This is the son?
In the middle of the night, when his son is crying, he will feel annoyed and ask his wife to carry his son to another house, so as not to disturb his sleep.
Fortunately, Tu Honggang's mother likes her grandson Tu Ruibao, who eats well and drinks well.
In 1991, Tu Honggang's acting career was blocked, and he decided to go to the United States with Daisy to live and start a trading business.
He runs at home and abroad, and spends little time at home with his son and wife.
Daisy is reluctant, she hopes that her husband will spend more time with the children and herself at home, but Tu Honggang is unwilling, let alone take care of the children.
Daisy filed for divorce from him.
After the divorce, Tu Hong just returned to China, although still in business, but picked up music again.
In 1993, he revisited the music market, signed a record label in Hong Kong, and returned to the music scene, unexpectedly meeting his second wife, Fang Shu.
Fang Shu is a very beautiful actress, and Tu Honggang was attracted by her beauty.
During that time, Fang Shu was in a bad mood because of the divorce, and Tu Honggang often sent warmth to meet all her requirements in order to pursue her.
Even if he didn't have any money, Tu Honggang still had to borrow money to buy a car and take Fang Shu around to relax.
Companionship is the longest confession of affection, and Tu Honggang's behavior impresses Fang Shu and makes her believe in love again.
Tu Honggang and Fang Shu married in a low profile, and not long after their daughter was born.
After having a daughter, Tu Honggang decided to open a cultural company in order to let his wife and children live a good life, and launched the "Overlord Farewell" fire.
Tu Honggang was more confident to be the boss and decided to make an investment.
Fang Shu asked him to think twice, but no one could change the things he decided.
For the sake of business, Tu Honggang ignored the family, cared very little about his wife and children, and basically did not stay at home every month.
Fang Shu advised Tu Honggang to focus part of his energy on the family. He disagreed and even quarreled with his wife.
For a while, as soon as Tu Hong returned home, he quarreled with Fang Shu, causing him not to want to go home.
Fang Shu could only rely on his daughter for his life, as if there was no tu Honggang in the family.
One day, Tu Hong just returned home, Fang Shu was quiet, and after a while she said divorce, go with your business.
Tu Honggang was confused when he heard this sentence, he did not hold back, and said a word "good" with difficulty.
Tu Honggang signed a divorce agreement, and he was ashamed that his ex-wife and daughter chose to leave the house.
In 2002, not long after the divorce, Tu Honggang failed to invest, his friends left him, did not perform, and owed a bunch of debts.
Daisy died in a car accident, and his son returned home to live with him, and he did not have the heart to let his parents take care of him.
Under the heavy blows, Tu Honggang had no hope for life, and even self-doubted, and it was his assistant Xiaoyue who helped him out of the predicament.
Xiao Yue couldn't bear the decadence of the artists he brought, so he took the initiative to persuade Tu Honggang to take over the business performance, even if it was a small performance, he also had to participate.
Xiao Yue told him: We have to start over. Tu Honggang did not speak.
Xiao Yue took the initiative to talk to him about the performance, and she also accompanied him to perform, prepared the costume for him, and personally put the tape.
Sometimes, he has no money to earn without performing, so Xiao Yue lends him all the 20,000 yuan he has saved.
Tu Honggang was very touched to receive it, and he must perform well and return it to the assistant with interest in the future.
Xiao Yue had divorced and had a child, and she was originally dependent on her son, but in order to make Tu Honggang rise again, she handed over her son Toot to her parents to take care of.
All her energy can be put on work, tu Honggang was very touched after he knew it, and he couldn't work hard.
In 2004, with the help of Xiaoyue, Tu Honggang released a new album "I Love", which returned to the audience's vision.
He knew that all this he was doing now was related to his assistant Xiaoyue, and he was very grateful to Xiaoyue for helping him in his most difficult time.
Tu Honggang found that he could not leave Xiao Yue, because there were two failed marriages, and he did not dare to take the initiative.
Xiao Yue put down his own son for tu Honggang, and he thought that he must give Xiao Yue a good future.
Tu Hong just confessed to Xiao Yue, and she nodded her head very touched.
Tu Honggang and Xiaoyue are not so easy to marry, and they need to consider children. He has a son and a daughter, and Xiaoyue has a son, which is a bit like "Family with Children".
But their family is not as harmonious and beautiful as in the TV series.
Tu Honggang told the child to marry Xiaoyue, and the son and daughter did not agree at all.
That day, the son and daughter obediently asked the father to come to the sleeping room.
The son sat down with his father and said, "Dad, talk to you about something." Tu Honggang was overwhelmed, thinking that something was wrong with his son and daughter.
The baby said: You separated from my mother and had me, then looked for her mother, and now separated from her mother, and found Aunt Xiaoyue, she also brought a beep, what should we do.
Tu Honggang was confused when he heard his son say this, and told the child: You don't understand at all, you go out.
The baby and the obedient father were very sad and sad to hear this, and quickly ran out.
At that time, Tu Honggang completely ignored the thoughts of his son and daughter and wanted to marry Xiao Yue.
After marriage, Tu Honggang still let his parents continue to take care of his son and baby, and his daughter was obediently taken care of by his ex-wife.
Xiao Yue saw that he did not take the child over, and he was not embarrassed to take it. Her son is also cared for by her parents, and they live in a two-person world.
Later, Xiao Yue's son Tu Du reached the age of elementary school, and Tu Honggang found out that his wife still did not take his son over, so he asked his wife what was wrong?
The wife is afraid that her son will not accept him, and she is also afraid of problems between him and her son. Tu Honggang swore that it was okay to take care of her son and take care of her together.
On that day, Tu Honggang went with his wife to his mother-in-law's house to pick up his son and take him home. He saw Toot and said, "Go home with your parents."
Toot was afraid to hide behind his grandmother, a little afraid of him.
Xiao Yue told her son: Dad will love you like Mom, and go with Mom to pack up and go home. Toot agreed.
At home, Tu Honggang did not communicate too much with Toot because he could not speak, did not let him watch TV and did not take the initiative to say, but directly turned off the TV, and Toot stared at him.
Although he is the father of two children, he does not know how to communicate with his children at all.
Tu Honggang, a man who had never read a book, began to read books in order to ease the relationship with his stepson.
The book says: If you love a woman, you must first love her children.
Tu Honggang began to reflect on himself, reflecting on how to love a child.
He began to take Toot to participate in parent-child activities to enhance the relationship between the two. Toot was sick, and he was more anxious than anyone else, with companionship and care by his side.
Tu Honggang put all his energy on his stepson, and the things that the stepson liked, he bought without saying a word.
Sometimes, Tu Honggang would take the baby to live together at home. However, the baby and Toot do not deal well, and the brothers often quarrel.
Once, Tu Honggang was very angry after Tu Du wiped his skin, not only did he not care about his own son, but also scolded him.
In 2010, in order to protect his stepson, Tu Honggang decided to send his own son abroad.
His wife Xiaoyue also advised him to think about it, but he didn't listen, so that no one would bully Toot.
Tu Honggang is also concerned about his stepson's studies, and will give him an interest class and invite the teacher to come to his home to teach him to learn.
However, the stepson does not like to learn much, so he no longer forces the child to do what he likes.
The child was still young and could not help but study, so he thought of a way to send his stepson abroad.
Due to the problem of tuition fees, I want my baby to give up school and provide for Toot to study.
Fortunately, the baby did not listen to his father's words, and he went to school while working to earn his own tuition.
Tu Du went to school abroad, Tu Honggang basically and his wife only have time to visit, but also will leave a lot of money, afraid of foreign countries will not have enough to eat and wear and warm.
Because Tu Honggang worked, he could not often visit his stepson, so he let the baby in the United States take care of it.
Once, Tu Du had a physical problem, and Tu Honggang was very anxious and longed for his illness.
He was afraid that he would go to add to the chaos of his stepson, so he called his son and asked him to take care of his brother. Speaks English and is also familiar with anywhere and easy to take care of.
Since the father has spoken, the baby can only give up his own affairs first and rush to his brother's side to take care of it.
When there was no problem with Toot Toot's body, Tu Honggang and his wife's hanging hearts in China were put down.
Since then, Tu Honggang has become more spoiled, not only giving him money, but also buying him a luxury car, so that his stepson can live a carefree life abroad.
He can only work harder, go around performing, and often see him appear in various commercial performances.
After the baby graduated from college, he returned to China to start a business, and he told his father not to be so tired, and I would earn money to give you a pension.
Tu Honggang, who has a stepson who spends a lot of money to feed, can't stop working.
The baby will make money for the father, hoping to reduce the pressure on the father a little.
Tu Honggang found that after marrying XiaoYue, he ignored his own son and daughter, remembered what he said to them when they got married, and hurt them.
He quickly called his daughter and told her what he thought from beginning to end. The daughter on the other end of the phone was in tears and unable to speak.
The obedience has always been very strong, and at that moment it was as if all the grievances had gathered together and could no longer hold on.
When he heard his daughter crying, Tu Honggang also cried, and he kept apologizing to his daughter, hoping that her daughter could forgive herself.
The daughter comforted her father and said: Dad, don't cry, this matter will turn over. Father and daughter reconciled.
However, Tu Honggang is most sorry for his son, who has been hurting him all these years. Tidy up the mood and apologize to my son.
At home that day, Tu Honggang called his son to his side.
Say "I'm sorry son, I hurt you before, I hope you can understand, can forgive, we can be a true father and son in the future, can be more intimate." ”
In order to make up for his son, Tu Honggang also gave him the jade pendant he had brought for more than ten years.
Now the baby is about 30 years old, and he has already talked to his father Tu Honggang.
Tu Honggang experienced three marriages, but taught his son that if he married a girl, he should not divorce.
Unfortunately, the baby has not yet met a loved one and does not have a strong desire to get married. I was afraid that when I got married, I would be like my father.
And Toot has no idea of getting married, and now he often goes out with various female friends and drives luxury cars, and he doesn't want to fall in love.
Although his stepfather Tu Honggang treated him like his own son, his parents' divorce still had a certain impact on the children. The family of origin is crucial to the education of the child.
Tu Honggang is a model stepfather for his stepson, doing better than his biological father.
But because of the stepson, you can't ignore the love for your own son and daughter.
Now he regrets what he did before, but it is a pity that life cannot be repeated.
Later in life, Tu Honggang loved his stepson, and he also loved his own son and daughter.
As the saying goes: the palms of your hands and the backs of your hands are all meat!