Tang Youxiu, a parent looking for relatives: I haven't had a dream in 15 years, and my child has been separated from me over and over again in the dream

On January 2, Guo Gangtang, the prototype of the movie "Lost Orphan", Sun Haiyang, the prototype of "Dear", Du Xiaohua, the only character prototype in the movie who has not found a child, and three other parents who are looking for a child, appeared in Chongqing.

At the scene of Sun Haiyang's confession, two other parents, He Shunlian and Tang Youxiu, once held their heads and cried. This time they and Sun Haiyang met again in Chongqing, and unlike the last time, He Shunlian's 18-year-old lost child, Chen Junkun, had been successfully found, and Tang Youxiu was still on the way to find his relatives.

Tang Youxiu's son, Chen Jie, who disappeared in Kunming on March 1, 2006, chose to take the child away from her hometown and take her with her. "I don't want my children to be left-behind children from an early age." For such a simple reason, she felt guilty about it for 15 years. At that time, a familiar neighbor took the child, but could not bring the child back, and the family turned over the village and could not find any trace. Since then, Tang Youxiu has begun the road of finding a son.

"For 15 years, I haven't had a single dream." Tang Youxiu said that when he dreamed back in the middle of the night, he often woke up crying breathlessly in his dreams. In the dream, Chen Jie was separated from himself over and over again, which was the nightmare of every parent who lost his child.

Tang Youxiu (left) shows the child's information

"Can't trust anyone"

This time from Tongliang District to the main city, Tang Youxiu took her second son, and she hoped to provide more clues to the police. For the second son, she looked very tightly. "I told him he couldn't trust anyone, not even his best friend." Tang Youxiu said that although it is a little unsatisfactory, she really can no longer bear the risk of losing even a little child.

When Chen Jiecai was lost, Tang Youxiu held Chen Jie's clothes all night and cried and fell asleep. Hearing the voice of a child next to her, she would stand on the windowsill and shout Chen Jie's name. Friends and relatives talked about her, almost shaking their heads, thinking that the child's departure had driven the young Tang Youxiu crazy. This year, she was 26 years old, which is the best age for women, and this day lasted until the birth of her second son. But guilt and guilt still often filled the family, and in the first 3 years, the couple did not dare to return to their hometown in Tongliang for the New Year, and the couple often complained to each other.

"If you put your child in your hometown at that time, wouldn't you have lost it?"

"If at that time, I could follow the child step by step, wouldn't I be lost?"

"I can never forgive a trafficker"

Tang Youxiu had to ask himself this kind of question a thousand times a day. Later, when she returned to her hometown of Tongliang for the New Year, she was still unhappy, the care of relatives would make her uncomfortable, she could not stand the sympathetic eyes around her, and she and the parents from the north and south of the world who were looking for relatives together got along very happily, because everyone had common scars and shared dreams. Until now, seeing the Lights of the New Year, Tang Youxiu would be uncomfortable, "Those happiness are someone else's, I have nothing." ”

From the age of 26 to 42, Tang Youxiu's most beautiful years are almost spent looking for children, and together with He Shunlian, she slept through the bridge hole, caught a late-night plane, and traveled through most of China.

He Shunlian's child was found, giving Tang Youxiu great confidence, and she believed that her child would be found sooner or later.

"I can never forgive the traffickers, how I survived these 15 years year after year, only I know." 」 She said.

Upstream journalist Peng Guangrui Zou Yu Zhu Ting photo report

【Source: Upstream News】