Although sun haiyang had previously said that he would not disclose too much news about Sun Zhuo to the outside world, in the crowd of media interviews and under the guidance of others, Sun Haiyang could not help but disclose some of Sun Zhuo's future news. These news have also attracted the attention of many people.
It is understood that Sun Haiyang chose a boarding school under the trade-off. This choice seems incomprehensible at first glance, but when you think about it carefully, you can feel Sun Haiyang's good intentions. Sun Zhuo has lived in the home of the "abducted parents" for too long, and even if he returns to his own family, he needs to have a transitional process.
Sun Zhuo will enter a "boarding" school, and Sun Haiyang said that the child's personality has really changed a lot
When Sun Haiyang planned to send Sun Zhuo to boarding school, many netizens said that they were "stunned". Everyone is still looking forward to Sun Zhuo's future study and life, and boarding schools are not good in the public impression.
In fact, this is the result of Sun Haiyang's careful consideration. First of all, Sun Zhuo will not be unsuitable for boarding schools, because he was previously in Guyang Key High School in Shandong Province, which is actually a boarding school. Secondly, Sun Zhuogang's return to his family requires an adaptation process, and the boarding system can just give this transition.
Previously, many people thought that there was a big daughter in Sun Haiyang's family, and whether there was a suspicion of son preference for sons and daughters personally believed that Sun Zhuo's sister was actually the kind of girl who was loved by the family. This sister has previously studied abroad, and this year she has planned to return to China to develop, and is currently in quarantine.
With the development of Sun Zhuo's sister Sun Yue returning to China, the family of five can finally be reunited. This family, which has become a public figure, touches the hearts of the public with every move. Although Sun Haiyang is worried that the public's attention will affect the children, he also understands the public's concerns and is willing to share good development with the public.
Sun Haiyang: I am very distressed about the change in the child's personality
Sun Haiyang revealed that compared with when he was a child, Sun's personality has changed a lot. When he was a child, Sun Zhuo was more "personality", although Sun Zhuo was only 4 years old at that time, he was naughty and had a great sense of personal belongings, and did not let his parents move his own things.
When he grew up, his son almost changed his appearance. Not only did he lose the personality and spirit of his childhood, but he also became very sensible and well-behaved, and his personality was also very gentle. It is true that many parents hope that their children are well-behaved and sensible, but Sun Haiyang believes that this just proves that their children have been "polished" in their personality.
For his son's "sensible and well-behaved", Sun Haiyang is actually very distressed in his heart. Because his cognitive son is very personal. From a very individualistic child, to now only want to be admitted to 211, find a good job in the future, and make the family's economy a higher level, the heartache experienced by the child is only known by the child himself.
If Sun Zhuo has never been abducted by human traffickers, then he may be able to maintain his distinct personality in his original family, without having to simply support the family, or make more money to polish his personality, and converge his personality and become a sensible child in the family.
In fact, we can feel from Sun Haiyang's other children that the educational environment of this family is very good. The parents' academic qualifications and culture are not low, and the family's economic conditions are not bad, so that the children of this family do not have to study for the sake of the family.
Many parents look forward to learning in order to live the life they want and grasp more life choices, rather than to have a better development to help the family, so they have to study hard. The same effort, but different thoughts and feelings.
From the perspective of Sun Haiyang's family, the only thing the public can do is to bless. But what such a small family reflects is the big question of whether the law's punishment for bribing trafficked children is too lenient. There is no harm in not buying and selling, and the real anti-trafficking chain of children is the end buyer.
No matter how sympathetic the buyer's intention to buy a child may be, this behavior is treating people as commodities. Objectively speaking, this is enough to deeply encourage the crime of child abduction and trafficking. Of course, how to position the sentence in terms of sentencing is left to the professionals, after all, there are too many complicated factors involved.
It is normal for the public to care about the Sun Zhuo family, but our concern should be decent, there is no need to over-dig into the depth of information, which will only make the child grow up and be troubled.
No one is perfect, and there are even fewer people who meet the "perfect role" in the public's mind in reality. It is too cruel for us to constrain a child or a father/mother with highly politically correct behavioral ideas.
For Sun Zhuo's future, the public is blessed. But what you really bless is not only this person or this family, but every child and every parent in society. I hope that every child can be treated gently by the world.
Today's topic: What do you think about the choices and decisions of Sun Zhuo's parents?