The English Romantic democratic poet and writer Shelley said: "Character may manifest itself in momentous moments, but it is formed in moments of insignificance." ”
A person's character can reflect his attitude towards life, moral qualities, how to behave in the world, and so on. So whether we are looking for a partner, a friend, or a partner, the premise is that this person is of good character.
There is a classic saying on the Internet: "Like a person, starting from the appearance, respect for talent, fit in character, long than kindness, and finally character." ”
Couples who are together because of appearance will be separated because of appearance; those who are together because of money will also break up because of money; only two people who are together because of their character can be together for a long time.
In fact, a person's most powerful patron is not money and background, but a person's character. Why is a person's character so important? Just take a look at the content below and you'll know.
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In life, character is the real capital
As the saying goes: "Virtue is a blessing", only when a person is generous and moral, will he be recognized and respected by others. And the kind person is what we call a person of good character.
They follow good behavior habits, know how to listen to others, care about other people's feelings, be honest and sincere.
Character is really very important, and having a good character is likely to change his life. For example:
I have a friend who was born in the countryside and his family was not in good condition. When he was in college, his living expenses were all the money he earned from working in the canteen.
However, he studied hard and had strong practical ability; he was industrious, simple and unpretentious in life; honest and reliable in his dealings with the world. Whether it is a classmate or a teacher who mentions him, he is full of praise.
Therefore, only in his junior year, he had already obtained a place in the research institute, and after graduating from graduate school, his supervisor also introduced him to a job opportunity in a company ranked in the world's top 500, which is the charm of good character.
A good character is called the true highest degree of a person and is a person's business card. In life, a person with good character has the real capital of life.
People with good character have a lot of good qualities, and it is because of these good qualities that they will be convincing in everything they do, everyone is willing to be close to them, and their popularity is particularly good.
Ancient Cloud: "Thick Virtue Carrier". On the contrary, when a person's character is not good, there are many problems, such as two sides and three knives, inconsistencies in appearance, narrow-mindedness, calculation, mercenary intentions, interests and other problems, such a person naturally cannot become a big thing.
Having a good character is not something that can be achieved overnight, we need to overcome our inertia, maintain self-discipline, be generous with the world, have empathy, integrity, kindness, etc., and we need to have so many good qualities at the same time, which is not an easy task.
No one is perfect, everyone will have shortcomings, but as long as we are determined to be a person of good character, strive to correct our shortcomings, and carry forward our own advantages, we can definitely become better. When you have a good character, your life path can go more stable and long-term. Good character is your hardcore backer.
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In society, good character gains trust
In the workplace, character is also very important. The famous industrialist Marshall Field said: "The first qualities of being a human being are honesty, diligence, frugality and integrity." These qualities are more important than anything else, and they are indispensable in any era. If one does not have these qualities, one must achieve nothing. ”
Ms. Tao Bihua, the founder of Lao Gan Ma, is a person who values personal character, and she does not look for a spokesperson but uses her own avatar on the trademark, the reason is: if something goes wrong, customers can find her directly.
Tao Huabi once said a sentence: "Really be a person, really do business, do your products well in a down-to-earth manner, don't cheat, consumers are assured of eating, and agents are assured of selling." "It is with her responsible heart that she makes conscientious products, so people are willing to buy her hot sauce."
At the Fifth Session of the Eleventh National People's Congress, Tao Huabi said: "Lao Gan Ma paid 800 million yuan in taxes in 3 years, achieved an output value of 3.1 billion yuan, and drove two million farmers to become rich. ”
This is an entrepreneur with good character, loved by the people, casting a good reputation, and an enterprise with a good reputation can stand firm in the wind and rain.
There are many such entrepreneurs in China, such as Ren Zhengfei, Cao Dewang, Ma Yun and so on. While realizing their own values, they have a patriotic heart, win glory for the country, and drive more people to become rich.
And there are some entrepreneurs, in order to obtain wealth, with a conscience to make black money. For example: Sanlu milk powder, black heart water pipe, hormone eczema cream and so on. Not only did they irreparably hurt others, but they also discredited themselves, were reviled by millions of people, and had to spend the rest of their lives in prison.
From this, we can know that good character is the most basic thing necessary for success, only with high morality, with conscience to make good products, provide quality services, will get the support of the people, so as to achieve a win-win result. If you violate the moral bottom line, deceive customers, and break the law, you are doomed to no good end.
In short, good character is for the basis of people, with good character, integrity and kindness, people are naturally willing to be true friends with you, in difficult times to lend a helping hand. A person's most powerful backer is either money and background, or character.
Author: Mr. Senmei
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