Interpretation of emotional topics, taking you into more positive emotional worlds! I am your emotional relief, but you have to know how to let yourself go!
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In a relationship, only the active man really loves you?
Men and women interact, many women feel that men's initiative and enthusiasm is the performance of deep love, but in fact, many times, not all of men's enthusiasm, represent love.
At the moment when marriage and love are open, some men's enthusiasm and initiative are lust or love!
Under the real human heart and human nature, the enthusiasm and initiative of some men are fierce with purpose.
Feelings are two-way, but not necessarily the two-way enthusiasm of two people is based on deep love.
Most of the time, women are confronted with a deeply loved one and are always willing to give the right to hurt themselves entirely to the man. Obviously, in several degrees of doubt, I vaguely saw the man's dislike, but I was still willing to deceive myself with wishful thinking!
In the relationship between men and women, it is never that you are passionately in love with one person, and the other person will respond to your affectionate hot.
Hope to disappointment, often because some details are ignored, it has caused a lot of holes!
If, love and non-love, to be distinguished by initiative and enthusiasm alone, it is too unfair to love.
People who are deeply involved in feelings are always willing to look at the surface kung fu, and are not willing to tear off the mask to see the substance. Emotionally driven woman's thinking, every time she thinks of a man's superficial enthusiasm and initiative, it will be like falling into a honeypot, and her face is full of happiness in shyness.
Even when expressing feelings of love to others, it is such a sense of happiness. None of this is a sorrow for love.
Why are there so many women who have only loved once and can no longer believe that there is true love in the world? Why do some women, who have only been cheated on by a man once, no longer trust any man?
It is because, in the past, when they faced their feelings, they were too concerned about the superficial form. Forget to love someone, the focus should be on the rest of your life!
Here, give women a wake-up call - the more men love you, the more they will "not take the initiative" at these three times, and they should cherish it when they meet! Men who really love you deeply will definitely not do this to you, and when they meet, stop the loss in time:
One: Take the initiative to ask you to "change"
To love someone is to retain and accept him as he is! Instead of saying love when he sees his earliest appearance, he makes him become the way he asks for when they are together.
Although there are flaws in each person, one person can only guide another person, who can never be able to force a change of whom.
Those who, regardless of whether the person in front of them is a flaw or an advantage, just force the other half to change "satisfactorily" is not love! It's selfish desire to manipulate!
Dress, accessories, eating habits, normal circle of friends, speech and demeanor... If he had to restrict you to change, he wouldn't love you so much!
With a man with a strong desire to manipulate, you will be morally kidnapped for the rest of your life by "if I don't love you, I won't bother to say you"!
True love has never been like this!
If he wants to manipulate you, nothing you can do will satisfy him! He will always "poison" you in the form of "good for your own good" in the form of "good" against you.
Love is exclusive desire, giving without regard to return, but it is definitely not manipulation!
Men's manipulation of women is a freezing stab. A man's love for a woman is inclusive, understanding, and allowing her to remain as she is. Because, when he fell in love with you, you were like that!
Two: Behind the enthusiasm, there will be no hidden purpose of "having an intimate relationship"
At the moment when marriage and love are open, intimate relationships before unmarried occur, some people do not think so, but in the end, women pay a painful price for their "non-self-love".
Yes, intimate relationships occur, very few people accuse men of aggression, the vast majority of people are saying that women are not self-loving. This is undoubtedly the biggest injustice in feelings.
But the reality is like this, who can turn back the clock and make the occurrence of pre-marital intimate relationships a rare lament?
However, at the moment when intimate relationships are not uncommon, men who really love you will not be enthusiastic about having intimate relationships with you as soon as possible, and even show their "intentions" too early.
You know, in the relationship between men and women, the vast majority of women are sex for love, so that they unreservedly dedicate themselves and even money. It turns out that men are no longer enthusiastic after desire!
Love the wrong person is not afraid, know the timely stop loss is good! I am afraid that I know that I love the wrong person, and because of the intimate relationship, I want to "greedily" want the rest of my life!
The man who truly loves you will definitely give you the rest of your life first, and then complete the "steps" of the intimate relationship with you.
A man worthy of your bet will definitely respect you, take good care of your reputation, and be cautious about your excesses. Because, you are his woman, he will never allow anyone to denigrate you, hurt you, not even himself!
Three: will not take the initiative and you "cry poor"
In this materialistic society, the most sensitive topic between people is "money".
In the reality that a very small number of women have filled the stars with a dowry, many people have knocked down all the women with a stick and harshly reprimanded:
You are too materialistic, only know to stare at men's money, you do not deserve true love...
But in fact, in the real life relationship between men and women, more and more material men are quietly spreading. Not only do you want to get a marriage relationship that you are satisfied with at zero cost, but you also want women to "upside down" to complete feelings that are not "transactions"!
When a man refuses to spend money for you and cries all the time, he definitely doesn't love you so much!
Feelings, although they can't be measured in money, but the man who stares at your wallet and stares intently must not be a person worthy of your lifelong trust!
Love face, afraid of self-esteem setbacks, no matter how difficult it is to say to women that they are "poor", no matter how difficult it is not to open their mouths with women to "ask for money", this is the minimum appearance of a man.
What's more, men have the desire to conquer and protect, and how can a man who truly loves you let you care for his vulnerability like a woman?
When a man does not love you deeply enough, he will throw aside all his dignity and face, complete his zero-cost sense of accomplishment in a crying way, and extend a hand to you for "begging for money" on the grounds of economic needs.
A man who truly loves you will be responsible for the rest of your life, neither rushing to have an intimate relationship with you, nor crying in front of you to ask for money, nor forcing you to make changes!
Loving someone will always make you feel that you can be yourself, you can understand that he controls his desires for the rest of his life for love, and he will work harder to lay the foundation for your future life.
If, in a man's three cases, is too "proactive" in the text, please stay away from him! He doesn't deserve it!
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