A reader asked me in the background: Uncle Ha, met a strange boss, always want to play is a show, so that the people below us have no passion for work, want to resign.
On this subject, my advice is:
First check yourself whether it is your own problem, because the boss's perspective and thinking are different from those of employees, do not easily question the boss's decision.
If he does have a problem and you don't think it's worth following, then you can consider leaving early and don't delay yourself.
Many times, the choice is indeed more important than the effort, some of the choices in life, you did not feel how important at the time, years later when you look back, you will find that it is very important.
Just like chen palace in the three kingdoms, because the choice is different, it is completely two lives.
01
He was Cao Cao's savior
Chen Gong's role in the Three Kingdoms is not so much, belonging to a character in the early Three Kingdoms, but many people remember him, because his life is tied to Cao Cao and Lü Bu, who are highly exposed.
In the rendition, Cao Cao escaped from the capital after failing to assassinate Dong Zhuo, and Dong Zhuo, who was embarrassed and angry, offered a reward for cao cao, and it was at this time that Chen Gong became acquainted with Cao Cao.
It is said that Cao Cao fled to Zhongmu County, but did not want to be caught by Chen Gong's men, at that time Chen Gong was the county commander of Zhongmu County, and he admired Cao Cao's righteous deeds, and the two of them had a long talk in prison, which made Chen Gong even more admired Cao Cao.
At the moment, it was decided to release Cao Cao, not only that, but also willing to take off his official clothes to accompany Cao Cao to the end of the world and conspire with him to achieve great things, which is the story of the famous traditional drama "Catching and Releasing Cao".
The two later fled to the home of Cao Cao's father's old friend Lü Bohao, where they were warmly received, but they did not want to have a tragedy of annihilation.
The people in the escape must have been very sensitive, Cao Cao and Chen Gong heard the sound of sharpening knives in the next room when they were resting, and mistakenly thought that the Lü family was going to be unfavorable to them, and reported the officials to take the reward, so they simply took the first move and killed everyone in the Lü family.
Later, it was found that the original people sharpened their knives to kill pigs and slaughter sheep to entertain them, knowing that they had killed the wrong person, the two were ready to leave overnight, and on the way they met Lü Bohao, who went out to buy wine and returned, and Cao Cao simply killed Lü Bohao in order to get rid of the troubles.
I'd rather bear the people of the world than let the people of the world bear me.
As soon as this ancient saying came out, Cao Cao's idol in Chen Gong's heart completely collapsed, and Chen Gong angrily left Cao Cao.
02
With Lü Bu, Dou Cao Cao, he died in the White Gate Tower
Chen Gong left Cao Cao and defected to Tao Qian's men, and later Cao Cao's father Cao Song was ambushed by Tao Qian's men in Xuzhou and killed, cao Cao led a large army to attack Xuzhou in anger to avenge his father.
Tao Qian was defeated by Cao Cao and withdrew, and Cao Cao ordered the massacre of the people of Xuzhou, and Chen Gong went to see Cao Cao to ask for a boycott of the troops, but was refused.
Later, Chen Gong surrendered Zhang Mi, and just as Lü Bu also came to vote for Zhang Mi, Chen Gong persuaded the two to raise an army to sneak into Cao Cao's stronghold of Yanzhou.
Since then, Chen Gong has mixed with Lü Bu, but although Lü Bu is brave in battle, the pattern is very small, not a person who can achieve great things, and many of Chen Gong's suggestions have not been adopted.
In the end, Cao Cao attacked Lü Bu, who was trapped in Xia Pi and chose to surrender in desperation.
In front of the White Gate Tower, Cao Cao was reluctant to kill Chen Gong and had planned to let him go, but Geng Zhi's Chen Gong refused to surrender and preferred to die.
Cao Cao asked him, after you die, what will happen to your wife and son?
Cao Cao knew that Chen Gong was a filial son, and asked, "You are dead, what will happen to your old mother?"
Chen Gong said, I have heard that the world governed by filial piety will not harm people's parents, how my mother is, all in the Ming Gong!
Having said all that, Cao Cao ordered chen gong to be executed and sent chen gong's old mother and wife's family back to Xudu for retirement.
I have to say that Cao Cao has feelings for Chen Gong, after all, he once saved himself.
Is Cao Cao a good boss?
At least in Chen Gong's eyes, it was too cruel, too murderous, not a bright lord.
Is Lü Bu a good boss?
Not to mention, he was self-conscious and had a bad character, which was much worse than Cao Cao.
But life is like this, you always think that the next stop will be better, but you don't want to jump ship and leave to a bigger pit.
Writing this article is to tell you that the boss is definitely not perfect, don't turn around and leave when you are unhappy, and be cautious when jumping ship.
Different choices, following the wrong boss, is another life!