In feelings, what we value is nothing more than "looking for happiness", and we always feel that meeting a good person is meeting happiness.
Usually, what kind of external performance will a good person have that will make you feel happy? The other party will give your heart to you, trust you, can remember your things, be empathetic, vote for you, take responsibility, share your worries, silently guard, and take the initiative to do something to complete you.
When the other party has these external manifestations, you will always have a strong sense of happiness, only feel that you are not alone in this world, you are loved, someone to worry about, someone to accompany.
In other words, what is happiness? Some people love, some people care, if you encounter, cherish it.
One. Someone loves.
1. Be courteous to you and do what you like.
When two people are together, the other party will pay attention to your life situation, and for your things, he will not only look at your eyes, but also remember them in his heart.
He will always remember your basic information, your preferences, your birthday, your lifestyle habits, etc.
It is precisely because he has known you with his heart that he can always be attentive to you, do something to your liking, and bring continuous surprises to your life.
The other party will be willing to put you first, take you as the center of life, and give you a lot of hospitality, which makes you feel valued, loved by him, and really happy.
2. Embrace your shortcomings and let you.
The opposite sex gets along, if the other party can't look up to you, loves to worry about small things and you, often quarrels with you for some unworthy things, when you do a little thing wrong, he will tear your face with you, randomly count you, do not give you face at all, not willing to let you, which makes you feel that you are dispensable to him, he can leave you at any time, the other party releases such a signal, indicating that there is no place for you in his heart.
On the contrary, the other party really loves you, and wants to be with you in his heart, he will naturally love you, at this time, he will cherish your love when they are together, and will be willing to tolerate you in life.
What shortcomings do you have, he will see in the eyes, but will not calculate with you, what is wrong with you, he will point to the end, give you the opportunity to correct, and urge you to correct the mistakes, when necessary, he will let you, the other party attaches importance to the love between you, will understand you, tolerate you, accept you, which makes you feel very happy.
Two. Someone is concerned.
1. Silently guard you, send charcoal in the snow.
The opposite sex gets along, the other party not only says "love you", the most important thing is that she will support her feelings with actions, and he will often silently pay attention to your affairs.
When he is with you, he will pay attention to your life situation, after separating from you, he will pay attention to your dynamics, inquire about your affairs, ask about your life situation, when you need his company, you are far apart, he has many inconveniences, he will also come to you, chat with you, help you.
In some critical moments of your life, he will always send you charcoal in the snow to express his concern. This shows that he has a "fist-and-fist heart" for you and a "great affection for living and dying with you.".
2. Secretly complete you and surprise you.
With the opposite sex, the other person's attention is not on you, when you are with you, he rarely cares about your life situation, and after separating from you, he has never been concerned about your affairs.
Your things, he did not remember in his heart, promised you things, he also said forget to forget, always let you down, the other party released such a signal, obviously did not take it seriously.
On the contrary, the other party sincerely loves you and wants to give you happiness, at this time, he will pay attention to your life situation, care about your thoughts, want to please you, want to do something for you, want to dedicate happiness to you, at this time, he will understand your life needs, understand your hobbies, understand your wishes and dreams, he will secretly do something for you, just to complete you, give you some surprises.