Recently, sun Zhuo and Sun Haiyang's affairs have been making a lot of noise on the Internet, and after fourteen years of hard work, Sun Haiyang and his wife have finally been reunited with their own flesh and bones. At the ceremony of recognizing relatives held by the relevant departments, Sun Haiyang and his wife and Sun Zhuo hugged each other and wept, and the scene was very touching.
Now that Sun Zhuo has returned to Shenzhen with Sun Haiyang and his wife, the family's life has been on the right track. Before returning to Shenzhen, Sun Haiyang and his wife took him to Lushan for a trip, and after returning to Shenzhen, they took Sun Haiyang and Sun Hui to the beach to cultivate the feelings of the family, hoping that Sun Zhuo could integrate as soon as possible.
However, the final result is somewhat unsatisfactory, and Sun Haiyang recently accepted an interview with reporters, and he seemed a little helpless in the interview. Sun Haiyang said that Sun Zhuo's personality has changed greatly, and he is completely two extremes when he was a child, from the "tiger head" of the year to the "obedient child" today.
Sun Haiyang said: Sun Zhuo's personality has completely changed, becoming very Sven, very disciplined, when he was a child, Sun Zhuo was very naughty at home. He was fat as a kid, and now he's skinny and doesn't know how he's doing over there.
I told Sun Zhuo that as long as you don't do anything illegal, you don't have to be afraid of anything, and you don't like children who are too polite.
What he saw was a very stable child, Sun Zhuo was very domineering when he was a child, and he didn't let others touch his things. Even if he moves, Sun Zhuo will yell and scream, and after moving, Sun Zhuo will ignore himself.
The reporter asked Sun Haiyang, do you prefer Sun Zhuo's current personality or his previous personality?
Sun Haiyang said: I think it is all right, my child I know him too well, many things are still like me, is a very sensible and kind child, there is not much bad problem on the body.
I have seen many children who have been abducted and trafficked, and after finding them, their personalities have not become very good. There are many parents who find their children, their personalities have completely changed, they have blocked their own parents, and told their biological parents that I hate you to death, I have a good life, and it is you who disrupt my life.
Although Sun Haiyang said that Sun Zhuo's current personality also likes himself, it can be seen from the tears in his eyes that he still prefers the domineering personality of Sun Zhuo when he was a child. Sun Haiyang's education of children is basically free range, and it can be seen from the education of Sun Hui that he is not worried about fighting and making trouble outside. After Sun Hui returns home, just tell him the stakes and let him know what is right and what is wrong, so that he can educate the child, and can cultivate the character of the child who knows right and wrong, and is independent of himself, and dares to do it, so that the character of the person can become a talent in the future.
The most taboo thing about raising children is to raise children into a person who only knows how to understand things and has no autonomy. In this way, when the future reaches the society, it is difficult to have great achievements. Understanding means restraint, and if you don't know how to fight, you will lose many opportunities. Without autonomy, you can only rely on others, and you can never get ahead. Sun Haiyang is worried that Sun Zhuo will become such a person, he will not be able to take care of him for a lifetime, and there are some things that Sun Zhuo still has to work hard for.
Personally, I think that in fact, Sun Zhuo does not need to worry too much about Sun Zhuo's affairs now, and there are two reasons why Sun Zhuo behaves so sensibly, one is his own personality, and the other is that he is not familiar with Sun Haiyang's family. After becoming familiar, the personality may become more ostentatious. As for the inner personality, Sun Zhuo has already been fixed at the age of eighteen, and if he wants to change, he can only take it slowly. Sun Haiyang's company will definitely change Sun Zhuo, but it will take a little time.
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