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Often in the background will receive a lot of male fans and friends complaining that women's hearts, submarine needles, they always have no way to guess the woman's mind, and do not understand how women think about themselves in their hearts, whether they like themselves or not, and whether they have the same thoughts about themselves.
In my opinion, many men may not know, in fact, most of the female friends in real life are only superficially independent and strong, after all, no matter how independent, no matter how strong the girls are yearning for love, the heart is eager to be loved and protected, of course, they will have a soft and fragile heart behind them.
However, we all know that in love, it is really a very difficult thing to be able to meet a person who really understands himself and treats himself sincerely. Therefore, male compatriots should understand that when you like a woman and want to pursue each other, you also need to pay attention to some love skills and methods, and only by choosing a correct and suitable time to do the right thing can you play a multiplier role with half the effort.
Especially in the face of difficulties or setbacks, most of the female friends' hearts are very fragile, just because there is no one around to let themselves rely on, all things must only rely on themselves to deal with and solve, so they will silently remind themselves in their hearts, if they are not strong enough, then who will be willing to be strong for themselves?
In the process of interpersonal communication, those female friends who seem to be invincible on the surface, knives and guns, in fact, their hearts are very soft, very fragile, in the end, girls also long for a man who can give themselves warmth and hugs, and can give themselves a man who relies on their shoulders. Whenever you encounter difficulties or vulnerabilities, giving yourself some practical companionship and help is often easier for women to be emotional about men.
You must know that in these three times, women are often the most prone to affection for men, and men can easily "capture" their hearts!
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When a woman feels depressed, give her the warmth and care she wants most;
In real life, whenever a woman feels depressed, it is often her most vulnerable and most needs to be accompanied, at this time, if men know how to accompany women, even if they simply chat with women, talk, and even deliberately tell jokes to women, make women happy, presumably women will be very touched in their hearts.
Especially when women are losing their loved ones around them, life has experienced great darkness, and they feel the saddest and helpless in their hearts, although each of us knows very well in our hearts that the life and death of human beings are the laws of nature, and no one can escape this fate, but when they really have to face it, they often find that it is so difficult to accept, and maybe everything will look so pale and powerless in front of life.
The pain of truly losing one's loved ones will never be as simple and easy as comforting others, so women who encounter this kind of thing are often very fragile and extremely sensitive in their hearts. Even if you will feel sad in your heart, you will feel pain, and even tears are always inevitable, but even if this happens, every woman still hopes that there can be such a man around her to comfort herself, to accompany herself, and to give herself some warmth and care.
Even if a woman is clearly aware that comfort does not have any substantial help, but still can't help but want someone to comfort herself, someone to care about herself, so those who know how to appear around a female friend at this time, give her comfort, give her care, give her encouragement and support, naturally will also leave a good impression on women, and it is easy to get women's good feelings, and even capture women's hearts. Even if you can't make a woman fall in love with herself immediately, it is obvious that it can deepen the relationship between the two of you and bring you two hearts closer.
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When a woman encounters difficulties, give her the most wanted companionship and help;
To know that practical action is always the most convincing evidence, whenever a woman encounters any difficulties or setbacks, men should know how to give women companionship, know how to accompany women to spend time together, give women substantial help, rather than just talk about it.
Especially in today's society, most women have their own job, have their own stable income, which can make women more confident, but also feel more at ease, and many women in a single state, will regard their careers as very important, even as their own love to treat, very hard to work hard.
However, the reality is often more cruel, perhaps women originally thought that as long as they work hard, then their careers can be as prosperous as they think, getting better and better, but many things will not develop as expected in their hearts, many difficulties or setbacks are always sudden, and the plan can never catch up with the changes.
Therefore, whenever a woman encounters a possibility or setback in her career or work, women will inevitably feel lost and sad in their hearts, to know that sadness, grievances are certain, so if at this time, men know how to appear next to women in time to give women the warmth and dependence they want most, and even help.
Then I don't need to say, everyone should know that at this moment, a woman's heart must be soft on men, and she will also have a good feeling for men, and even like men, and can't do without men. You should know that when a woman's career is frustrated, it is often the most vulnerable time in a woman's heart, and she definitely hopes that she can have such a person around her, who can accompany herself well, and can borrow a shoulder from herself so that she can rely on it well.
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At the time of a woman's major life transition, give her the most wanted guidance and ideas;
We people often feel overwhelmed, feel helpless, and will be in a more confused and confused state when we are at a major turning point in life, at this time, our hearts will be very eager to have a palm light to guide ourselves.
In fact, to tell you the truth, most of us ordinary people's lives are difficult to do smooth sailing, it is difficult to do the wind and waves, always need to go through some wind and rain, after some tribulations, to be able to see the real rainbow.
Especially when we are young and have just entered the society, which person is not stumbling over, such as starting to consider which city to work hard in, to find a job that is really suitable for us, what kind of company to join, often these times, not only women will feel confused and helpless, but even men will feel confused and confused.
Just imagine, if at this time, a man next to a woman can appear to rescue herself, can stand up and care for herself, help herself, know how to give women appropriate guidance, and help women sort out a clearer line of thought, then presumably women will definitely be very grateful to men, and women's hearts will not feel so entangled and confused.
Therefore, often when women need help and guidance the most, men who know how to appear in time give women the most desired insights, help women answer questions, teach them to choose the most correct path in life, there is no doubt that women will immediately appreciate and admire men, but also leave a very deep impression on women's hearts, women can also feel that men really care about themselves, really care about themselves, then women must be very easy to be impressed by men, Even the closed door of his heart will be opened for men because of this.
Zhang Ailing once wrote such a sentence: Meet the person you want to meet among tens of millions of people, in the endless wilderness of time, there is no step earlier, no step later, just caught up, then there is no other word to say, only to ask softly: "Oh, are you also here?"
All in all, in the vast sea of people, we people in this life can meet a loved one who likes each other, how difficult it is, how precious, if you are lucky enough to meet, then please be sure to seize the opportunity, do not miss love.
In fact, male friends still have to understand that they know how to do the right things at the right time, want to chase after their beloved women, want to win the hearts of their loved ones, and it is not so difficult as imagined, in the end, all of this needs the most is their own sincerity, their own heart to pay.
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