At first, when I watched "Know It or Not", I hated the role of Mo Lan, and her acting skills of dressing up as a delicate and weak birth mother Lin Xiaoniang were really a perfect inheritance, and even more than that.
Of course, she also won more favors from Sheng Hu with these and became the most favored daughter of the Sheng family.
At that time, watching the drama, I was indignant and indignant, and when I saw Mo Lan's drama, I fast-forwardd, so the stereotype of her was: "This person is too bad." ”
Recently, I took a closer look at the plot of "Knowing or Not" and found that Mo Lan was the best married of the four daughters of the Sheng family.
Why Mo Lan is not pleasing, and even scolded by netizens, is only because she has done what most ordinary women want to do but dare not do.
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Mo Lan was the concubine of the Sheng family, in ancient times, the concubines were all slaves, and the natural identity of the concubines born in the concubine room was also low, so most women had the idea of "preferring to be a peasant husband and wife, not a concubine of the public government".
Of course, there are also women who covet wealth and wealth, thinking of rich people's homes to go to the concubine room, although it is the identity of a slave, but the degree of food and clothing can get a great guarantee, Lin Xiaoniang is such a person.
It is reasonable to say that Lin Xiaoniang was raised next to the old lady of the Sheng family, and the old lady herself is also a kind person, and she will definitely find a good in-law family for her.
However, she is not the Sheng family, there is no mother's family as a patron, how much dowry can the old lady of the Sheng family give her, even if it is a marriage match, she can only find an ordinary family.
Lin Wanshuang was also a family lady since she was a child, and after her father was convicted, he entrusted the relationship to put her into the Sheng family, just to prevent her from suffering.
No one wants to grow up with a big meal, so she will seduce Sheng Gang, conceive a child, and force Wang Ruofuna to enter the door as a concubine.
In her opinion, the life of glory and wealth is more important than the position of the wife and wife.
Mo Lan is her daughter, grew up around her, naturally also heard her thoughts and practices, coupled with her constant reminders, the cognition of "material life is greater than everything" is deeply engraved in Mo Lan's brain.
The Sheng family is a civilian official Qingliu, and although Sheng Hun does not have a high official position, he is also a person of the court, and he is also a person with a face when he speaks out.
Whether the daughter of the Sheng family is a concubine or a concubine, marrying into the in-laws' family will definitely be a big bride and will not be a concubine.
Therefore, Lin Xiaoniang and Mo Lan have always been plotting to go to which rich and noble family to be a big lady, and Lin Xiaoniang has always been to cultivate Mo Lan on the road of the big lady of the rich family.
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Mo Lan began to read and read from an early age, dressed up, and made tea arrangements without falling.
No matter how Wang Ruofu squeezed out, she could always find a way to put Mo Lan into the classroom to learn these things.
And Mo Lan himself is also angry, people are beautiful, and they have talent, not only can taste tea and arrange flowers, but also can chant poems.
It is said that people go to a high place, the water flows to a low place, and everyone wants to live a better life.
As a very good woman in the bride to be married, Mo Lan naturally wants to find herself a man with a jade tree and a rich and powerful in-laws, which is understandable.
In other words, it is the same now, which girl is not willing to find a handsome and golden husband, I believe that no one will be willing to find an ugly and poor bar.
Therefore, in the academy, she looked for Qi Heng, the little grandfather of the Principality of Qi.
Qi Heng looks good, has a good character, and has a good family, and such a person will be very sought-after wherever he goes. Of course, in addition to Mo Lan, the eldest lady Wang Ruofu also took a fancy to Qi Heng and was ready to match him with his own Ru Lan.
When she knew that there was no hope on Qi Heng's side, she immediately turned to Liang Han, who had been showing her kindness.
Because she knows exactly what she wants? It is not the wish to win the hearts of one person and not be separated, but the real glory and wealth.
Although the Liang Han family was not as powerful as Qi Heng, it was also a count's palace, much stronger than the Sheng family.
Although Mo Lan used some means in order to marry into the Liang family, and even put on the face of the entire Sheng family, it was indeed very selfish, but her purpose was very clear: "It is worth losing the face of the Sheng family in exchange for her own face." ”
No matter what method she used, it was ultimately to achieve her own goals.
When Hua Lan scolded her for being greedy, she replied stiffly: "How, the eldest sister can marry into the Earl's Palace, and I am greedy when I marry into the Earl's Palace." ”
Hua Lan scolded her because she did not follow the rules, paid attention to her identity as a concubine, and vainly tried to marry into the high gate and harmed herself in the Sheng family.
However, in Mo Lan's view, being a maid is not her fault, she does not want to be bound by this identity, she is very good, she will live the life she wants.
I remember watching this paragraph, many netizens are scolding Mo Lan for being "shameless and unscrupulous to achieve the goal".
In fact, I admire her bravery, she knows what she wants, and she knows what methods she can get, and she implements it, and finally succeeds.
How many times better than those who daydream every day.
And Liang Han can look at her, isn't it also because of her appearance and talent? If she was a coarse and rude person, I believe that Liang Han would not love her, and she naturally did not have the opportunity to marry into liang mansion.
She was able to enter the Liang Mansion because she was excellent, but also because she did not recognize her fate.
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The old lady of the Sheng family once said: "The Liang family wants to take the daughter of the Sheng family as a gun, and Mo Lan must be willing to fight with a group of young ladies and go with her." ”
In fact, playing with a group of young ladies in the ring is what Mo Lan is best at.
She learned from Lin Xiaoniang from a young age the skills of living in a home, how to grasp the hearts of men, how to suppress other women, but whoever marries a serious family, these skills can not be played, can marry the Liang family, it can be said that it is just right.
And compared to Hua Lan and Minglan, who are also married, she has no pressure from her mother-in-law.
Hua Lan's mother-in-law is notoriously bad for treating her badly, and although Minglan's mother-in-law is a stepmother, she is also a smiling tiger fake bodhisattva. Even rulan, who is lowly married, is also angry with her mother-in-law all day.
Although Mo Lan's mother-in-law did not want to see her before marriage, she was different after marriage.
The purpose of her marrying Liang Han was to rectify her son's backyard, no matter who came and what method was used, as long as Liang Han's backyard could be cleaned and so that he could study hard, it was a good thing for this mother-in-law.
Therefore, she will not stop Mo Lan from playing tricks to punish Liang Han's concubines, and Liang Han's backyard is all up to Mo Lan to decide.
In that era, which daughter-in-law did not have a mother-in-law give a horse when she entered the door, which daughter-in-law did not think about her daughter-in-law every day to become a mother-in-law, and then gave her daughter-in-law a horse to find fault in life.
Even now, the contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are staged every day.
There are very few mothers-in-law like Lady Wu who can stand in the united front with her daughter-in-law, let alone at that time.
Therefore, as long as Mo Lan can please Liang Han in Liang Mansion and cure the concubines in the backyard, she can live her own life, and these two points happen to be what she is best at.
Even later, Liang Han discovered that her real purpose in marrying herself was not simple, changed her servants, and even snubbed her.
Her first thought was still how to win Liang Han's favor again, and she never regretted marrying into Liang Mansion.
It was her own choice, and she only thought about how to deal with it and never regretted it.
Some people are willing to sit on a bicycle and laugh, some people are willing to sit in a BMW and cry, people have their own ambitions, and they don't regret their choice.
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Although Mo Lan offended her mother's family in order to marry into the rich, she still married after all.
And even for the sake of face, the Sheng family could not break contact with her, not to mention that the Liang family was a lord's family, and having such a family was also beneficial to the Sheng family.
And Mo Lan as a link between the Sheng family and the Liang family, no matter how much the front hates Mo Lan, the Sheng family can't give up on her.
Moreover, the blood and family affection are all broken bones and tendons, and the Sheng family eventually re-accepted Mo Lan, and with the help of the mother's family, I believe that Mo Lan's position in Liang Province will be more stable.
Standing on the moral high ground to evaluate Mo Lan, she did do something insulting to the family style, which made the Sheng family lose face.
But standing in Mo Lan's position, it has always been her ideal to marry into the rich, and as a maid, she seems to have no other way but this method works.
The education she received from childhood came from Lin Xiaoniang, so she would only use this method.
Some people say that Mo Lan was later snubbed by Liang Han and dressed in shabby clothes, which was a bad retribution.
In fact, she was just surviving in her own way, she didn't have a rich dowry, so she would definitely try to grasp Liang Han again like Lin Xiaoniang was attached to ShengHu.
Instead of bothering to deal with her mother-in-law's difficulties like several other sisters, at least dealing with men and dealing with concubines are the things that Mo Lan is best at.
Therefore, Mo Lan is the most suitable for the Liang family, and the Liang family is also her best destination.
Doing what you are good at and choosing a way of life that suits you is not a kind of happiness.