01
"Baby, let's learn words together, okay?"
Baby's father, looking at the middle class Le'er, in addition to playing is playing, can't help but negotiate with Le'er.
Le'er, who was playing on xingtou, listened to it and quickly told Daddy angrily, "Don't you see that people are busy checking the dolls?" ”
Yeah, Le'er is right, who wants to be disturbed when playing.
To be honest, since raising Happy, we have calmed down a lot.
One child is raised according to books, and the second child is raised according to pigs.
This is true.
But looking at Le'er who was five years old soon, she didn't touch anything, she was bent on playing, and it was not wrong to want her to contact something in a planned way.
Do it when you think about it, not talk to the babies.
02
Pick up a book of four or five quick readings that Xiao Er learned when he was a child.
I sat down next to Le'er myself and told Le'er that your doll said that she had been playing for a long time today and wanted to learn to recognize words with her mother.
As soon as Le'er listened, his interest increased greatly.
"Mom, Mom, or I'll study with it, can I?"
Of course you can.
We read it carefully together.
Le Dad was very surprised to see how we read so tastefully.
03
Many times, we can find that if you blindly go to discuss with the babies, what should you do, really no effect, but also affect the parent-child relationship.
Until now, every weekend, my Xiao'er's school bag is usually lying quietly at the gate, and on Sunday afternoon, he will automatically mention his room and complete the weekend homework efficiently.
For a while, I was very crazy to help him change this bad study and homework habits, and finally found that he was getting more and more disgusted.
Slowly I woke up to my own problems.
In fact, each baby will have his own arrangement, why should I ask him to follow mine.
This is an invisible desire for control, and the most favorite term used by parents is to make a baby good.
Baby is happy, it is really good.
I think that after opening, I never reminded Xiao'er to study, and when it came time to study, he would naturally choose to complete.
The most important thing is that his results have not been left behind, and I naturally have a lot of worry.
04
Raising two children, the most profound feeling is to use teaching to tell children, rather than using all language.
What you are doing is forever engraved in the baby's mind.
We all love to learn, and when the babies are fine, they will also hold books and make examples, which is also a kind of learning simulation.
Parents who love to play games will naturally raise babies who love to play games.
The parents and babies who love to think about it will not be too bad.
Everything about the parents is actually printed on the psychology, but it is not said.
Realize it one day earlier, gain a day earlier, what do you see?