Many parents have had such troubles, right?
The baby in his arms finally fell asleep and wanted to put it on the bed and let him sleep. But as soon as he was placed on the quilt, the little guy immediately opened his eyes and began to cry again. Hopefully, I hope to solve the problems that are bothering me, and find the tricks to let go of the baby who is holding and sleeping, so that he can continue to sleep in bed, or to fall back to sleep immediately after waking up.
After holding and sleeping the little one, why would he be awakened when he left his parents' arms?
Why do you wake up with a sleeping baby just being put on the quilt?
The hardest thing in raising a child is to coax the baby to sleep. When he hugged and coaxed him to finally see the baby asleep and just carefully put him on the bed, he suddenly woke up and cried, and the feeling of frustration and helplessness made the mother, who was tired of housework and childcare, almost collapsed. It has become a top priority to find out why the baby in his arms is obviously sleeping soundly, but why he cried again at the moment of putting it down.
Inductively occurs the main causes: differences in temperature and separation from the mother
■Cause 1. The difference between mom's body temperature and the temperature between the quilts on the bed
The mother holds the baby in her arms and will pass on her mother's love to the child. It made him feel the warmth and comfort in his mother's arms and was able to fall asleep peacefully. But the moment you put your sleeping baby on the bed, your baby will wake up with the chill of the temperature on the quilt, which is much lower than the mother's body temperature, and this sudden change from the mother's arms.
Because the skin of the little baby is extremely sensitive to temperature, pay attention to the temperature of the little one's bedding and the temperature of the parents
■Cause 2. Babies become sensitive and uneasy with their mother's departure
Babies have great trust in their mothers, and it will be very uneasy for him to leave the mother he is attached to. In the feeling of the smell of his mother's body, the sound of his heart beating, and the sense of "being held by his mother", suddenly being forced to separate from his mother will immediately become sensitive, anxious and crying.
In addition to being sensitive to changes in body temperature, emotional attachment makes the little one sensitive and restless
4 tricks to subtly put down the baby who is holding the sleeping baby and let him continue to fall asleep
■ Step 1: Wrap the baby in swaddling or bath towels
You can first wrap your baby up and put it to sleep with a baby swaddling or bath towel. When the baby is put down again, it can narrow the temperature change gap between the mother's body temperature and the temperature of the futon, and it is easy for him to fall back to sleep.
■ Step 2: Keep the baby close to the mother's body
The mother can first hold the baby tightly in her arms, then bend down the upper body to close to the quilt on the bed, first put the baby's ass on the bed, then lower the back, and finally put the head down. The main point of operation at this time is that between the baby and the mother's body, it must be a close state.
Keep the mother and baby's bodies in close contact. At the same time, let the little one gradually adapt and keep the outside world warm
■ Step 3: After placing the baby in the quilt, the mother slowly withdraws her hands
Let there be a certain gap between the quilt on the bed and the mother's body, and the mother and the baby's body are closely pressed to put the baby in the quilt. After confirming that the baby shows no signs of waking up, the mother gently pulls out the hand holding the baby little by little. The point at this time is that after the mother first releases her hand, the body has not left the baby's body.
■ Step 4: Let mom's body leave little by little
First separate the baby's face and stomach from the mother's chest, and then move the baby's face a little farther, and finally the mother will separate the body from the baby little by little. Holding the baby who is still sleeping in this way, the success rate of transferring to the quilt will be higher and higher.
The mother gradually pulls her body away from the baby, but tries to gently hum a lullaby while touching it. It will have a multiplier effect with half the effort
In addition, the mother will convey a relaxed mood, a "sense of peace of mind" to the baby
At this time, if the mother is worried and thinks uneasily, "It doesn't matter, the baby will not wake up", that uneasy mood will also be passed on to the baby. Mom tried it while relaxing her mood, and her mouth was chanting "It's okay, there is a mother!" While gently placing the baby he is holding on to the quilt, the operation will continue to fall asleep and it will go smoothly.