It rained in the morning, so I wet my shoes and pants and sent my son to the underground garage to school.
It was time to go out, the three bars could not be found, the two turned over the bed at home, turned over the table, tossed and turned, found.
There was a delay in finding something, and the door was a few minutes later than usual.
Seeing that he was going to be late, his son grabbed his bag and coat, put on his shoes, and without mentioning the heels, he ran outside, still holding an umbrella in his hand.
Which is like a student, living out of the refugees.
Entering the elevator, during the peak period, there are many people, the space is small, and there is rain on the ground.
He was clutching a pile of things, squatting on the ground and putting on his shoes, the sleeves of his clothes pulled up to the ground.
Get your shoes on and get dressed.
First unload the bag and put it on the ground, and then wear it with a shrunken arm, because as soon as the arm is extended, it touches others, but when you shrink your arm, you also touch the people around you.
Others had to squeeze elsewhere to give him a little space.
An elevator man watched a dressing show in a crowded space.
In a flurry of hands, the clothes were dressed.
The whole process, really no eyes, clothes, school bags made dirty, not to mention, the scene is more like an escape.
According to my idea, things are arranged, and when they are used, they can be easily obtained, so as not to make themselves in a hurry;
Take 1 or 2 minutes to put on your shoes, get your clothes on, and then go out, so that you don't have to take so many things in your hands.
But that was just my idea, and he didn't think so.
But that's not enough.
Having said that, he was very happy, but in the end, he may not be willing to listen, and he still thinks that you are nagging, rambling, and accusing him.
When both are unaccustomed to each other, logic and facts become less important, and opposites and emotions eventually prevail.
This will lead to the expansion of the problem, from the original problem, to the development and spread to other problems, emotions.
In addition, he was already nervous and embarrassed, and if he was told again, his mood would definitely not be much better.
The mood is not good in the morning, and the day is not much better.
So I stubbornly endured without saying a word, and looked at it coldly, as if I were looking at someone else's baby.
People are different from others, their ideas are different, their ways of doing things are different, and there is no such thing as which idea is right and which way is good, only different.
Can't get used to it, can not look, can not see the heart is not bothered.
When I saw him, I regarded him as someone else's baby.
Or hypnotize yourself, as if you didn't go out with him and didn't see it.
Because he does, it doesn't matter if you're not there.
You are, he is; you are not there, he is still so.
The difference is that you are there, you see, you are not there, you cannot see.
If you don't go out with him, you don't see it.
Mr. Yang Dai once wrote: Restrain yourself to correct the desires of others, and put away your own persistence in transforming others.
Even the closest people, their own children, cannot use their own behavior to demand, to reform, to correct.
The consequences of correcting a child are often that both people are injured.