01.
Time flies, and the years make people old.
Unconsciously, year after year has passed. In the blink of an eye, youth is gone; overnight, middle age has arrived; together, old age is near.
Inadvertently, when you look in the mirror, you will find that the wrinkles in the corners of the eyes are more and more, the white hair on the head is more and more, and you have begun to wear glasses when you go out, start to eat lightly, and start to exercise more.
The most poignant thing is the desolation of the heart, which is more obvious than the traces depicted by the years, the exhaustion of the body has been secondary, and the desolation and helplessness of the heart are the most difficult to say sadness after people are old.
Perhaps, in the old days, you liked to call friends and lead companions, sing all night, and drink without stopping, but at the moment, you began to freshen up regularly, and at the end of the day, you lay on the bed and brewed drowsiness;
Perhaps, in the past, you liked the sky and the north of the sea, walking all over the mountains and rivers, but at the moment, you only like a cup of tea, an idle book, sitting in the sun, passing the ordinary days;
Perhaps, in the address book, there were countless people, after getting drunk, one greeting, one after another, and at the moment, it was more of a few greetings and a short response.
The people around me have said goodbye permanently, and the past experiences have begun to be missed in the depths of memory.
When people are old, it is probably like this, and many obsessions, many bitterness, and many uneasiness are all reduced to one sentence: live well in the present, look forward.
02.
The more people live, the heavier the burden on their bodies.
When you are young, you can do nothing and ask nothing, just for the sake of your inner desire, wantonly publicity, to a certain age, slowly began to precipitate, but also finally understand: after experiencing a tempered life, you can see a more blue sky.
Even if you live lazily and want to walk in place, reality will soon come and punch you in the face, so that your road will not be so smooth, and you will not live easily.
Remember "Little Joy", Fang Yuan and Qiao Weidong were drinking together, the TV was playing "Laughing Proud of the Jianghu", the news of Mr. Jin Yong's death came from the mobile phone, Fang Yuan sighed and said: You said, at that time, we wanted to become Jin Yong's characters, Ling Huchong, Yang Guo, Guo Jing, when a generation of heroes, but now people are middle-aged, the hero is impossible, at best it is a prawn, it is a dish.
It can be seen that when people reach middle age, the thorns on their bodies have almost all been put away, they no longer walk everywhere, they become flexible, they become soft, they begin to liberate themselves, they begin to adhere to the past, they are not so persistent, they have also learned to laugh at themselves, and they have learned to look down on everything.
Those people at the wine table eat and drink, don't want to participate, just want to read, write, listen to music, more solitude... Let yourself live more soberly and rationally.
Just like the song in "Laughing proud of the rivers and lakes": a laugh in the sea, a tide on both sides of the strait, floating and sinking with the waves, only remember this dynasty...
03.
When I was young, I would rest on weekends, I would always sleep until three o'clock in the morning, and even wanted to lie in bed for a day, but at the moment, I got up early, went out for a walk, climbed the mountain...
When you are young, you are thirsty, you will have all kinds of drinks, milk tea, ice water, beer, but at the moment you just want to have a cup of warm water, a bowl of clear soup, a cup of tea after a meal to relieve the grease...
The pressure in the heart, the more and more things to worry about, began to fear loss, fear of impermanence, once experienced the taste of life, sweet and sour, bitter and spicy, to now become addicted to the "family sitting idle, the lights are amiable" warmth.
As people get older, they will want to get along with their families more and more, they will be able to identify true and false friends around them more and more, and they will know more and more about health...
At a certain age, the sweetness of the days is to be able to eat three meals a day on time, live a calm and peaceful life, and look at the people and things around you with a grateful heart.
No longer grinning, thick branches and leaves, no longer empty eyes, impatient and proud, but sinking down, looking down on everything, doing what you can, treating gains and losses, and following your fate.
04.
Perhaps, everyone is throwing all the way.
Throw away the naivety and naivety of the past, throw away the frustration and anxiety of the past, and also pick up maturity and stability along the way, pick up transparency and sobriety.
Once a little movement, on the wind and grass confused, at the moment, began to no longer extravagant, no longer demanding, began to understand the "let go, can be strong" calm.
The road of life, see through, in order not to be confused, experience, can be calm.
The old age of the years will make people's hearts stronger and stronger, and also make people's hearts begin to be cowardly. Strong because you know how to look away and look down; cowardice is because you don't want to lose again.
After all, the years are like flowing water, and the days will not flow backwards, but will only rush forward. Perhaps, occasionally, I will sigh that the world is cold, but I will no longer care about it, but I will enjoy a quiet and quiet, comfortable and safe.
Shakyamuni once said: No matter who you meet, you are the person who should appear in life, there is a reason, there is a mission, it is no accident, he will definitely teach something.
People in life, come and go, leave or rub shoulders, have had an intersection, is a kind of luck.
When people are old, they are grateful for their encounters, they are not sad for the past, and they are not sad for the past. Fate is to exchange sincerity for sincerity, and those who cannot be exchanged for sincerity will die.
Family, lovers, friends, living with them, is happiness and warmth.
05.
In this life, no one can be smooth sailing, and no one can be truly plain, and there will always be some unsatisfactory things coming to your side and blocking you.
Everyone who lives a strong life has endured the suffering that he has experienced.
When you are accustomed to the difficulties of life, rush through the dark in the dark, and come out of the suffering, you have found the joy of life.
Zhou Guoping once said: Those who like to talk about pain are often teenagers who do not know the taste of sorrow, while the elderly Beethoven, who has experienced human suffering, sang an ode of joy.
Therefore, even if the wind is high, even if the rain is torrential, there is nothing to be afraid of, one day, you will grow old, you will survive, you will feel that the experience you have had is a romantic atmosphere.
Therefore, even if the road is slippery in dark, even if the night is as cool as water, there is no desolation, one day, the white hair on the head will tell you that the lights are bright in front of you, quiet and quiet, is the final pursuit.
Life is a long road, look at the opening point, see through the point, look down, like, dislike, will eventually become the past, loved, hated, will eventually meet the most suitable person.
Live out your own light, find the warmth of your heart, walk on the road of getting old, and strive to become an old man who does not bother the world in the future, happy and happy, peaceful and joyful.
May everyone be able to live the rest of their lives, without fear, see all the purple and red, and finally get a beautiful view.
Wen, the frank fox
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May you find in my words, in the ordinary years, thick affection, thank you for your attention!