That year I was pregnant with Erbao, we opened a convenience store in Guangdong, and my mother was helping me bring Dabao. Everything was so beautiful, but it backfired, and the bad news came one after another.
Received a call from a bank, saying that your credit card has been overdue, to be repaid as soon as possible, the public security organs have filed a case; hearing this, it is really frightening, pregnant I can not withstand such a blow, call my husband, only to know that the convenience store business is not good, the goods in the store are empty, there is no money to take the goods, the credit card can not be repaid.
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Immediately after, one after another bank called, all urged me to repay, I felt as if the sky was about to collapse, that is more than a dozen banks, what should I do, not only that, but also a lot of online loans are also one by one telephone collection, I really can't afford it, I directly set the phone up, can't receive strange calls, I thought I could stop the meeting, I didn't expect them to contact me, just call my mother and brother's phone, I didn't want my mother to know, afraid that she was worried, but she still knew, She was very worried and very angry, often secretly shed tears, I could only desperately comfort her, in fact, I was afraid myself, did not know how to convince myself, during that time and my husband quarreled every day, hating why he would make my life like this.
Later, I learned that my husband was not feeling well, he also had a lot of credit cards and online loans, but his qualifications were worse than mine, not as much as me, he almost couldn't bear it, often hiding alone, the blow was too big, it was difficult to accept anyone. After a period of precipitation, thinking about our children, or to cheer up, we did not want to give up the store, so we continued to struggle. At this time, the second treasure was born, this little life let us find hope again, the husband also slowly cheered up, so it struggled for more than a year, originally has been a little better, but encountered the epidemic, directly isolated at home for two months, it is really providence to make people, wait to come out to open a shop, there are not many people on the street, can no longer insist.
At this time, she was pregnant with three children, this child did not come at the right time, originally went to the hospital to decide to beat up, but checked out, we both regretted it, decided to leave this child. This decision was opposed by everyone, and my mother even got angry with me for a while because of this decision, and the phone did not answer and the message was not returned. The reason is very simple, there are so many debts, there is already a son and a daughter, why do you want to let yourself suffer, the child has no one to bring, everything has to come by themselves, give birth so much, how much pressure, the mother is distressed by the daughter. Normal people think so, all my relatives also advised me not to have children, and against the objections of all the people, I still decided to give birth to this child. But I never regret it, even if I am tired now, I am happy from the heart.
I didn't know how I survived that time. After giving birth to my second child, my mother went home, she felt uncomfortable, looked at me so tired, looked at the debt collection information, and even the village called her, received my lawyer's letter, she really couldn't stay, so she returned home to work. And I took two children who were one and a half years apart, packed up the children every morning, went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables first, and then took them to the store to see the store, the children played in the store, cooked something in the store at noon, changed shifts with my husband at night, I took the two children home, gave them a bath, waited for them to fall asleep, and then got up to clean and wash their clothes. Every day, I don't go to bed until one or two o'clock, and I get up at six o'clock in the morning. Later, she was pregnant with her third child, and this was how she spent it.
Until May last year, the store really could not support it, and decided to return to her husband's house, at least without paying rent, and the dishes were bought by the mother-in-law, which could save a lot. My mother-in-law knows that we owe too much debt and also finds a way to make money. The husband continued to stay in Guangdong and do something else. And my belly slowly grew bigger, but still doing the same thing as before, although the mother-in-law will also help me some, but the child has never left me, do not want my mother-in-law at all, even when the two cry, I have to hold a baby in each hand, at night they cry, but also have to hold a big belly to comfort them. It is difficult for people to walk with big bellies, but I walk like the wind, do things sharply, and can pick up two babies in one hand, and my stomach becomes their chair. During that time, I really didn't know how to stick to it, I couldn't tell others, I could only carry it myself.
Surely many people think, I am like this, why do I have three children, why do I do so much for my husband, those debts are really in my name, and credit is a lifelong thing. I didn't think about it so much at the time, but I just thought that my husband was also to make money to support the family, I had that condition to support, this is a family affair, not his own business, to work together. To make it like this, he was not willing, and could only say that he was unlucky and the timing was not right. And he is still confused, with a salary of several thousands a month, he can't support the family at all, he has to pay off debts, and he has to raise a 50-year-old father-in-law, but I believe that as long as he is willing to work hard, everything will be fine.
My story is a bit long, and there's something even more unimaginable. It has been a while since I found that Toutiao jun likes true stories, so I decided to write down my experience, hoping to get everyone's support, want to know more about my stories, and remember to pay attention to me