Li Lianglei's long text is wonderful to the extreme, the amount of information is huge, stable and accurate, leaving room for herself and the other party, until the future can be circumvented at the same time, the knife is mutilated and painful, although the hand is fierce, but not the dead hand, it is simply a model-level model text.
Li Lianglei first threw out the objective facts, to what extent can housewives compromise and sacrifice for the sake of the family and children? What is the cause of Li Lianglei's misery?
Immediately, Wang Lihong's various acts, including more than his heart, were simply a collection of problems such as cheating, seducing minors, being jointly PUA by Wang's mother, violating epidemic prevention, rebellion, cold violence, irresponsibility to his wife and family, sabotaging and interfering in other people's families, messing up his private life, and suspected concealment of X orientation.
Note that this is not a complaint, nor is it a simple output of hatred, Li Lianglei even reviewed her objective role in this painful marriage, introspected herself, and considered the cause and effect of Wang Lihong's affairs from Wang's point of view, and also elaborated on how she compromised how to step backwards and how to sacrifice herself but still could not exchange the prodigal son for a statement of facts.
Li Lianglei wrote very sadly, but also very calmly. There are large paragraphs of text in it that can find the prototype of the event based on the news, and the transformation and hint of the long text for "he" and "her" is a wonderful pen, leaving blank while the knife is accurate, but Li Lianglei did not give a dead hand, leaving herself and the other party with the space for reconciliation (not reconciliation) and negotiation at the family level and the legal level.
In the end, Li Lianglei cheered herself up, but also cheered up the readers, demonstrating her tragic song of this road by example, determined to make her own misery public.
At this time, Li Lianglei also "encouraged" Wang Lihong, asking him to "not care about the world's vision, and be with the right people", (high moves, defensive as an attack, honey wrapped in broken glass ballast) Finally, looking forward to the future.
The long text expressed it very bluntly, and came to this step only because Wang Lihong deceived people too much, which was the result of no way back. The long text combines "I accuse" and "my tragedy" into one, so that the reader can empathize with it as much as possible. What is the use of reading? That's the use! Columbia university is not a vain study.
This long article is really shocking! Especially with regard to the extremely unequal division of labour among women in childbearing, even women from well-off and highly educated families are not spared.
It is about the open and dark arrows that women need to face in marriage and the social relations surrounding marriage, self-sacrifice is taken for granted by those around them, and forbearance is regarded as guilty.
The long article also expresses the helplessness of women's self-help, even in such a privileged class, appealing to public opinion is still her last weapon. The women who stand up and tell the story are brave.
And in this long article, although she can feel her messiness and anger, she does not shake out any specific names of the women involved. Here she is decent and sober: even if there is an external cause, the most problematic is this man.
But it is also happy for her, without such a regional relationship, the future life will be better!
Eat melon summary:
Li Lianglei is really a talented woman, and the whole text is public welfare, not only staying in retaliation. She wasn't here to destroy Wang Lihong, she was just giving herself a humble account of what she had paid for years.
Li Lianglei divorced, in addition to the child can get child support, she herself can hardly get anything, unless she endures humiliation and bears the burden of compensation, but her dignity tells herself that she would rather climb out of the abyss by herself, but also to show the world that she is not at fault in marriage, as well as her pay and dignity!
Finally, I admire this humble, logically clear, three-child mom, who is brave and independent.