Wang Lihong and Li Lianglei's marriage came to an end, and the shock to everyone was far less than that of Big S and Wang Xiaofei.
The reason is very simple, these two people have signs of divorce since 2019 - Li Lianglei no longer mentions Wang Lihong on social platforms, and the photos are girlfriends in addition to herself and her children, compared with the previous frequent show of love, too abnormal.
Can you remember that in June 2019, when Wang Lihong sang "Love is You" at the concert, he suddenly ran off the stage and kissed Li Lianglei.
Jumping on the two-handed platform to kiss, romantic to the point that fans can't help but cry...
When big S saw this scene, he showed a smile on his aunt's face, and couldn't help but turn his head and kiss Wang Xiaofei.
At that time, these two pairs were the sweetness of honey and oil, who would have thought that 2 years later, they would be divorced. It's really a thing and a person!
Personality incompatibility is an excuse for divorce for most couples
The root cause of Wang Lihong's divorce, the island media mentioned two points: one is the discord between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and the other is Li Lianglei forcibly interfering in Wang Lihong's career
According to the accuracy of their revelations, I am afraid it is not out of thin air.
In other words, as long as the entertainment industry is exposed to divorce, most of them are true. As for the reason for the divorce, the parties will use the excuse of "personality incompatibility" to prevaricate the past.
This is really a universal excuse, whether it is a contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law or a contradiction between husband and wife, or even empathy, anyway, it is right to push to personality.
Huang Lei's lines from "Little Min's House"
I don't know why, when many people get married, the sky is thunderous and the fire is not you don't marry, you don't marry, you are married, and your personality begins to mutate?
The island media mentioned that the couple had the idea of divorce long ago, but li Lianglei was pregnant with three children and postponed the plan.
This sounds quite aggrieved for Li Lianglei, who actually used her children to postpone the divorce date.
How did Li Lianglei have a conflict with her mother-in-law?
Although she is an outsider, her family education is also a match for Wang Lihong. Graduated from Columbia University, he served as an assistant vice president of the consulting service department of JPMorgan Chase& co., and his family and Wang Lihong's family are also family relations, and there should be no problem of improper door.
According to our usual thinking, daughters-in-law are not invited to see the mother-in-law to produce contradictions.
But have you ever thought that it is the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law who are very strong, and no one obeys anyone, which will cause contradictions.
In terms of Li Lianglei's personality and life, this possibility is mostly possible.
Originally, Wang Lihong's career was managed by Wang's mother, and her son's debut to become a superstar was brought out by his mother's hard work, so she also became a famous "star mother" in the circle.
Soon after Li Lianglei married into the Wang family, she began to gradually intervene in Wang Lihong's work, taking care of the acting schedule, managing the golden vein, and even personally controlling the xuanfa text, it seems that the determination to be a xiannei helper is very large.
But the mother-in-law was forced to retire because of this, and this mood was not good for anyone.
It felt like the ripe fruit that he had cultivated with his own hands had been picked by his daughter-in-law.
Li Lianglei just wants to be a qualified xiannei helper, the wife assists her husband's career is very normal, and the result is also difficult for the mother-in-law, which of course is also uncomfortable.
Standing in the position of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they all feel that they are very wronged, and Wang Lihong, who is sandwiched in the middle, is even more difficult.
It is wrong to favor anyone, which is simply the proposition of "who will you save if your wife and mother fall into the water together".
In fact, the kiss at the 2019 concert, I deduced that it was most likely a link designed by Li Lianglei (after all, she was doing agency work), and the relationship between the two had changed at that time.
It doesn't matter if this kind of love link is designed at the concert, but it is not a good thing for Wang Lihong to fully control the cause of the object, resulting in complaints from the partner.
After all, she is a finance major and is too unfamiliar with things in the entertainment industry. Real thanklessness.
The host posted a complaint against Li Lianglei
From 2017, there was a change in feelings, to the end of divorce in 2021, during which the couple should have paid a lot of energy in order to save their feelings, and Wang Lihong, who was sandwiched between the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, was afraid that it would be very difficult, which would have a sigh of collapsing on the sofa in front of Lu Yu: So tired, I am so tired.
If you don't understand the root cause of this, everyone will definitely think: you a man does not have to have children, perennially engaged in business outside, how to get married and have children will be tired of you.
It's heart tiredness.
There was nothing wrong with himself, but he failed everyone.
Therefore, the reason why this mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship has always been discussed and discussed is because everyone's personality is different, interpersonal relationships are complicated, and there are too many variables.
When the newlyweds have sweet shields, hello me, hello everyone, look harmonious, chai rice oil and salt days go on, only to know whether the shoes fit.
It's so bad that either the foot is swollen or the top of the shoe is broken, even if there are three children as lubricants, they can't wear the shoes.
Guanfu surname, no car and no house under the name, 3 children in five years... Li Lianglei is not scarred in this failed marriage.
As for speculating that their marriage has changed because of infidelity, it is not necessary, it is not a failure of marriage, it must be cheating. The contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is no less lethal than cheating.
An example of a marital rift caused by a mother-in-law conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in
There are couples in the entertainment industry with the same state abound, for example, the marriage of Cecilia Cheung and Nicholas Tse is frequently interfered with by Deborah, and the things that can be forgiven between husband and wife are irreparable once they are pushed by their mother-in-law.
In the same way, if Zeng Huaqian had not been so "arrogant" and repeatedly let her mother-in-law accommodate herself, she would not have gone to the end of the marriage breakdown.
Lin Zhaoji and his wife have a deep affection and are very fond of her.
When going out to socialize, you must get Zeng Huaqian's permission, and if you have a dog at home, you must also consult with Zeng Huaqian first, and these Lin Zhaoji have all been accommodated.
But the mother wants to visit her grandson, and she still needs to get Permission from Zeng Huaqian to go...
Disturbed by his mother's crying countless times, Lin Zhaoji, who was full of splints, tried to reconcile the contradictions between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law without success, and finally he could only divorce.
This seems to be Zeng Huaqian's problem, but according to media reports, when Zeng Huaqian first met Lin Zhaoji's parents, her mother-in-law was very dissatisfied with her daughter-in-law (disgusted with her profession and frivolous dress), just for the sake of her son.
I was not satisfied at the beginning, and the bane had actually been planted (in fact, it was difficult for any woman to be satisfied with the mother-in-law).
Zeng Huaqian did not want her mother-in-law to interfere in her life, and insisted on living separately from her mother-in-law, who was reluctant to be separated from her son and repeatedly asked to live in her son's home.
To put it bluntly, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law looked at each other incorrectly, and they all wanted to share more of Lin Zhaoji's love, and no one refused to give in, so they had all kinds of discord after that.
Now Zeng Huaqian's son has grown so big
No mother-in-law is unsatisfactory when she summons her son in front of her mother-in-law; no daughter-in-law can tolerate a mother-in-law who interferes in a family of two children.
There is a sense of boundaries involved in this, and many Chinese families are too vague in the boundaries, which of course has advantages and disadvantages.
The advantage is that everyone has help, and the disadvantage is that there are too many places that need to be run-in, and there will always be people who will be wronged.
Men's attitude is very important, evasion will only leave only the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law on the battlefield, the contradiction intensified to the point of no end, and finally can only choose one of the two.
Yi Nengjing and her mother-in-law get along like girlfriends
In addition to the role of men in it, being able to find a suitable in-laws or daughters-in-law is really a blessing cultivated in the previous life.
Wang Lihong, Li Lianglei, Zeng Huaqian, Lin Zhaoji, these two failed marriages, in fact, are from a problem: there is no sense of boundaries.
Children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren, and we still have to listen to the ancient precepts.