In the chaotic world, in addition to the wind and sand, there are countless feelings. Some people have no place to live, they are wavering in the world, and some people work tirelessly all their lives to find a safe haven. In an era when everyone is in danger, it is not easy to find a caring lover, and it is also precious. Such feelings are worth waiting for everyone, and it is more worthy of everyone's careful protection.
During the Republic of China period, there were not many celebrities who joined hands with white heads, and the difficulties to be overcome were innumerable to overcome in the chaotic world. So it's even more enviable. Today we are going to talk about a couple who are deeply in love, they have spent the best years of their lives. The couple was none other than the famous general Li Zongren and his wife Guo Dejie.
The life of Guo Dejie
Being able to match Li Zongren, Guo Dejie is naturally not a thing in the pool. She was born in 1906 and was originally named Ru Xian. Guo Dejie's family is not bad, although his father Guo Liu is not a literati, but he has a skill, he is a well-known local mason, fine workmanship, very praised by guests. And loyal and honest, not greedy for cheap, many young lads are willing to learn the craft from him. Therefore, the economic conditions of the Guo family are very good.
Guo Liu is a small person in life, and he wins in having a heart that does everything well. Guo Dejie has largely inherited such characteristics as her father. Guo Dejie is proud and arrogant, and strives to be the first in everything. And when the first is not just talk, she has been smart and clever since she was a child, exquisite on all sides, and has seen it in ten miles and eight towns, who does not boast that this female doll is a well-behaved?
On the other hand, Guo Dejie is a persistent person, and when the reading atmosphere is open, she says that she has to go to school everything. However, although the precedent of women's reading has been opened up, the thinking of the older generation cannot be changed by saying that it can be changed. Guo Dejie's idea was resolutely opposed by his father, and such a statement spread to the neighbors, and even ridiculed!
But where is Guo Dejie who was defeated by this setback? Despite the world's contempt, she still resolutely went to school to study, and she wanted to be a young woman in the new era.
Guo Dejie's scarf does not let his eyebrows, it has become a story around the township, some people talk about some people envy, Guo Dejie is fighting for a bright future for himself!
Love with Li Zongren
When Li Zongren was 35 years old, he was a great general who galloped on the battlefield and conquered the world. And fate is so ingenious, two people who seem to have no connection at all can meet and know each other.
That year was 1921, and Li Zongren led more than a dozen companies to recuperate in the Yulin area. Prepare to wait for the opportunity to deliver a fatal blow to the enemy. But he did not expect that a woman would give him a "fatal blow" to his heart.
Li Zongren was inspecting the enemy situation on the city tower one day, and Guo Dejie happened to ride his bicycle Shi Shiran through the street. Li Zongren was caught by the girl in front of him, and if this feeling was correct, he thought that he was in love with Guo Dejie at first sight.
Li Zongren asked many friends to introduce him before he finally met Guo Dejie officially. And Guo Dejie is like the white moonlight on Li Zongren's heart, which is unrealistically beautiful. After knowing guo Dejie's deeds of not letting her eyebrows be raised, she even had a touch of appreciation. Of course, Li Zongren, a mighty general, is also very attractive. 18-year-old Guo Dejie is still a little girl in the end, and her admiration for such a task is not enough.
They have mutual affection, and after a few dates, they confirm the relationship.
They are like-minded lovers and friends, naturally do not care about the age gap, and the ideas of both people are advanced and coincident. Everything seems to be a natural success, and the marriage of two people is also the icing on the cake. Unfortunately, there is still a little fly in the ointment behind the romantic love, that is, there is actually a big lady in Li Zongren's family, if you want to get married, then Guo Dejie can only be a concubine!
Guo Dejie is still obsessed with the name of the first place, will he agree to be the second person in marriage? Unexpectedly, Guo Dejie was really willing to marry Li Zongren as a concubine! For love, she sacrificed her pride.
Guo Dejie's married life
After marrying Li Zongren, the married life is also harmonious and beautiful, and the eldest lady is a woman with a small foot, although she has been influenced by the old society, but it does not prevent the grand lady from doing things vigorously. The li family's big and small affairs are basically handled by the big lady, and compared with Guo Dejie, it seems that Guo Dejie's status in the family is not very high.
There is no title and power of a lady, but Guo Dejie has the favor of Li Zongren. After the 18-year-old and Li Zongren entered the palace of marriage, Guo Dejie decided to always guard the side of this man. So after Guo Dejie completed her studies, her life was centered on Li Zongren.
Li Zongren wanted to go to the front line to fight, so Guo Dejie followed him to take care of him and be his helper. Li Zongren only had to fight in blood on the battlefield, and the big and small matters behind him were handled by Guo Dejie. Not only that, Guo Dejie also carefully took care of his companions in the military, pasting slogans, treating the wounded, and comforting the army, these seemingly insignificant small things are the main things in Guo Dejie's life.
It is precisely because of these small things that Li Zongren has won a large piece of military and people's hearts. Guo Dejie is like his goddess of luck, and in the few years that Guo Dejie has been fighting outside, Li Zongren's career has flourished.
At the same time, Guo Dejie also vigorously carried out her own charity work, and she who had seen the scene of the war with her own eyes understood the cruelty of the war better. So she's willing to spend time and money into the philanthropic industry. She funded the construction of numerous schools and children's welfare homes to house homeless children.
The fall of life
After the founding of New China, Li Zongren's power faded, and he had to start a life of exile, running back and forth between the United States and Hong Kong. For more than ten years, Guo Dejie has been with him. It is precisely because of Guo Dejie's persistence that their lives are not too bitter. Women have a romantic feeling of deep bones and blood, she accompanies Li Zongren to enjoy flowers and fish, and occasionally invites friends to play mahjong for a while, although life is not as good as before, but it is still leisurely.
It's just a pity that The heavens are jealous of the red face, and Guo Dejie's beauty has not been able to last until he is old. In 1964, Guo Dejie was diagnosed with breast cancer. Because Guo Dejie was worried that the operation would affect the beauty and could also make her husband be discussed by the people around her, her condition was delayed again and again. The disease tormented her all the time, and she understood that her time was short, and her only wish was to be able to return to the roots of the fallen leaves and return to the embrace of the motherland.
Although Li Zongren still had some concerns about returning to China, in order to fulfill his wife's wishes, he still took her back to his hometown. Their return was warmly welcomed by the people, and Guo Dejie was proud to see the motherland in a state of prosperity. The motherland is getting better day by day, but her health is getting worse day by day.
After 6 months of support in her homeland, she still passed away.
Li Zongren's continuation
Guo Dejie's death was a fatal blow to Li Zongren. Guo Dejie came to his life and left his life, it was a moment that could not be forgotten. In the months after her death, Li Zongren was depressed all day and had no interest in the things around him. It was the friends around him who did not want him to continue his life in such a state, so he opened up and introduced another wife to Li Zongren. Li Zongren did not have a suitable person to pick left and right, until Hu Die's illegitimate daughter Hu Yousong appeared in front of him.
Hu Yousong was not coveting fame, she really admired this anti-Japanese hero before agreeing to marry Li Zongren. Without saying a word, Li Zongren agreed to marry Hu Yousong.
Three years after they were married, Li Zongren died.
After 44 years with Guo Dejie, love has long become family affection. Four months after his wife's death, Li Zongren may have met his love again!
Guo Dejie married Li Zongren, spent the prosperous years with him side by side, and also survived the lonely years together. Each frame is a picture of two people's happy faces. I think that Li Zongren's continuation may still be what Guo Dejie wants to see most, and she hopes that her husband can still live happily without her. Feelings are often not about gains and losses, not about betrayal. Feelings care most about whether the other party regrets it and whether it is happy forever!
References "The Great Biography of Li Zongren"