At the end of the 90s, a Minnan song "Love to fight to win" is popular all over the country, all over the world, and even sung to this day, is still a song loved by the public, the song has a few lyrics are the most inspirational, now after the 70s, 80s, no matter whether they will sing, it is estimated that they can hum the sentence "Three points are destined, seven points rely on hard work, love to fight will win!" ”。 However, if you want to win in life, is it really based on seven points of effort and three points of providence?
The following is to share with you a story of the workplace, I hope to inspire you all. Friends Li Yang and Wang Wen, classmates of the same class in the same city and the same architectural university, Li Yang's family is in the city, his father is a small leader of the Municipal Urban Construction Bureau, Wang Wen's family is in the countryside, his parents are zhuanghu people with their faces facing the loess and their backs to the sky, the only thing that can be taken is that Wang Wen has a distant cousin, who is the main leader of a large construction state-owned enterprise in the province. After graduating from college, Li Yang directly entered the headquarters of this provincial enterprise under the arrangement of his father, while Wang Wen ran into a wall everywhere in the process of finding a job, and finally found a smaller private construction enterprise to barely make ends meet, and two years later, the private enterprise declared bankruptcy due to problems in capital turnover caused by the failure to recover the arrears from abroad, and Wang Li was unemployed. Resting at home for half a year, but also self-abandonment, parents really can't look down, erased the old face in the distant cousin's home for three days, the result is not bad, the cousin soon arranged Wang Wen to a project work under his own company, but also into the state-owned enterprise establishment.
The work was not easy to come by, and under the teaching of his parents, Wang Wen worked exceptionally diligently. Ten years later, Wang Wen was promoted by the company's leaders to head of the organ department because of his excellent work, at this time, Wang Wen's cousin had retired. With the promotion of the position, Wang Wen has the opportunity to enjoy more internal resources. At a training meeting organized by the group, Wang Wen accidentally met Li Yang, an old classmate who had not been seen for many years, and after a detailed chat, they turned out to be a group, but they did not work in a company. This meeting stimulated Wang Wen a lot, stimulating him to doubt his life, doubting all his hard work and efforts, and this stimulation stemmed from Li Yang's position. Li Yang came to this state-owned enterprise two years earlier than Wang Wen, and under the influence of his father's resources, Li Yang had already held a position as the head of the enterprise under the provincial state-owned enterprise as early as a year ago, which was two levels higher than Wang Wen.
In recent years, Wang Wen has not thought of going up a step, at least to be a deputy general manager, but also the right parents, worthy of themselves, but no matter how hard they work, every time the company is promoted, the superior inspection himself is not in the promotion and inspection list, at first Wang Wen also thought that he did not work hard enough, so he used his spare time, examined various certificates, all kinds of business knowledge, but always on the list. The meeting with Li Yang deeply stimulated Wang Wen, and privately Wang Wen once asked Li Yang why he was promoted so quickly, whether there were any clever doors or ways, Li Yang replied with a sentence "The relationship with the leader is good, the leaders do not know you, why promote you", Wang Wen could not refute it. Carefully reviewed the work of more than ten years, I am really hard, others play, study by themselves, others sleep, delve into the business by themselves, usually work hard and complain, almost every year is rated as advanced by the company, why can't you get promoted, isn't it love to fight to win? Wang Wen was confused.
I don't know how you will feel after listening to the above short story of the workplace, or how you will feel in your career. Is it true that a person's success is destined for three points, and seven points depend on hard work? Presumably, everyone who has experienced will put a big question mark on this sentence.
I recognize the saying that "a person's success depends largely on the resources he has, and the biggest component of this resource is the network resource." Just like Wang Wen in the story just now, he can't be promoted not because of insufficient effort, nor because the direction is wrong, but because he forgot a fundamental problem, this society, not in accordance with the established rules, but relies on one after another interrelated people to promote, human nature, is the biggest attribute of society, is the biggest driving force to promote success, the most fundamental. If Wang Wen did not have a cousin who worked in a state-owned enterprise, he probably would not be able to enter that enterprise, and if he had accumulated some connections while working hard, perhaps Wang Wen would have been promoted a long time ago. Li Yang's promotion is self-evident.
Maybe you have read a lot of inspirational stories, these stories may tell you that choice is more important than hard work, hard work can be successful, can not say wrong, can not say all wrong, but in reality, often no matter how much you work the road to success, network resources will give you five points.
I hope that friends who are working hard do not blindly just work hard, sometimes, you need to look back, go deep into the essence of things to see, some truths, the sooner you understand, the sooner you succeed.