Text/Tang Ruo
Tang Ruoxin learns original works, and those who violate them will be investigated
In life, everyone is eager to choose the right path for themselves, in fact, the road that suits themselves is not what emerges in our minds, the good road appears in the exploration of the environment, if we want to find the right way for us, we do not live in our own minds all the time, but know how to explore in the environment to find.
The best option is to explore
Mr. Lu Xun once said that there is no road in the world, but the more people who walk, the more it becomes a road. The road of life never emerges from the mind, and the real road must be explored through the integration of the environment.
I often hear people consulting with me, teachers, and I am particularly confused, not knowing what I am suitable for, not knowing how to choose.
In this world, except for a few people who have strong talents and know what the path they want to take in their lives, few people have been clear about the path they want to take at a very young age, and this often has a lot to do with our own exploration and personal experience.
And a person wants to choose the right path for themselves, it must go through a lot of will suddenly understand, we call this process the exploration period, the exploration period is a very important stage of our life growth, we through their own exploration, slowly find the right field for themselves, and even find a job suitable for their own life.
One of my teachers once told me that when I was young, I worked in an orchestra and started a business, and then I found that I felt the most when I was doing consulting, and he also slowly found a path that suited him through this period of exploration.
A good life needs to be explored in the environment, and then slowly understand which one we are most suitable to take, and often we can see what our path is through the exploration of the environment.
If we want to explore and choose a path that suits us, we need to explore through life and the environment, and in the process of exploration, you can get out of a path of your own.
Be sure to learn to try and explore
No matter how old a person is, he must learn to try and explore. This exploration and experimentation is a very important step in our self-building.
Yohji Yamamoto once said that the true self needs to collide, and without collision there is no self. The true self is the collision of needs and environments, and we see the birth and birth of a self.
And the ego itself is constantly changing with the environment, the stages. Therefore, in the process of growing up, we must also learn to keep trying and exploring more, which is the inevitable part of our growth, and it is the key to helping us establish a true self in exploration.
In fact, many people's troubles often come from the inner mental biases, the more internal prejudices, then the more troubles, and wisdom can only be produced in the process of trying and exploring.
Therefore, if we want to go out of our own way, it is bound to go through countless explorations and attempts to get out, those who grow up very confused, often more often, the thinking stays in the brain, rather than in practice, and we want to break the confusion, need to return to life, in order to really do it.
What kind of person you want to be, you must understand how much price and effort you need to pay, this is the inevitable of our growth, but also what we need to experience in growth.
If you want to be a top seller, you must love sales. In essence, we need to find our own area of love through inner experimentation, and naturally your life will continue to go uphill.
Do what you like and do to the extreme
So how do we judge whether a road is suitable for us, we can choose two criteria. The first criterion is what you like to do, because you like it, so you will not feel tired when you invest, and you will not think about your own efforts.
True growth is inseparable from the guidance of inner interests, so following the guidance of the heart can often mobilize our great strength. In fact, we often say that everything is difficult at the beginning, and the essence of the difficulty at the beginning is that we have not yet collided with what we are doing, and once we understand the collision, then often our hearts will be all touched.
So following our own inner likes to try, is the key to our breakthrough and the establishment of our own true key, but also to help us find the key to self, this kind of self-finding, is to see our own life enthusiasm is ignited, this enthusiasm can mobilize our life potential, but also help us more confident and courageous to face life.
The second criterion for judging whether this path is right for us is to learn to do what you do to the extreme. In life, you may need to understand that if you want to combine making a living and making love, you must learn to do what you have at hand to the extreme, which is the key to igniting our lives, and let us see the unlimited potential of human beings.
Human potential essentially comes from our seriousness and respect for things, the more serious we are, the more carefully we treat our own works, the more we can find that our potential is released.
In fact, the real road is also the beginning of our serious self-treatment, when you are more attentive in the present, when you are more attentive to your own growth road, you will harvest a continuous bloom of yourself, more can see a better self, and you will naturally come out of a path of your own.
Today's topic: How do you think the path of life is chosen, welcome to discuss and communicate.