Sober, self-disciplined, sensible, aware of the advance and retreat.
If you cannot bear the pain of self-discipline, you will suffer the sin of mediocrity.
Learn to restrain, learn to restrain, learn to let go, and let yourself be better today than yesterday.
If you do it, you are the master of life.
Introduction: Why self-discipline, how do you achieve self-discipline?
Self-discipline is the only path to freedom, and many people live to change the world, and the core of changing the world is to change themselves, and the premise of changing themselves is the self-control of the ascetics and the strict self-discipline under the will.
When we have the power to dominate ourselves and find out what we really love and pursue in our hearts, we can become our true selves.
Incorporate self-discipline into your life and time will give you the best feedback.
We often blame self-discipline for not having enough perseverance, but in fact we struggle to support our self-discipline, fantasizing that such difficult self-discipline will inevitably be rewarded with a rich reward.
Therefore, they will have no choice but to give up because the fitness exercise is not effective for a while.
Will be extremely frustrated because after practicing the speech countless times but still can not answer fluently;
I will also feel confused because I have heard a lot of truths but still can't live this life well...
But as everyone knows, love is the spiritual pillar behind self-discipline, and self-discipline with love support never needs to be painstakingly adhered to.
So what does it mean to be truly passionate? Film director Zhang Xiaobei only answered four words - willing to be ordinary.
When we have tasted the best fruits and seen the worst endings, we can still respect our inner choices, which can be called love.
Because we have love in our hearts, we are always willing to stick to our hearts, so we can cross one obstacle after another that is extremely difficult in the eyes of others, and realize a dream that is almost impossible to come true in the eyes of others.
People always say that the years are a ruthless knife, but they are partial to the talented and beautiful people "under the knife", in fact, it is not the years to see people under the dish, but some people with a heart of love to reshape their lives, but also shake the years.
With outstanding talent and appearance, Wang Lihong, who is only twenty years old, appears in front of the public as a high-quality idol, and fitness, vegetarian food, sports and voice protection are not lost.
Now that Wang Lihong has reached the forty mark, he can still present the audience with wonderful live performances again and again, and the source is not the inducement of fame and fortune, but his persistent love for music.
Good persistence is itself a kind of self-discipline.
We always feel that the success of others comes too easily, if we have the same conditions, we may achieve more brilliant achievements, but in fact, everyone's starting point is almost the same, and few people are born with unique superior conditions.
There are infinite possibilities hidden in a person's self-discipline, and the degree of self-discipline also determines the height of his life.
Japanese writer Haruki Murakami began writing at the age of thirty and has produced a large number of classic literary works in the past four decades.
Haruki Murakami has a special habit of writing, that is, he will stop when he writes four thousand words every day, and he will devote an hour to running, and it is precisely because of this high degree of self-discipline that he has the energy to continue to produce excellent works.
On the other hand, most young people in today's society are not willing to be stuck in their own status quo but do not want to make progress, using popular passages on the Internet to describe it - "indirect hesitation, continuous mixed eating and so on.".
Most of us tend to see only the bright side of others and ignore the almost masochistic efforts these people put into it.
In the early morning of six o'clock, when we were lying in the bed and sleeping lazily, others had already listed the things to be done in the day and began to implement them one by one according to plan.
At ten o'clock in the evening, when we curled up on the couch and browsed the circle of friends with great interest, others checked the completed items in the memo, and did not forget to read a few pages of the book before going to bed.
As mentioned in The Cognitive Breakout: "The root cause of all laziness, indulgence, and lack of self-control lies in limited cognitive abilities." ”
The more self-disciplined a person is, the stronger his cognitive ability is, and the gap between people and people is often gradually opened in this way.
It is not excellent self-discipline, but you self-discipline, will become excellent.
As far as freedom and self-discipline are concerned, the two are closely linked, self-discipline is the premise of freedom, and the pursuit of self-discipline is for greater freedom.
Many people have a stereotype of the term "self-discipline", believing that emphasizing self-discipline forces themselves to obey certain principles and rules, and also means that a certain amount of personal freedom will be compressed, so they are reluctant to talk about it and are even more reluctant to put it into action.
But in fact, the pursuit of self-discipline does not mean living an "ascetic" life, but rather, because the real value of self-discipline is that it can bring deeper freedom and autonomy, allowing us to experience a longer sense of happiness.
The reason why self-disciplined people can successfully control themselves is not because of their ability to passively resist in the face of temptation, but because they can think of their long-term goals when identifying the temptations around them, and they can assess the current situation more abstractly and calmly.
Schrödinger called life "irregular crystallization," arguing that it was a being that was bounded between stability and instability, and that the carrier of this existence was the DNA that was later discovered.
From this we can also deduce that human freedom and liberation are not free from all absolute constraints, but a balance between stability and flexibility.
If we blindly live according to our personal imagination in pursuit of happiness, and do not want to endure a life of pain, suffering and determination, then our life is bound to be incomplete.
There is a saying that the harder you work, the luckier you get,
The more disciplined, the more outstanding.
Text/Lao Xia Analyst
Sometimes, though never met. But they have known each other for a long time, very subtle and contented.