His wife was born in the scenic village of Great Yulin under the Wulian Mountain. There are four sisters and one brother in the family. The limitations of the family situation of the large population, coupled with the fact that the mountain people at that time did not pay much attention to the education of girls. Therefore, my wife dropped out of school without graduating from elementary school. However, the green mountains and rivers under the Five Lotus Mountains still give his wife Qingxiu a beautiful appearance and a kind spirituality.
The wife was clever and clever at an early age, and she was able to share the housework for her parents at a very young age. After dropping out of school, I quickly learned crochet. And the speed at hand made the big sisters praise. Soon she became an integral part of her family's income.
The wisdom of her wife is also reflected in her advanced thinking. The wife found that with the continuous improvement of living standards, young men and women in the countryside are more and more fond of dressing up, and more and more people are making new clothes, and tailoring will be a good profession. Therefore, after discussing my parents buying a sewing machine and looking for a master to learn tailoring, my parents refused: "You must learn how to think of your own way." At that time, the lowest price of a sewing machine was 500 yuan. Crochet also earns five dollars a day, how long can it take to hook a sewing machine? The wife did not embarrass her parents, but made a bold and difficult decision---- to work in Qingdao to earn money to repay her wishes.
It was a winter in 1992, and the cold north wind cut people's faces like knives. Carrying her luggage, my wife braved the bitter cold and left the village. Maybe it was the first time I went out, the moment my wife stepped on the car, my heart suddenly felt confused. Qingdao is such a big city, and there are no relatives, how can you find a job? The kung fu paid off, and after several twists and turns, I finally found a factory with good efficiency. After a few months, the money to buy a sewing machine was enough, how the father was sick again, in order to treat the father and supplement the family, the tailor's dream was once again disappointed. Later, my mother-in-law felt deeply guilty about it, but I never heard a word of complaint from my wife's mouth.
The wife is kind and reasonable.
In 1997, a sunny day was sunny and sunny. My wife dressed in red and became my bride.
Soon after marriage, we separated from the family and began our life of chai rice oil salt sauce vinegar tea. I worked a long day shift at work, and my wife took care of all the work in the family's field. The wife is a woman who is very good at making a living. The house was clean and organized; the ground was well organized and orderly. I didn't do much housework at home, and I did very little work in the fields. I know that all this is due to the hard work and resentment of my wife. I sometimes guiltily said to her, it's really hard for you. My wife always said how tired you were from work on the previous day, I can do the work at home, rest assured. Despite the understatement she said, I could still read from her expression her uncomplaining dedication to the family.
The wife was hardworking and obscure.
In 2004, I had cervical spondylosis, and by that time I had lost my ability to work. I was anxious and bored, and I couldn't wait to die. My wife looked anxious in her eyes, comforting me while seeking medical advice. Accompanied me to many hospitals for examination and treatment. Pretending to be happy in front of me, frowning behind my back. My wife, who usually spends money, picks the freshest fruit for me, buys the best ribs, and cooks my favorite meal. Until my condition improved, my body slowly recovered, and my wife showed the same smiling face as before.
My wife loves me and is sincere.
I have many sisters, all of whom are married to other places. Every time she came back to visit her parents, my wife never forgot the friendship of the landlord and laid out a good table.
Because my family is poor, I usually wrap dumplings and roll out mixed grain noodles, which is a good meal. My wife must have put two bowls for my parents first. The wife said that the parents were old and too lazy to cook, and if we had food, we had to eat the old man.
The mother-in-law suffers from cerebellar atrophy, urinary incontinence, poor stool, and the wife does not complain about urinating. In order to prevent the occurrence of pressure sores, day and night non-stop turning, massage, scrub the body. Day after day, year after year, until my mother-in-law died.
His wife taught Shun and was well-known in a thousand families.
A car accident in 2019 resulted in a serious fracture of his wife's right leg and right arm. Sudden disasters are like bombs, shattering hearts and shattering spirits. Our lives have fallen into the abyss, and our lives have fallen into a trough. I worry that a person who is busy all day and works hard to buy a home, once he loses the ability to work, this blow is the pain of all thoughts! This blow is a world-shattering wound! How does she accept it?!
However, my wife saw my depressed mood and comforted me. Often hold my hand and encourage me affectionately. To say we still have elderly parents, we have a responsibility. Say that we also have a sensible son, and we have hope in the future. We have to cheer up and go on no matter how hard it is. A word is like a lamp in the night, illuminating my heart and illuminating the road under my feet. I saw her gritty gaze and she taught me to be strong!
Later, during the rehabilitation exercise, my wife did not know how many times she fell, and did not know how much sweat flowed because of the strong pain. It was a difficult and long process, and the wife gritted her teeth and persevered. With the unremitting efforts of his wife, his health improved day by day.
The wife is strong and the will is superhuman.
Now that I see my wife more enthusiastic about life, my stress has been released. I don't want to elaborate here on how good wives are, because there is no way to enumerate them. I also don't want to compliment her here because that's not what the wife needs. She needs us to run a home together that doesn't have to be rich, but must be happy. She needs me to be in good health and watch the sunset with her when I'm old.
This is my wife. A gentle and virtuous, a strong-willed rural woman.
Introduction: Tang Yongliang, a native of Wulian, Shandong, loves work and likes words. He has published his studies in newspapers and online media such as Qilu Literature, Huanghai Morning Journal, Writers' Zone, Yi Manuscript, Rizhao Small Novel, etc.
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