The confusion of the group face does not know whether everyone has it or not.
When I met a little friend, he said that he was confused when he met in groups, either he didn't have a chance to speak, or it was his turn to say that the result was unspeakable. This boy has an introverted personality, is not good at words, interviews for product managers, and will be swept away every time he goes to the group.
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When the little friend came to me to cry, I happened to have an appointment to play werewolf killing, so I took him with me.
He had only heard of werewolf killing, and had not yet officially experienced it. I said, shouldn't you first ask the host about the rules of the game. The same is true when the group is faced, the topic comes out, you first need to understand the meaning and purpose of the topic, whether to discuss a point of view, or to solve a project problem, different rules, play is also very different. If at the interview site, confirm the understanding of the topic to the interviewer, it is also a plus, in the formal workplace, the superior issues instructions, the subordinate repeats and confirms the work requirements, which can ensure the understanding of the deviation rate, which is a very good professional habit.
The first role the child drew was an ordinary civilian, because he had not played, the whole process was very rigid, when it was his turn, it was "I am a civilian, I don't know anything", there is no sense of existence. This one, the werewolf wins.
During the review, I asked him how he felt. He said that in fact, the order of his speech was relatively low, and when he heard everyone's statement in the front, he had some speculations and judgments in his heart, but because he was not sure, he did not dare to speak it, one was that the organization was not well organized, and the other was afraid of being blamed by everyone for saying the wrong thing.
I first affirmed him on this point, indicating that he is still engaged in the discussion, thinking, this is the core, as long as there is an idea, boldly output, whether it is right or wrong, the game priest players will be judged according to skill. In the group interview, it is also necessary to express it with all its strength, because it did not get the leader position, that as an ordinary team member, it is rare to have a point of view, it must be heard, this is the expression of its own sense of existence, if the point of view is unique, it is a plus. If you have been hesitant and entangled, have always felt that you can't wait for the right time to express, the result of the group interview to the end of the later, the whole process did not say a few words, naturally faced with the fate of being eliminated.
Second, the role drawn by the child is the prophet, which is the core role of the werewolf killing, he is more nervous, very much want to let everyone believe in his killing, impatiently reveal his identity, and sure enough, he was quickly knifed by the werewolf at night. In fact, in the group interview, it is easy to get the interviewer's attention to the role of effectively organizing everyone to discuss and analyze on the field, and to do a good job in the "project management" of this temporary project, but it must first be calmly thinking, not much, and incisive, if you do not think of a good idea, you will speak randomly, and where you think about it, it may lead to the whole scene getting out of control. Therefore, choosing leader is also a double-edged sword.
The child has a good understanding, after my click, gradually into a better state, the back play more and more smoothly, after the game is over, he seems to find a little feeling. After a few weeks, he excitedly told me that he had won the first place through the interview, especially in the group interview, and in the next round of the interview of the department boss, he was praised for having a clear thinking and a team management thinking.
I smiled and asked him, will you come to play werewolf killing in the future, the little boy confidently replied to me, not only to come, but also to fight for every god card or wolf card to play flowers, and finally canonize the god!