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In the era of materialism, true love seems to have become a scarce commodity, which can be encountered but not sought.
Fast-paced life, the beginning and end of the relationship seems to be accelerating, and couples who were still immersed in love in the past have become strangers in a month or two, and such stories are not uncommon.
If you don't love, the strange road will not make people feel much regret, but what makes people feel uncomfortable is that they love each other deeply but unfortunately miss it, and when they meet again, all they leave is a sigh.
When I was young, I thought that as long as I loved each other, I could be together. However, after experiencing feelings, I learned that love cannot be kept together, which is the norm in the world.
There are many people, when they meet true love, do not understand, can only taste the pain of missing for the rest of their lives.
In fact, if you encounter true love in this life, people will have three kinds of induction, each of which is very strong. If you have already met such a person, you must cherish it and do not regret it for life after missing out.
One: the induction of the body: unconsciously want to get close to each other
In front of strangers, it is normal to keep your bodies at a distance.
For example, sitting in a car, the arm of a stranger accidentally touches his arm, and he will generally subconsciously avoid it. When you get a little closer to a stranger, you feel uncomfortable.
These are normal because people have a sense of territory.
But one day, there was such a person, although it was the first time to meet, there was no sense of strangeness, looking at the hand that was stretched out to shake hands with you, you shook it for the first time without rejection, and even there was a little joy in your heart.
I have to admit that when encountering true love, the body is more honest than the heart, and the reaction is faster.
The first acquaintance with other strangers is the end, and his first acquaintance, but hopes that this is only the beginning. Perhaps the waves of feelings have not yet been flooded in the heart, but in the usual contact, but unconsciously want to be close to each other, you have always adhered to social distancing, and you have also begun to have exceptions for him.
This kind of physical induction, for no reason, is so real.
Just imagine, if it is a person you don't want to go near, or even if he touches you, you feel uncomfortable, then how can you possibly continue?
When encountering true love, the induction of the body is the most intuitive. Physical non-rejection provides the possibility for the development of feelings in the future, and two people have this strong physical reaction, and true love can have the soil for survival.
Second: psychological induction: not necessarily heartwarming, but certain peace of mind
For you and me, who have long gone through the throbbing of youth, the good feelings for a person are no longer the fascination with appearance, and the blush heartbeat when we meet. That heart-pounding feeling is already a rare and long-standing existence.
But because of this, many people believe that the feeling of heartbeat represents the arrival of true love.
When you meet true love, do you have to be the deer in your heart? In the adult world, only by being insulted can you cope with the challenges in life, and the inner waves have long been calm.
At such a time, if you still think that two people are in love, the heartbeat is the signal of the beginning, and it is really easy to miss true love.
Know that true love is not just a heartbeat, but a kind of peace of mind and concentration.
It is a kind of firmness that even if he is not with the other party, he will not have the slightest doubt; it is a kind of trust that even if he has many friends of the opposite sex around him, he will not be insecure because of it.
The heartbeat is only a temporary feeling, but the peace of mind is lasting. Feelings are fleeting, while peace of mind can be preserved forever. Don't take a momentary good feeling as true love, if it is true love, you will feel solid and stable.
Three: the induction of the soul: mutual attraction, two-way rushing
The word two-way rush has long become the appearance of love in the eyes of many people. But many people's understanding of two-way travel only stays in the good feeling that this word brings to people, and they have not thought about where this beauty comes from.
What really attracts a person is not physical contact, nor is it simply a feeling, but the mutual attraction of souls.
After truly understanding each other, the attraction generated by those souls can allow the two to go deep into each other's world, such as the fit of the three views and the precious qualities in him, which will allow you to complete the two-way rush between you and finally harvest true love.
People who have seen too many people, in order to prove their feelings for each other, no matter how far apart, will try to get closer to each other.
But in doing so, it may not be able to prove true love, because true love does not need to be deliberately proved, it will withstand the test of time, and it will withstand the test of distance.
When two people maintain a tacit understanding and trust each other, whether they are together or not, they will let this love last.
If you meet such a person in your life, you unconsciously want to be close, make you feel at ease, make you be deeply attracted and willing to give, then you must understand that this is your inner strong feeling of true love, do not miss true love because of some wrong cognition.
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