Introduction
When it comes to socializing, everyone's needs are different.
Some people like to make all kinds of friends, and some people prefer to be alone.
The following 4 butterflies, which one do you think is the most beautiful, to test whether you are a gregarious person.
Come and test it!
Feel free to leave your answers and feelings in the comments section!
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Test results (for entertainment only)
If you choose A, the social index is 60%. You are a person with leadership skills, and in the group, you often play the role of a big brother and big sister. Taking care of others is a happy thing for you, because it will make you feel more strong inside yourself. You also have a lot of people around you who are willing to play with you, because it usually feels easy to get along with you. You don't argue with others because you're a person who knows how to be tolerant of others.
If you choose B, the social index is 20%. You are a very independent person. You have your own mind, and the herd is rarely happening to you. Even if many people blindly follow things, you will make judgments based on the actual situation. To others, you seem to be a very calm person, because you are not willing to interfere in other people's affairs. For you, being yourself is the most important thing. Self-growth is much more important to you than broadening your circle of friends.
If you choose C, the social index is 40%. You're not someone who will make friends casually, and you have your own set of criteria for making friends. For example, whether there are common interests and no common ideas. You don't like meaningless socializing because you don't want to waste your time on things that aren't worth it. For some people, you may look like a two-faced person, because your enthusiasm level will vary greatly in front of different people. Of course, you won't resist meeting new people, but it usually takes a while to build trust with you.
You are a very enthusiastic person, and in the eyes of your friends, enthusiasm and cheerfulness are simply synonymous with you. Even if you're facing a stranger, you'll show your enthusiasm. After all, don't say anything, don't do anything, and it's weird and awkward for two people to stay still. You are friendly to people and will easily release your kindness. In this way, you will also attract a lot of people who are willing to make friends with you. You are also very willing to help others, even if the other party is not very familiar with you, but you can help, usually you will actively help others.
summary
Many people like to measure a person's social qualities by the number of friends.
But everyone's social needs are different.
Choosing the right way to socialize according to your own needs can enhance your happiness in life.
Studying psychology is a process of understanding yourself.
May we all know ourselves better and happier ^0^