Mencius said: Therefore, the heavens will send down great responsibilities to man, and he will first suffer his mind, strain his bones, starve his body, empty his body, and mess up his deeds, so he will be tempted to endure and benefit what he cannot.
Everyone who comes into this world comes with a mission. Before we accept the task and complete the task, we have to go through some tribulations and pains.
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Don't go through the pain of breaking the cocoon, where there is a dance after becoming a butterfly
Breaking the cocoon into a butterfly is the pain of tearing off a layer of skin, but if it does not go through the pain of tempering, it will not live to live the colorful splendor of life.
Biologists say that when the moth changes from pupa to cocoon, its wings shrink and are very soft; when it breaks out of the cocoon, it must go through a painful struggle, and the bodily fluids in the body can flow to the wings, and the wings can be strong and strong to support it to fly in the air.
One day a man happened to see a cocoon on a tree that began to move, as if a moth was about to break out of it, and he was very interested in seeing the process of changing from pupa to moth.
But as time passed a little, he became impatient, only to see the moth struggling in the cocoon, twisting the cocoon around, but he could not break free of the cocoon' shackles, and it seemed that it was impossible to break out of the cocoon again.
Finally, his patience ran out, so he used a small pair of scissors to cut a small hole in the silk on the cocoon, so that the moth could come out easier.
Sure enough, in a few moments, the moth easily crawled out of the cocoon, but its body was very bloated, its wings were unusually atrophied, and it could not stretch on either side.
He waited for the moth to fly, but the moth just stumbled and crawled, unable to fly, and after a while it died.
Like moths, people's growth must go through painful struggles until their wings are strong, and they can fly high.
Every good person has a time of silence. During that time, how much effort was made, how much loneliness they endured, but they did not complain, did not complain, the central acid was known only to themselves, but when they talked about it later, even they themselves would be moved by it.
Through these you will understand that the process of growing up is bound to be accompanied by some pain, which is the prelude to being tall and strong, and in the process, either experiencing some setbacks or a thousand turns or thrilling, you will eventually understand the fact that all exercise is just a repetition, a lesson that we have not yet learned.
So we have to learn to dance with suffering so that we can see the nature of the source of suffering and understand the inner truth. More importantly, it allows us to learn the lessons we should learn.
Many people are afraid of adversity, but in fact, adversity is a necessary process for us to grow, and only those who have the courage to accept adversity will grow stronger and stronger.
Our life needs to choose, our life also needs to transform, every time suffering strikes, facing choice and abandonment, we must have enough courage to change ourselves, only in this way can we get a more wonderful life.
Only by growing up in adversity can we truly transform from a cocoon into a butterfly. Life is not smooth sailing. If a person has been sailing smoothly, his life is colorless and without tension.
The colors of life are painted and painted by us, and a person who strives to live, the colors he paints are always brilliant and colorful.
I don't know when I'll be a butterfly, but I've been trying.
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