Advice to honest people who have no heart and eyes: There are two types of people, the farther away the better
There is a saying that "a man is good and is deceived, and a horse is good to be ridden." ”
There is always such a type of person in life, who is enthusiastic and has a straight heart.
If someone says two nice things to him, or intentionally or unintentionally helps him, he is grateful to Dade and gives 100% sincerity.
As a result, in the end, the effort is not flattering, not to say, but also to make it difficult for themselves to ride the tiger, in the end a piece of sincerity, but only in exchange for others to deceive and use.
My friend Zhang Lei is a particularly honest person, he has a good buddy Wang Yang, and the two are colleagues of the same unit.
Not long ago, Zhang Lei met a girl on a blind date, the girl is not particularly beautiful, but she looks beautiful and sweet, and belongs to the more attractive type.
Once when several of our friends had dinner, Zhang Leite brought his girlfriend Xiaoli to let us know.
Xiao Li is a very shy and quiet girl, who has been quietly staying by Zhang Lei's side during meals.
Because it was the first time we met, we were afraid of frightening other people's girlfriends, and we didn't dare to make a mistake, and we ate a meal quite quietly.
Wang Yang did not come until we had eaten nearly half of our meals because of a temporary affair, and the atmosphere of the whole audience immediately became active as soon as he came.
He always tried to chat with Xiaoli, and Xiaoli was a little restrained at first, and slowly began to talk and laugh with him.
Looking at his girlfriend and buddies so warm, although Zhang Lei was a little uncomfortable in his heart, he still did not show anything in order to be jealous of everyone.
However, an incident that happened not long after made Zhang Lei and Wang Yang directly turn against each other.
Zhang Lei and Xiao Li only talked about love for less than two months, and Xiao Li proposed to break up, but what was even more surprising was that the reason why they broke up was that Xiao Li was in love with Wang Yang.
Zhang Lei also learned at this time that Wang Yang privately added Xiaoli WeChat after that dinner, and always chatted with Xiaoli from time to time.
Zhang Lei also jokingly asked Wang Yang about Xiaoli privately, and Wang Yang told him that Xiaoli was not his favorite type, which reassured him.
In addition, there is another more speechless thing, originally the promotion quota set by their company was Zhang Lei, but when it was about to be announced, it was replaced by Wang Yang.
Zhang Lei knew that the thing that Wang Yang was busy with all day before was to take the relationship and replace his own promotion, and the thing he wanted to promote was what Zhang Lei told Wang Yang privately.
It turned out that wang yang, his good friend whom he thought, had always been inconsistent with him, ostensibly calling him a brother and a brother, but behind his back, he had been calculating him.
And Zhang Lei is too real to encounter such misfortune.
Therefore, I would like to advise all honest people like Zhang Lei that not all people are worthy of your friendship, nor are all people worth your sincerity.
These two types of people in life, the farther away the better.
Voltaire once said: "The little man is arrogant, and the little water is loud." ”
Deeply.
In reality, people who are truly capable are often hidden, and only those who are dissatisfied with a bottle and a half bottle are dangling will be arrogant.
Such people tend to be too egotistical, and their fellowship with people is more of a show off of themselves, and they look down on anyone from the bottom of their hearts.
Those who are stronger than them think that others rely on improper means; those who are worse than them, they think that others are too useless and cannot be put on the table.
To achieve a little achievement is to be complacent and complacent, and I wish the whole world knew about it.
Every day is also full of pleasure in showing off yourself and hitting others.
With such people, you will gradually lose self-confidence under the influence of their blows, and you will feel more tired.
There is no benefit in copulating with such people except asking for trouble, so even if you are honest and have no heart, you must get better and better away from such people.
The story of the farmer and the snake, I believe everyone has heard it.
It is estimated that many people think that the farmer is too stupid to help a poisonous snake to keep warm, but in reality, such "stupid people" are not in the minority.
I have a colleague who lent her friend 4,000 yuan, but her friend never paid it back, and every time she plucked up the courage to ask for money, her friend would laugh at her careful eyes.
Isn't this a realistic version of the story of the farmer and the snake?
When you have an urgent need, people lend you money, it is out of good intentions, and when you ask for money, not only do you not pay it back, but you also laugh at people's careful eyes, what is the difference between such behavior and the poisonous snake that bites the farmer?
In reality, there are often many people who love to take advantage of others and love to trouble others, but when others have something to ask him for help, he hides farther than anyone.
What's more, not only did they not help, but they also watched the fire from the other side and said cool words.
Such a person is too selfish and selfish, with only himself in his eyes and no one else.
They associate with people only for their own benefit, and when they are profitable, he flatters you, and when it is not profitable, he hides faster than anyone.
Such a person is like a mouse in a porridge pot, which makes people sick to their stomachs, and naturally the less they make friends, the better.
Life is indispensable to deal with all kinds of people, and it is inevitable to be "pitted" by others.
Especially for honest people with simple minds, they are often too easy to trust others, and it is easy to pour out their hearts and lungs at others.
I advise you to be honest, before you give your heart, you must polish your eyes, if you encounter these two kinds of people above, you must be as far away as possible.
Finally, I hope that everyone can meet quality friends and have a high quality life.
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