Sun Yat-sen was a famous Chinese revolutionary who studied for the rise of China and has always been committed to saving a declining China, which has been admired by countless people.
Most people mention Sun Yat-sen and talk about his spouse Soong Ching-ling, but few people know that before marrying Soong Ching-ling, Dr. Sun Yat-sen had a confidant with a red face who had been with him for many years, and she was Chen Pufang.
It can be said that Chen Pufang's best years in life were used to accompany Sun Yat-sen, but when it came to achieving fame, this person who had been obsessed for more than 20 years did not hesitate to leave Sun Yat-sen, what was the reason for her to make this choice?
At the end of the Qing Dynasty, due to the incompetence of the Qing government, most of the land in China was occupied by others, who burned and plundered without evil, and the people did not have a good life. So some of the quick-witted people moved to Hong Kong with their families, including Chen's father.
In 1873, Chen Pufang was born in this era of gunfire, and although Chen Pufang could not live a princess-like life at this time, she still had the care of her parents in the end, and her life was also passable.
But soon her life was broken because of the death of her parents, without the care of her parents, Chen Pufang also lived a poor life, in the age of sitting in the classroom to study, she can only run for her livelihood.
But the cruel life did not bring the girl down, even in the face of a hard life, she still became a good person, she should have lived a plain and smooth life, until she met Sun Yat-sen.
In 1892, the 17-year-old Chen Pufang met Sun Yat-sen under the introduction of Chen Shaobai. At this time, the girl did not yet understand what Sun Yat-sen's so-called revolution was, but when the man described the splendid rivers and mountains for her in words, she was unconsciously attracted.
Beauty loves heroes, and that's a matter of course. Chen Pufang looked at this sparkling young man and jumped onto the road of revolution without hesitation, even though she understood that their actions were very likely to endanger their lives, she had no remorse.
It can be said that Sun Yat-sen was the guide of Chen Pufang's revolution, but when she really got close to the revolution, she really liked this cause, and she hoped that she could make even a little contribution to the revolution of the Chinese nation with her weak strength.
Revolution has never been an easy task, and throughout the ages revolutions have been accompanied by a great deal of bloodshed. But Chen Pufang has never flinched, and the revolution is not only the dream of her beloved, but also her dream.
The ancient Chinese Mulan, who was very strict in etiquette, could still serve in the army for her father, so why couldn't Chen Pufang join the revolution now? Chen Pufang must not only participate, but also do the best.
In 1895, the Xingzhong Association originally intended to revolt, but some people were exposed, and they were quickly caught by the Qing government, and the weapons they purchased were also taken away, fortunately, as a woman, Chen Pufang's mind was delicate, and a batch of arms was divided and placed, which saved the fate of being a pot.
In many of Sun Yat-sen's revolutions, chen pufang has a shadow, in the revolutionary cause, they are comrades-in-arms, and in life, Chen Pufang is also a qualified partner.
Since following Sun Yat-sen, Chen Pufang began to take care of Sun Yat-sen's life, and during the exile period, she took on the responsibility of a wife, not only washing and cooking for Sun Yat-sen, but also taking care of his friends.
However, she did so much, but never asked Sun Yat-sen to respond, she understood that she was just an ordinary person, being able to stay with Sun Yat-sen had been the luck accumulated for several lifetimes, as for being with Sun Yat-sen, she did not want to think or dare to think.
Time was the only test of truth, and finally in 1912, the decadent Qing government was overthrown and Sun Yat-sen became the interim president.
Many people think that after guarding Sun Yat-sen for so many years, Chen Pufang should also see hope. But no one expected that this girl, who had loved Sun Yat-sen for so long, actually left without a word.
Chen Pufang left Sun Yat-sen for the simple reason that she did not think she deserved Sun Yat-sen.
In order not to let others misunderstand Sun Yat-sen, she deliberately explained that it was because she had completed her dream, so she chose to leave, and had nothing to do with Sun Yat-sen. Even if he left, Chen Pufang did not want anyone to misunderstand Sun Yat-sen.
In fact, Chen Pufang's approach is easy to understand, the poor family she has an inferiority complex very early, in the face of Sun Yat-sen, she naturally bowed her head, so she will call herself a washerwoman, that is, self-deprecating, but also the true portrayal of her heart.
When Sun Yat-sen was still a person who struggled on the road of revolution, Chen Pufang could accompany Sun Yat-sen with peace of mind.
However, when Sun Yat-sen became famous, Chen Pufang knew in her heart that she was not worthy of Sun Yat-sen, so she would choose to leave, perhaps she had spent so many years, and she had no name and no name to follow Sun Yat-sen for so long, but this was her willingness.
She is also a girl who also wants to be with the person she loves deeply, but her lover is Sun Yat-sen, a national hero, who deserves a better partner than a wife from a poor family who has not gone to school, and Sun Yat-sen should not have a stain on his body.
Chen Pufang left extraordinarily freely, but who knows if this girl cried bitterly in the silent and deserted night? She pushed her lover away with her own hands.
In 1915, Sun Yat-sen married Soong Ching-ling, and after learning the news, Chen Pufang appeared very calm, smiled and blessed them, but can so many years of love really be said to put it down? I don't think so.
If she really let go, then why did she cry bitterly after Sun Yat-sen's death? Chen Pufang is not unloving, but she lives too soberly and understands the gap between the two too well, so she quietly buried her love. Then watch the person you love deeply hold someone else's hand and spend the rest of your life together.
From being within reach to the other side of the world, Chen Pufang personally erased his love of more than twenty years, and the pain in this is self-evident.
After Sun Yat-sen's death, the Sun family took her over, and although Sun Yat-sen did not give Chen Pufang the name, in their hearts Chen Pufang was Sun Yat-sen's wife.
If Chen Pufang had a superior family at the beginning, then her and Sun Yat-sen's ending might have been different, but unfortunately there was no if, when she met Sun Yat-sen, the two were different, so she did not dare to have expectations for these, nor did she have the courage to be with Sun Yat-sen.
As for whether Sun Yat-sen liked Chen Pufang or not, perhaps he had liked it, after all, if there was really no trace of feeling, how could he let this girl accompany him for so many years. Unfortunately, in the end, Chen Pufang left, Sun Yat-sen married Soong Qingling, and there was no longer any possibility between the two.
If you are well, it is a sunny day, which is probably the truest portrayal in Chen Pufang's heart!