The only reason you're afraid to get married is because you haven't met the right person. Initiative is humble, affection is licking the dog; love at first sight is an uprising, and long-term affection is a trade-off. It seems that everything we do is wrong, but what is wrong is not us, we just happen not to be loved.
In the movie' thuds, Bryce initially hates the assistant, the rustic girl,for her little eyes, jagged teeth, messy hair and freckles on her face, and even the eggs she's sent. There seemed to be a smell of earth; but later when he discovered the bright spot in Julie and fell in love with her, she became the only one in his eyes as beautiful as a rainbow; so did you find it? In the eyes of those who love us, we blow our noses with unusual elegance, and in the eyes of those who do not love, even breathing is wrong.
Recently, a girl from the company was pursued by a boy. He often ordered snacks, milk tea ice cream, and would pick her up downstairs after work. But when she saw the boy, she always frowned and avoided him. I jokingly asked him why he was so upset, wasn't he nice to you? The little girl told me very seriously that I didn't like her, and yes, I didn't like her. Precisely because she does not like it, those normal actions are also a burden in her eyes; it is precisely because she does not like the affection of boys that it will become the enthusiasm she avoids; the reason why licking the dog is licking the dog is not the fault of affection and pay, but the knowing that there is no response, as well as the deep affection of self-care and bottomless pay. There are too many people in this world who are willing to wait, but most of the people who wait for the ship at the airport are useless.
I can bear anything and am willing to do anything because I like you; but you don't like me, and what I do is in vain. In fact, when you're in a relationship, you need to understand that when you don't get a response, he's not worth consuming himself. Just like a watch can't go wrong, then every second of it is wrong. But if it stops, at least twice a day it is right, meaning that a sober stay is better than a blind advance; Forrest Gump has a line: I am not smart, but I know what love is. So love is actually very simple and easy to understand.
Love is little woman Riccione repeatedly tells Ted that if we get married, it will be a disaster. I am a clumsy, eccentric and simple person. But Ted still took his hand and said: I can't love anyone, I only love you. Love is SpongeBob SquarePants Pie Star is grumbling at another sponge, square body front teeth stupid tie, but he turned his head and told SpongeBob to put it on you, I think it looks good. Love doesn't require you to have a shiny suit and shoes, and you don't need to be nice to him to get feedback; love doesn't talk about giving and gaining. Love is two people who naturally approach, and the hearts of two people who naturally approach gradually come closer. Sometimes it's really painful for people we like not to like ourselves, but love is not the stars and the moon in the sky or some big scene, love is the occasional dissatisfaction, there are 7 billion people on the earth, there are always someone climbing the moon for you. You have to understand that there is nothing wrong with your love and waiting, giving and missing, it's just that the person is wrong, you're not licking the dog, you're just not lucky, not being loved well.
You have to believe that there will always be times when you are lucky, and that someone will love you because of you, just because you are you. Even across three thousand trees and six hundred rivers, you can hear his heartbeat as he watches you, he will come, you have to wait.