Most people will feel that men only like beautiful girls, because many men only like the appearance of girls, and when they see girls look beautiful, men can ignore everything else, so everyone feels that men are only interested in beautiful girls.
We can't deny this, the reason is that men do like beautiful girls, but not only men, when we see the same sex or the opposite sex with an advantage in appearance, we will also actively observe each other, and even be attracted to the other party's appearance.
Since this is the case, then there is no need to ridicule men, after all, many women are also good-looking animals. In the face of this conclusion, some people may want to refute it, because in today's society, there are more and more temptations about women, so men inevitably can't hold on, once so, then what energy does men have to think about anything else?
If you don't want to believe it, then you might as well look at a real case that happened around us, and after reading this case, you will understand that when men find a marriage partner, they don't just like women's "appearance".
The 34-year-old Wang Song works in a high-tech company, and in the eyes of outsiders, Wang Song is handsome and golden, his work and career are very stable, and he is a marriage object that women like. Whenever they think of this, female colleagues are very envious of Wang Song's girlfriend, and they all feel that this woman has stepped on luck to find such an excellent boyfriend.
In fact, the girlfriend who is envied by everyone is not easy, because she and Wang Song have been together for more than two years, and Wang Song has never mentioned the marriage, so this girlfriend is very troubled. In order for the two to get married smoothly, the girlfriend once again proposed to Wang Song to get married, but she did not expect that this time he directly refused, and also proposed to break up.
Seeing that Wang Song rejected herself, her girlfriend did not understand very much, she thought to herself: she is just 22 years old this year, she looks very beautiful, this man who is 12 years older than himself, what reason does he have to refuse to marry her? In this regard, Wang Song said: Although she is young and beautiful, she has 4 fatal shortcomings, and these 4 shortcomings are enough for him not to accept the other party.
In the face of this answer, the girlfriend is even more angry, she does not understand why Wang Song would rather break up and be a leftover man than continue to talk to her about love and marriage, for which Wang Song explained four reasons:
Empty has a appearance
When he first met his girlfriend, Wang Song also especially liked this little girlfriend, because the little girlfriend was young and beautiful, and she was very good at dressing herself, and whenever he took his girlfriend out to socialize, he would always gain the envious eyes of others, so Wang Song was still very proud in his heart.
However, the longer they spent together, the more Wang Song found that the girlfriend who could make him proud was just a little girl with an empty appearance. Although he was young and beautiful, being young and beautiful was her only advantage, and apart from that, she didn't have anything to praise.
For example, when he brought his girlfriend to socialize once, the girlfriend actually said a simple question to the customer, and he didn't know how to ask it. Hearing that his girlfriend could not answer, Wang Song was very embarrassed, because this problem had nothing to do with work, it was just a small common sense in life, but his girlfriend did not even know this problem, so Wang Song was inevitably a little embarrassed.
Afterwards, Wang Song took the initiative to propose to his girlfriend that she give up the work of fishing and drying nets for three days to let her learn more things, but she bluntly refused, and also claimed that beauty is the biggest weapon for women, so Wang Song felt that the other party only had an empty appearance.
I don't know how to be motivated
Although this girl is very beautiful, Wang Song increasingly believes that this kind of beauty cannot be eaten as a meal. Because his girlfriend does not have any particularly reliable job, often changing one at both ends of the three days, and even living by borrowing money, Wang Song feels that his girlfriend is becoming more and more unmotivated.
In order to change this situation for his girlfriend, Wang Song once took the initiative to introduce his girlfriend to a job and even let her enter his own company. At the beginning, although the girlfriend promised to do so, each time it was less than a month after working, she took the initiative to submit a resignation application, as for the reason, the girlfriend said that it was too hard.
For this attitude of his girlfriend, Wang Song still does not understand in his heart, after all, now the social pressure is increasing, whether married or not, women should be motivated. Because only in this way can we gain a foothold in the family and society, so the girlfriend's loose attitude has completely broken Wang Song's illusion of marriage.
Third, life and personality are seriously inappropriate
If he is only a little lazy, Wang Song feels that he is still acceptable, after all, he works at a high level and can get hundreds of thousands of annual salaries every year, and it is not a problem to support his girlfriend. However, in addition to this, Wang Song also found that the lives and personalities of the two people were seriously inappropriate.
Perhaps because the girlfriend is too young, so the girlfriend especially likes the hustle and bustle of the environment, such as bars, night clubs, these are the girlfriend's favorite places, and even here will not return home. But Wang Song is different, he has to run for life every day, but also has to face a lot of pressure at work, so he lives very hard every day.
In this state, the girlfriend also pulled Wang Song to jump together, and even let Wang Song fall asleep at four or five o'clock in the morning and get up at 7 o'clock in the morning to go to work. At first, Wang Song was still a little excited, feeling that he was young, but after a long time, Wang Song found himself more and more reluctant to deal with his girlfriend, and even a little wanted to escape from each other.
At this time, Wang Song understood that the life habits and personalities of two people were seriously inappropriate, even if two people forcibly married, this inappropriateness would not change.
Fourth, it affects married life and is unable to take care of the family and children
Regarding the impact on married life, Wang Song is most worried about his girlfriend's inability to take care of the family and children, although he can now take care of his girlfriend, but when the two people get married, the matter of having children will definitely be on the agenda. But now that the girlfriend can't even take care of herself, how can she expect him to take care of the family and children after marriage?
You know, in a marriage, if two people do not pay together, but only one party struggles, then the relationship will have problems sooner or later. Now two people have to face this state, and the girlfriend is not willing to change at all, so Wang Song feels that after the two people get married, they will be a mess.
In addition, when it comes to educating children, girlfriends are not up to the task. Although the other party is considered to be a college graduate, but during the school period has been fooling around, after graduation and refuse to work well, so why does Wang Song expect the other party?
epilogue:
After reading the four major shortcomings proposed by Wang Song, everyone may feel very agreeable, because from these 4 points, these two people are really not very suitable, so it is no wonder that Wang Song would rather break up and be a single leftover man than continue to interact with each other.
It is precisely because of this that we hereby advise girls that we hope that you will not continue to regard beauty as your only advantage, otherwise you will regret it in the end.