In the high school entrance examination and the college entrance examination, some candidates play abnormally and regret for life, and some candidates perform abnormally, what are they missing?
There are so many kinds of people about exams, and the first type of people are usually very powerful, and their test scores are very stable. The second type of person is usually very powerful, and he can't do it in an exam, and the third type of person is usually average, and he performs exceptionally in an exam.
So why are these three very different situations occurring? The answer is a two-word mentality: mentality.
In the hearts of most candidates, they may think that hard work is the most important thing, so they often ignore the psychological dredging and guidance. The review before the exam itself is already very anxious, and if you don't pay attention to and guide it mentally at this time, it is very likely that there will be a second state, and you won't be able to do it once you take the exam.
Why is mindset so important? Let's start with a story.
Once upon a time, there was a performance artist who was good at walking a tightrope, no matter how high or far, as long as he was given a bamboo pole, he could walk on the ground. World-famous, it has never missed a shot for decades. But one day his wife knew that something was going to happen to him the next day. Why did his wife make such a judgment? Because the artist has been calm and unhurried for decades. However, when he came back that day, he was very excited and said to his wife: "It is a great honor that the president will come to see my performance tomorrow." I have to behave well and don't miss a beat.
His wife wanted to stop him, but it was impossible because the itinerary was already scheduled. She could only pray silently in her heart. The next day, the bad news came from her husband, who accidentally fell from a high altitude and died during the performance.
The murderer of the artist is the mentality. In normal times, the artist relaxes his mind, so he is safe and sound for decades and can play at a normal level. But once he cares about this matter very much, his attention will be diverted, and he will desperately remind himself to be careful, which will affect his normal performance.
Going back to the topic we just had, why do some candidates do very well in normal times, but they do poorly in every exam? It's because of the mentality.
I have a colleague whose son's grades are usually very good, eight points higher than our daughter's mock exam, but when the official high school entrance examination results came out, my daughter was eight points higher than him. I was curious, how did the 16-point gap come about? Later, when we talked inadvertently, I found that his son was trembling when he took the college entrance examination, because he knew that this exam was too important, and he told himself vigorously: I want to do well in the exam, I want to do well in the exam, but my hands just don't listen to the call, and I can't even write. As a result, my performance was seriously abnormal, and I missed the good school I wanted.
And we attach great importance to the psychological counseling before the exam, and will try our best to relax her mentality, telling her that life is not only about the exam, as long as you do your best, no matter what the result is, we will be happy for you. Relax your mind and treat it with a normal heart. As a result, I was very relaxed during the exam, far beyond my usual level, and was admitted to a prestigious school.
Everyone wants to be the first kind of person, but this kind of person is very rare, and it is rare, why? for he will take advantage of the right people at all times. Mental health should be especially important.
Finally, I wish the majority of candidates can perform exceptionally and achieve good results!
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